You take your (messy or tidy) self with you wherever you go!!! For real!!! Xxx

Whilst I'm a clean roomie (defo no foods or snacks or crumbies!), I can't say I'm the tidiest... Also, given that I've got so much going on in life, despite my efforts to not hoard too much, my room gets quite messy!

However, what caught my attention and was a little surprising was when I was away, I had quickly got my hotel room in a bit of a state with piles of stuff everywhere and clothes strewn about. It wasn't anything that 10 mins of whipping round wouldn't fix but still, it struck me that you really do take yourself with you wherever you go!

Whether that's in the physical space you maintain, or even more potently, the emotional space you keep. It stands to reason, that if you're generally a happy person in your day to day life, you'll be happy in your other areas of beingness- if that's travelling, dealing with relationships or just other daily bits. And if you're a miserable bleep, then you'll continue to be so even if you get your dream partner, job and/or lottery win.

Now, it can be the case that by changing your externals, you can change your disposition. Like, who doesn't get excited by a holiday, or a pay rise or ditching their crappy boss. But, as Abe has been pushing so much recently, we want your happiness to be unconditional, that you can make it a truly inside job. Now we're talking!!!

It's like that with your mother or nightmare customer or whoever lol. They complain about something you are doing, you'll change that, and then they find something else wrong!

Get happy first and then go out into the world...

All is well!!!

Happy tidy-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx