It's all about the people, 'bout the people (no treble!)
It's all the wonderful group members such as yourselves which make these events the fabulousness that they are. Your constant commitment, your willingness to come along and try new things and share the best of who you are is unparalleled! You are all so kind, so brilliant, so generous, so loving, so wise... I could go on forever! What I love so much, is when someone has a question or an issue and everyone (metaphorically) runs round and gives support, advice and love. To be able to be who you are and express yourself without fear of judgement can be an incredibly rare thing in the regular world, so I really to try encourage that vibe. A few minutes spent with a supportive stranger can change your life- it did mine!
This is one of the most powerful things out there! You have both the theory AND practical parts!
What I like about the groups is that we have the two foldedness of vibration upliftment here. You have the social aspect which also involves the theory side- learning from each other. The other incredible component is the practical techniques. I try to bring as many different tools, techniques and variations as I can each time in the hope that you'll find something at some point which works. Also, listening to each other's experiences and seeing how everyone else does their processes is invaluable, especially for the beginners who don't know where to start.
This shit works!!!
It really does! I have seen it time and time again and have experienced it for myself- which is why I'm so passionate about teaching it and helping anyone I can who will listen.
And this shit can work fast!!!
I have seen people and their lives change in as little as one Meetup! It is tremendous- the way they look, the confidence with which they carry themselves, the alignment that occurs is truly mind blowing and so great to see! Whilst I would like to take all the credit for that, it's more what they go away and do after the meeting that's what counts, because trust me, some will think it's a pile of poo and will see no change!
It's about feeling good first and foremost not getting the stuff! Being aware is key and try to do some regular practise.
How you feel should be everything. Manifestations are secondary, it's all about feeling better/as good as you can. When you get your head around this and make it your priority to be aware and then try to shift to a more positive mindset, now we're talking! If you can, do some daily techniques- it's so helpful! You're not to be happy all time and don't hold yourself to such impossible standards. But you can definitely feel better when you're ready, that is important.
Some will love you, others will hate you. But you just gotta dust it off and keep doing the good work you do!!!
For the most part, there is a tremendously positive response to the groups. If only just cos the people are just so lovely! However, some people really haven't liked what I've presented to them! You can't please everyone and you just have to let it go and carry on! This is a piece of advice I always give to anyone doing their own group, business or who's putting themselves out there. You just have to keep at it regardless of if they like or hate you! As there will always be those on either side.
Be mindful not to listen to the haters too much. As Abe says- those who hardest to please are usually completely unpleasable so don't even try to bother to bend yourself in ways to please them. I've maintained that I'd rather be divisive than insipid- i.e. I'd rather someone love my work or really dislike it than be a lukewarm 'meh' about it!
And you never know how you may impact someone. I did some work with a group member at the very beginning, I didn't see them for a while so had no idea how they were, it was only a few months later that I caught up with them and they had manifested the thing we had worked on!
Be vulnerable, be open, be out there (especially if you're freelancing and the like), just be you!
I'm usually a private person, as a strong introvert I'm not a fan of putting myself out there, being showy or boastful. But I'm an open book when it comes to this work. I'm happy to share what works for me and my experiences with LOA because I truly believe this works! I like to think people can pick up on this transparency. I very much appreciate the way Abe are completely open about Esther and Jerry's adventures, foibles and strengths.
Only you can do it in your way, just be aligned with it!
Sometimes I hear doubt from a person about whether what they have to offer (teaching, coaching, business, product etc) is any good and why should they offer it? You have to believe in yourself/what you have to offer. No one else has lived the life that you have or had the experiences you've lived and you are not alone (usually lol) in your issues! This makes you an authority on those subjects. I know LOA, I know travel and a bit about other areas of life, but other things I haven't experienced or have the foggiest about! Offer what you can and be aligned with it. When IBM ruled the world, computers were impersonal monolithic things. Apple and Jobs came along and were determined to bring the personal touch to computing and have since taken over the world many times in many ways! They had such alignment and passion with what they did, it carried them forward.
Do it for the experience and let the rest go. You may 'fail', you may succeed, but in any case you'll be expanding! Just keep committed to growing and learning. JUST KEEP GOING!
I've always thought to do things purely for the experience, just to try it and see how it goes. I have done a lot in my years (e.g dance teaching, croupiering, film work, photography, charity work, the list goes on...)- many failures, many successes but it's always an adding to! And you learn a little bit each time. As Jobs says- you can only connect the dots looking back. I know you freelancers out there rely on stuff to make an income and for your survival, but if you can to write the need to make money out of the equation somehow, you'll feel freer, more fun and things will flow. It's all about the experience! Just keep at it and trust somehow, someway things will shift.
There is no one right way. Do not compare yourself to others! Everyone is unique and meant to be so!
Listening to the plethora of authors, books, tools and techniques and their variations that my group members bring each time, really shows me that there is no one right way. Everyone has their own way. One man's pleasure is another man's poison. Each to their own. What I like is just to present as many ways of thinking and let you take whatever works for you.
Be you and let everyone else be them!
It can be really tempting to get loved ones to want to think the same way as you, especially when you feel as good as you do. Some may be willing to listen and share the best with them. But don't force it upon anyone. As I once read 'Don't try to teach a pig to sing (or something!), it wastes your time and annoys the pig!' In other words, don't spend your time trying to change someone who doesn't want it. Be you and when they see how happy and successful you are, they will ask and then you can go nuts!
Just keep at it! Someway, somehow you'll see change!
Some people see life change quick- manifestations can happen fast. Others it's a longer process. Just keep going, if not this school of thought, then another or another. Just keep conscious on your path to learning. It's a way of life!
There is a greater power out there, loving you, supporting you, it's just up to you to align.
I can't know this for sure sure but it's definitely what I believe. Things are always working out for you, you are loved and taken care of. Sometimes (well in fact all of the time!), it's just you who blocks it. Be your own best friend, love yourself and you'll fly!
Your escrow is always growing. The worse it's been, the better it is on the other side!
No matter how bad things have been, no matter how depressed you've felt or for how long- you can change it. But also, because of this, your escrow is bigger and brighter and what's waiting for you on the other side of it is bigger and brighter than you could imagine!
Everyone's the same! Everyone wants a better, feel good life.
I've been fortunate enough to teach regularly across the UK every month, in Asia, across America and shortly Australia. And whilst there are cultural differences, everyone is ultimately the same. Everyone wants to feel better, everyone feels some fear doing something new, all want more self confidence, to know they create their own life and can be, do or have anything they want.
So there you have it. Some things I've learned these past years and throughout my life! I hope it will be of some benefit (maybe life changing!) to you. Thank you for sooooo much for being here!
I LOVE YOU ALL SO SO SOOOO MUCH!!!
Here's to many more years!!!
All my love, Nick Xxx