For pretty much all of my life, the jobs I’ve worked have been retail/customer facing/services work, so I’ve had my fair share of angry, irate customers who’ve experienced something go wrong. I also have been an angry, irate customer many times too lol
Whilst it can be disconcerting when dealing anyone who’s upset or furious, you have to stay as centred as you can and realise that it isn’t you that is faulty in some way. This can be especially difficult when dealing with a loved one, family member, partner or even a stranger. However, you must remember that anyone who is connected to who-they-really-are, who is in the flow and their good space would never be mean to someone else.
So, even if they’re pointing at you and talking to/about you. It isn’t really about you, they are just finding a way to vent and deal with emotions. And in an ideal world you would remain zen and unhurtable. I vividly remember working for an online gifts company (IWOOT) and I was taking calls in our last minutes of opening on Christmas eve eve and that year we had tremendous storms which meant that a large number of parcels just weren’t able to be delivered in time for Christmas. And having to break this to a parent whose only gifts were the ones from our shop to their family, was not a pleasant task! Some were effing and blinding at me down the phone. But as it was my last day at work and the fact remained that there was simply nothing we could do- I remain completely calm and unaffected. There was literally nothing I could do for them! And try as they might, getting angry over it wasn’t going to solve anything. But I could see why they were so upset.
So, if you’re the recipient of someone’s meanness, try to ‘love thy enemy’ and ‘turn the other cheek.’ (Check me out, with all my biblicalness!). And realise they are just coming from a place of hurt. However, as we know, Law Of Attraction states that everything that happens in our experience is a reflection of something going on within us. So if you do find that you’re in the same type of situation repeatedly (either as the ‘victim’ or the ‘attacker’) then do your best to try to feel better about whatever is going on, shifting your mental focus. And eventually, circumstances, people and things will realign themselves to only give you the best of who and what they are.
Happy feeling better! Lots of love, Nick Xxx
Whilst it can be disconcerting when dealing anyone who’s upset or furious, you have to stay as centred as you can and realise that it isn’t you that is faulty in some way. This can be especially difficult when dealing with a loved one, family member, partner or even a stranger. However, you must remember that anyone who is connected to who-they-really-are, who is in the flow and their good space would never be mean to someone else.
So, even if they’re pointing at you and talking to/about you. It isn’t really about you, they are just finding a way to vent and deal with emotions. And in an ideal world you would remain zen and unhurtable. I vividly remember working for an online gifts company (IWOOT) and I was taking calls in our last minutes of opening on Christmas eve eve and that year we had tremendous storms which meant that a large number of parcels just weren’t able to be delivered in time for Christmas. And having to break this to a parent whose only gifts were the ones from our shop to their family, was not a pleasant task! Some were effing and blinding at me down the phone. But as it was my last day at work and the fact remained that there was simply nothing we could do- I remain completely calm and unaffected. There was literally nothing I could do for them! And try as they might, getting angry over it wasn’t going to solve anything. But I could see why they were so upset.
So, if you’re the recipient of someone’s meanness, try to ‘love thy enemy’ and ‘turn the other cheek.’ (Check me out, with all my biblicalness!). And realise they are just coming from a place of hurt. However, as we know, Law Of Attraction states that everything that happens in our experience is a reflection of something going on within us. So if you do find that you’re in the same type of situation repeatedly (either as the ‘victim’ or the ‘attacker’) then do your best to try to feel better about whatever is going on, shifting your mental focus. And eventually, circumstances, people and things will realign themselves to only give you the best of who and what they are.
Happy feeling better! Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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