Well actually, you can eat yellow fruit, it's just yellow snow that you should be wary of! Lol.

I have thoroughly been enjoying discussions with my leading edge friends about that which is nutrition. It is quite the minefield, as if you Google pretty much any food there's a plethora of arguments why it's good for you and an equal number of notions why it isn't that great. I think you need to find out what works for you as everyone is so individual!

Anyhoo, as Louise Hay says, you can hear one teacher say something and be like 'Nonsense!' And another teacher says the same thing but in a different way and you react 'Genius! Never heard that before!' That's why I believe it is important to explore as much as you can in this world. Get out there and mix it up, you'll love some things, you'll hate others but you'll always be clearer on what you know. Such is the nature of life!

One of my smart smart friends said 'It isn't the best thing to eat fruit after a meal. This is because meat takes 4 hours to digest and so the fruit sits on the top, ferments and becomes gassy'. I have heard this nugget of info years and years ago in school, but it was just the way my friend presented it just then, that it clicked with me. I thought it was very interesting that just hearing something in a slightly different way made such an impact. How wonderful!

So just get out there and be openly selective about what you listen to and see which clicks. That sense of knowingness within you that- 'Yeah, that makes sense to me!'

Happy click-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

So not too long ago, I was chatting to my friend about the money game. There are many incarnations of this, but the simplest one is to ask 'What would you do if you had £1,000,000 to spend?' Well, we ended up taking it to the next level and somehow ended up talking about spending £150 million! Now that was a little bit beyond my consciousness and my eyes bugged out as I heard how free and easily she spent it! But she did. And with the greatest of ease! She concluded with my favourite phrase 'This is fun.'

My friend isn't a huge vibrational fiend but I definitely felt the ease and flow with which she spoke about it- far more than I when it comes to spending £150 million!

I said to her 'I'd be very interested to see what unfolds, if anything...' She was certainly going about it in the 'right way.' The right way being the feeling good and fun! Whilst you can never know for sure as everyone is privy to their own vibration, I was very curious to see what would unfold as I really could feel the ease of the conversation.

Anyhoo, fast forward a few days and she has a phone convo with her boss. She had been off work for about the last year as she just had a baby. And BOOM she not only gets a pay rise and a bonus of £12,000!!! And she hasn't even been at work. Incroyable no?!

But such is the power of vibration. Feeling good in the playing of these games comes first and foremost. Then the rest follows... It must!!! It is law...

Happy abundance-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

I was chatting to some friends in a cafe and I've always been quite conscious of service people. I've always been involved in some sort of customer-dealing role so appreciate the kind of work that goes into it and how awful it can be to have a shitty customer.

And I really found myself wanting to make them understand how hard these waiters work and how they should always be nice and polite to them and help make their life easier. But, as always, it occurred to me that is isn't my job to make anyone else see the world as I see it. It is not my job to save the world in whichever way I see fit. It is my work, however, to make sure I do my best to live in the way I see it and to be in alignment with who I am and how I know I would like to interact with the world!

Feel how freeing that is! Trying to get anyone to understand and to act in accordance with how you think they should is futile. Everyone has their own experience and viewpoint from the life that has been lived. Everyone gets to choose for themselves and rightly so.

You are your own person. Revel, excel and just be you! Tis that simple!

All is well!

Happy unique-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

I was pottering about with friends and we passed a funfair and there was one of those things where the kid straps themselves in and jumps up and down on a trampoline type base. There was this adorable kid and he was doing double and triple somersault thingys in the air!

It got me thinking how fearless most of us start off as kids, unafraid to go on wild rides and explore our surroundings. And it is only when society, schools and parents teach us to be fearful that we become reticent to push ourselves out into the world. But not without good reason however, watching my most cutest in the world ever nephew, who seems to have a penchant for electrical items, tall lights, plugs, remotes and so on, it is prudent to gently reign him in, lest he sticks his saliva wet fingers in an electrical socket!

