The TV show she was watching was running experiments about intersections, signs and how this impacts driving.
To her surprise, they found that when they let the traffic run itself, the cars moved faster and more efficiently. Abe pointed out that this is similar to how we should run our lives. When left to our own devices, things can just work better. It's when we start to interfere and/or have our lives interfered with, that things can get screwy.
I'm a huge proponent of independence and leaving people to sort themselves out (I wish I could say the same about my parents! Ha!).
In any case, you have to trust that you know best for you. That you can guide your own life and not need the approval, acceptance or orders of others. Ultimately, it's knowing that you're covered by the Universe and that you're well taken care of.
All is well!!!
Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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