However, you didn't come here to be in a bubble of everything going your way all the time! That would be boring. Watching the more advanced players at Badminton (which I'm pleased to say I was much better at this week!), they would go out of their way to play those who they hadn't before and those who were up a level. If you they won every single point in every single game, they would quickly get bored and either look for more challenging players and/or a different sport to play!
Be easy on yourself! And reach just for beyond where you are. Be happy with your achievements both big and small. It's all relative at the end of the day and all about perspective! I was playing alongside another less advanced player and we were up against two more advanced players. And for me even winning 1 point made me literally jump up and down for joy. We lost but by a respectable 12-21 points. For me, to get that many points against those much better players was as good as winning!
So, you came to this life to mix it up! If things are going well all the time, then enjoy it and try new things and expand. However, if things are going 'wrong' a lot lot of the time, then maybe change your perspective and/or tune into where you are emotionally. As you may be repeating negative patterns within your beingness that could do with a positive shift of focus!
In any case, who gives a sh*t! At the end of the day it doesn't matter- don't sweat the small stuff... And it's all small stuff!!!
Happy mixing it up dear ones!!!
All my love, Nick Xxx