But, I think it is important to rekindle that state of internal safety and exploratoryness and not to terrify ourselves into hermitry. We are safe, we are guided, we are well looked after by all that is. Fear is not to be ignored, it is our guidance. Our work is just to work it into a better feeling place.

All is so very well with us.

Just trust, have fun and do some somersaults (well, only if you've been trained to do so!).

Happy ride-ing!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Ok, just for those who could make neither head nor tail of the title, it's just a reference to The Hollies song 'He's not heavy, he's my brother...'

So, one of my friends was telling me about how when she was growing up, it was her sister who was considered to be the 'lucky' one. And she found herself to be not so. But now, after many years of self development, she is now the one to be more fortune and her sister- not so much!

Now to the untrained eye, what happened? Someone get the voodoo dolls mixed up?! Someone stolen her Lucky Charms (General Mills anyone?! Lol).

No, I say! None of the (ludicrous) above! Instead, it was the focusing on alignment and working through the issues.

I know it can seem as though luck may (or may not be) on your side, but it isn't the Gods of Fortune smiling (or frowning!) upon you. It simply is a matter of where you are in relation to who you really are. And the situations which follow are just a match to it.

I definitely would've considered myself a relatively unlucky kid, always missing out on the last piece of birthday cake at school etc! But now, things are generally flowing more in my favour! Not always, not every time, but for the most part. And it's just shifting old patterns. If things go poopy, it can feel like 'Why me?!' But you just gotta shake off that 'victim mentality!'

Richard Wiseman studied luck (I blogged about this ages ago) and he found those who thought themselves to be lucky, spotted more fortunate opportunities. And those who considered themselves unlucky, missed the goodies. Especially when they were hell bent and focused on the goal as opposed to seeing all the wonderful things on the way.

So, my dear friends, you can create your own luck. It is not some external influence throwing whatever in your way. By your focus and intent you can live the good that you were born to!

It can be quite that simple!

Happy luck-ing my loves!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Whilst most all of us would like to ride the wave of continual goodness, well beingness and high flying exhilaration, it is more a case of up and down, in and out of those states. Why?! Because we are human, we came here to focus in this physicality. In every particle of the Universe there is that which is wanted and that which is unwanted. Which gives rise to the fact that there will always be things out there which can make us happy and exhilarated and that which can help us feel hopeless and depressed.

From time to time, I hear people beat up on themselves, and/or question why they aren't feeling good ALL of the time. It is a common misconception that to be spiritual is to be always happy! But this ain't possible and to hold yourself to such over-exacting standards is setting yourself up for failure! Instead, you want to be real and aware and conscious. Being real to how you're feeling and not gloss over anything which is really dragging you down. Being aware of how and where you are vibrating and conscious of being able to move into a better space when you are ready.

It is this ebb and flow which is the very nature of who we are!

Abe used to say that with the tremendous workload of all that Jerry and Esther had to do, they oft felt overwhelmed. Then they would take a break at the beach, then after a little time they would get a bit bored and want to be out in the world doing stuff!

You wouldn't know joy if you didn't know sadness. You wouldn't know love if you hadn't experienced hate. They are all sides of the same coin. The trick is just not to get too sucked into the not so good feelings for too long.

Life needn't be a rollercoaster (although some do find this type of existence thrilling). Instead a little bit of contrast, a good amount of joy and that which is middling in between. Just try to keep yourself on the high echelons of the emotional scale if possible!

Just be! Mix it up, live life and have fun. Laugh plenty and don't take this or yourself too seriously. At the end of the day, no one really gives a sheet!!!

Happy ebb-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

What a good quote! (I heard it from Abe, but when I Googled it, it is unclear who originally said it). A little while ago I was with some peoples and the conversation somehow turned to views on life and stuff. One of the chaps believed life was random and a bit of a crapshoot!

I was thinking to myself what an awful way to look at life. I LOVE knowing I am the creator of my own reality, that I get to choose how I feel and what I think and that will in turn affect what comes to me- what betterness is there than having a say in how your life plays out?!

We moved onto psychic readings and one of my friends does excellent intuitive readings. The other guy didn't believe in any of that nonsense but I kinda pushed for him to have a reading hehe!

For me, if you work from the premise that what happens in someone's life is based on how they are thinking and feeling, then an intuitive would just be tuning into that energy and making an educated prediction into what will unfold. I do love a good reading! So my friend did a card reading for this gent and afterwards he was still have not any having any of it. Me and my friend were trying to explain to him how it works but he stayed firm in his non-believing stance.

It highlighted to me the futility of trying to get someone to see things your way. He wasn't going to change his view and I certainly wasn't going to change mine.

It can be tempting for us to want others to do what we do, especially as we know the joy and empowerment this work brings. But it is far better to just live what you live as best you can for you. When others see how you're thriving, they may be interested and when they ask your advice, they'll be open and ready to hear what you have to say. And if not, then you're still living a happy life for you!

Happy opinion-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Ok, so there is lots to drink but it makes for a catchier title! Today, before I headed out I saw a few minutes of Britain's Got Talent (amazing- that show is still going!). I caught a group of tenors- absolutely talented, they looked and sounded the part. The audience and other judges loved them but Simon Cowell was ever so hesitant for a millisecond.

On a side note, it's amazing the power that man has- one word from him can make or break your career, quite simply amazing! He has been incredibly believing and persistent in his lifetime. When he started out, Robson and Jerome (a British acting duo), sang Unchained Melody on the TV show they were in. The studio were inundated with requests for the song but R&J weren't singers etc. Simon saw the potential of it, bugged them to do it (despite legal threats to stop him harassing them!) and subsequently it became the biggest seller that year! He's always been a believer, he said something along the lines of 'I like what I like, I figure if I like it, then someone else will.' And that self believing philosophy has got him far! (Though he's not always right- Jennifer Hudson?! H-amazing!!!).

Anyhoo, back to Britain's Got Talent, there is so much talent out there, it is incredible.

So how does that translate to 'success' in the material world (although true success=joy!). It has to come down to alignment! There is such diverse strata on the talent-success spectrum: so many talented people struggling to make it, so many talented people doing incredibly well, but so many things which aren't that talented, yet for some reason capture the public's imagination- the colour of that dress phenomenon- what was that even about?! I remember the Stavros family from BGT many years ago- they impersonated Lord Of The Dance and were far from slick dancers, but the love that father and son shared, captured the nation's audience and they did pretty well! They were just happy to be along for the ride (in the post show interview, the father was busy stuffing his face with Ferrero Rochers!)

As Oprah put- there is no such thing as 'luck'- or at least 'luck' is preparation with the moment of opportunity. Success breeds success- the more you get out there and do well, the more it becomes your experience, your expectation and your knowingness. So go there in your mind if it's not happening in your physical reality (as it's already done in your vibrational reality might I add!). Get your consciousness up to speed. Go out into the world- mix it up, learn, share, fail, gain- just experience life from as aligned state as you can. Then success at some point must hit! You must just keep going at whatever it is, in whatever way it is. Ever if it's just trying a whole plethora of things because you don't know what you want to do. You're always expanding and it can only be a good thing!

So keep working at things you really love, mix it up, share your passions with those 'believing eyes.' All the greats have been through their failures, losses, depressions and abuses. But instead of letting that stop them, they went beyond.

I was watching Beyonce's performance at Made In America 2013- OMG so incredible! Being able to sing and dance and have that creative vision is wonderful. But she went through depression for two years (TWO YEARS! Not being able to eat or leave the room for chunks of time!), but as a result she's come out stronger and on top- (Net Worth $440,000,000 according to Wikipedia Dec 2014). It gave her her strong sense of knowing of what she expects from herself and her concerts- she changed the plethora of candles on her set because they were the wrong shade of colour. It's this fine tuning with which these experts take into their craft. Incredible!

Anyhoo, the takeaway message- is to believe and align with yourself. If you have a passion just keep at the physical and vibrational journey, get out there, mix it up and BOOM! You can be, do or have anything you want!

Happy talent-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

I was in Natwest just now paying in a wee bit o cash and as I was on my way to work I wanted to use the amazing pay in machines (they take coins and notes and cheques, oh my!). But, there was a chap already using it and he had three HUGE bags coins, poor thing, I can see it was taking him a long long time to do it, and those machines usually spit out a few coins, so he had quite a task ahead of him!

So, I went to the queue to do it via the cashier and in front of me was another chap and he just had huge wads and wads and wads of notes! Easily thousands, if not tens of thousands or even more!!! I caught myself thinking 'I could never imagine dealing with that kind of cash!' Which was an interesting catch, partly because I prefer dealing with everything electronically, but also just managing those huge sums of cash.

So, I just eased that thought and said 'hmmm, maybe I could, what would it be like to have that flow into my experience?' I'm still not quite there yet, but it's a work in progress as are all things.

When you come across a belief that doesn't sit with you (and as we teach awareness is vitally important, first and foremost!), then seek to replace it. 'Money does come to me easily, I can deal with large sums. I am beautiful and confident. I can attract my soulmate. My boss and workmates are kind etc'

That's the trick! Acknowledge where you are and if it's working, great, perpetuate it. If not, then change it when you're ready. Ready being the key word, because you're not always going to be in an emotional or preparedness state to change it. And that's what the books, groups, YouTube clips etc are all for. Tools to help you ameliorate your beingness to new heights!

Happy wads-ing!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

As is usually the case after a wonderful group I had some lovely signs of alignment! I found some money on my way home from Manchester on Wednesday- 20p and 5p no less- how wonderful lol!

As you may or may not have been made aware, there was a national train strike planned for Monday. I am meeting with my magnificent HYLE team which could've thrown a complete spanner in the works! I really appreciate how far they travel from to come to central London (Huddersfield, beyond Stanmore and Enfield!). So a train strike could've put a real damper on it! Thankfully it was called off (fingers xd it stays that way!). I was keeping them updated and when I found out, I joyfully emailed them with the heading 'Praise Allah' - this quote from Sex And The City 2 movie just popped into my head for some reason.

Later that evening, I was reading a cruise autobiography by the wonderful Brian David Bruns- I had the good fortune of interviewing him (can be found on my YouTube channel). And upon reading it, what do he write?! 'Well then praise Allah, my friend.' Now, how rare is that statement- well for me at least, that is so nothing I would usually say or read lol. (Incidentally, I just get off the tube and I catch the snatch of a conversation and I'm pretty sure she said 'Just be positive!')

'Now what does all of this mean?' I hear you ponder! Well not much (at least to you!), but for me it's just the wonderful signs of alignment- it's the Universe reflecting to me that I'm in a good space.

It's like if you see '11.11' or the like on a clock, or say the same thing as a friend at the exact moment or think of someone and boom out of the 'blue' they contact you.

There are varying degrees of what you can read into the significance of each thing (angel numbers, signs and symbols etc), but whatever you do, just revel in the good vibes you're sending out and hence being reflected back to you by the wonderful rendezvouses!!!

I like to think my group members get a lot from attending, but for me, I get so much out of it too and these great vibrational indicators are just the tip of the iceberg of wonderfulness!

Happy Jo-incidencing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

A few days ago, I was regaling with tales of my adventure to Asia to one of my peoples (he incidentally is from the Far East). I told him how I made a dash to Macau as I wanted to see how it compares to Vegas and how on earth did it manage to outstrip Nevada of the title of 'biggest gambling revenues' (answer: £50-100 minimum bets might do it! Lol)

He seemed quite impressed at how 'brave' I was especially going to Macau on my own! To me it wasn't anything particularly special or out of the ordinary. I love my adventures with me and me! Anyhoo, he recounted how apparently Macau can be quite dangerous (people opening gun fire in public and what not...mafia influences?!), and how he said even people from Hong Kong can sometimes be scared to go over.

I thought this was wildly interesting as I never felt anything but safe out there. The buildings are well lit and the area oozes of luxuriousness and I was more than happy to wonder out and about at 3am without a care in the world!

Interesting though, had I been told that before I went there, then I probably would have been far more apprehensive and might not even have gone!

I guess the message here is to go out into the world and make your own conclusions. There is so much well being on this planet that it can be very easily forgotten if you flick through the news and see all the destruction and disaster going on.

Set your tone of well being and do what you're inspired to do! All is so very well in your world!

Happy exploring!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

The other day I had a flashback to secondary school. It was quite funny as one of my best friends told quite a lot of lies to us! He would allegedly go to these celeb events and get their autographs. I had to question it when I saw that famous actress Jerry Hall signed her name as 'Jerry Halls' and didn't Alanis Morisette spell her name with 2 't's? Lol

There were many other lies too! Nothing harmful though, especially looking back. Now let's face it, school is one of the times you really want to fit in. I used to watch X Files (omg remember that show!) to try to fit in, as it was one of the shows that was really 'in' at the time, even though I didn't like it that much!

I like Abraham's unconditional love spin on why people lie. It's just to keep things in alignment. Do you really want to be told that you look like a hippo and your bum looks big in those jeans?! Lol

Everyone is doing the best that they can at any point in time. Whilst we may not agree with everything that everyone does, it serves us to give them the benefit of the doubt. That is unconditional love. To allow everyone to be exactly as they are without asking them to change. Offering that understanding and love to your fellow peoples!

Everyone is just trying to feel better and do what they can to lead a better feeling life.

Just let all off the hook and you'll live a much more freeing more powerful life! Feel the ease and flow in all of that!

All is so very well!

Happy lying haha

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Yayyyyyyyy! Thank you London for an incredible leading edge evening as ALWAYS!!! It is such a wonderful community we have and I just love hearing people's stories of how they are living more empowered, better feeling lives- it just does not get any better than this!

So much covered tonight as always!!!

- You always have this internal guidance letting you know where you are vibrating. Your emotions are letting you know how you are focused- when you're feeling bad, it's just an indicator that you are looking upon something in a way that that pure energy that is you, isn't looking at it. When you're feeling good, you're in alignment and hence drawing more good to you. Follow your internal guidance!

- If you're having a rough time with someone try blessing them. Just send them love in whatever way you can. When your vibration is locked on and high enough, they will only be able to give you the best of who they are OR you will naturally fall out of each other's experience. Your goal is just to manage your gap and let the Law Of Attraction do the rest!

- It isn't about getting your stuff all the time, every time (although that is quite nice!). It's about being able to choose how you react to any situation- that is true power. You may not be able to control everything but you can control how you react- and that is everything.

- It works if you work it! Try spending some time everyday to focus more positively. If it's a gratitude journal, meditation, focus wheels or visualisation, just take a few mins to settle your energy and mind. It will pay tremendous dividends!

- Pivoting- whenever you're in a space of what you don't want, flip it! Turn your attention to what you do want, start talking about that and getting your energy in that direction.

- Pre Paving- start your day, or segment of activity by stating what you do want. This gets your energy focused on how you would like things to unfold.

- Be easy about it. You're here to learn and expand. You're perfect as you are. Just be easy about it all!

There are various apps which can help: Focus Wheel, vision boards, Mirror app. So many tools available!!!

Thank you so much for being part of this magnificent co creation!

All is so very well!

Happy processing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

I was lightly browsing on a shop floor, I wasn't planning on buying anything, however I could've been swayed and I had a mild idea of what I wanted if the opportunity presented itself to me in an attractive enough way.

I chatted to the sales assistant about the various options on offer and I don't know if she was on some sort of commission scheme, wanted to shut up shop and hurry me out, or if she genuinely did think she knew the best option for me, but she kept on pushing for an option which didn't really appeal. I made it clear that I was potentially interested in something else but she dismissed me and kept plugging the original option!

Now objectively it was completely the more advantagous option with infinitely better benefits, but for me, it wasn't quite what I wanted.

And that's the thing- no one knows what's best for you, but you! The other may think they do and for all intents and purposes they may do, but they aren't dealing from your perspective with your desires and preferences. Go out into the world and data collect, by all means go and ask experts and lay men for their opinion and recommendations but at the end of the day, it is you and you alone who must choose.

Part of what holds people back is the fear of being wrong, so they either get other people to choose for them or they, like the proverbial donkey, remain unable to choose between two piles of hay and end up starving. But there is no wrongness! From any point, at any time, you can re work from where you are. You never get it done!

Years ago I studied Forex Trading. Somewhat naively, I thought 'Well why doesn't everyone just copy someone who seems to be making the right choices?' But the teacher put it perfectly when he said that you'd rather be wrong but have made that decision based on your own conclusions, than follow someone else. The decision making process, especially for something like tha,t is always quite intricate. You want to move forward under your own volition, it is just that much more satisfying!

So have fun with it. Make a choice, if it works perfectly then great! If it goes tits up, then great! Enjoy the moulding of the clay that is your life! All is well!

Happy deciding!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

I have spent some wonderful time with my 11 month old nephew and it is so joyful being able to literally watch someone take their first steps into the world!

Everything is new and everything still takes some getting used to. But with the right guidance, the new borns can flourish and develop. I know some of you might not have had the kindest carers raising you but the human spirit is indomitable!

As he is learning to get used to supporting himself on his two little legs and walking, he is prone to falling a lot! But as Abe say, instead of shouting 'Get up you little dummy!', you just send em love, prop them back up and know with enough practise that they'll be walking and running in no time!

You must treat yourself with that same level of kindness! As Louise Hay says in her 'Love Yourself' talk, don't expect to be perfect! Instead, gently encourage yourself, congratulate yourself often and be kind to yourself!

Over the years, I see those who come along and be consistent in their practise and others who probably give up because it is not yielding results fast enough. Take your time, knowing that every small step is on the way to a better feeling life.

Just try to implement small changes in your life- a few minutes of meditation, listing some small things you appreciate, bit by bit you can do it!

And you never get it done! There'll always be another layer of crap to uncover haha. Because we are eternal humans beings These things go deep and like an onion, there are many layers to the consciousness.

I was watching Model Guru- a guru comes and helps someone with their issue. This episode was focused on a lady who just couldn't sleep. Sounds simple enough right? But there was a lot going on, they looked at her nutrition and lots of physicality things, but a lot of mental issues came up- surrounding herself with an inordinate amount of animals which took over her house, she didn't like meditating as it involved closing her eyes (equalling to her, a loss of control- also linked to her poor sleeping patterns). So it took many weeks of clearing and clearing. As is the same with our psyche.

The goal isn't to reach a place of perfection where nothing bugs us and we are zen-ified 24/7. The goal is to be ok with who and where we are. Knowing that expansion is part and parcel of what we are here to experience.

Let go, flow and know!!!

Happy walking!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

I happened across an interview with Dawn French (I believe the credits said 2008). It looked as though she had just written a book- some letters to her father which was a look back at her life.

The interviewer asked about her large size and was it a concern to her at all? She replied that she was happy with her bigness and she's always been quite large even as a child.

She recounted that one of the defining moments, was when she was a teenager and wore purple hot pants to a party in an attempt to impress a boy. Her dad reassured her that she was wonderful no matter what and it didn't matter whether the boys were interested in her or not.

It was natural for her father to offer her such comforting words and so she developed that inner appreciation for herself and her body.

And that is a wonderful thing. The media and society can present the 'ideal' body and anyone who falls outside of that should somehow conform. But we are all Source expressed in these magnificent bodies!!! Whatever your shape, colour or form matters not!

Self appreciation can be the hardest thing, yet it is the most vital component to living a happy life. Your most important relationship is the one you have with yourself. Write everyone else out of the equation of your life!!!

You are magnificent in all your beauty!

Happy bigging!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

I was watching The Greatest Movie Ever Sold (directed by Morgan Spurlock- the chap who did Supersize Me and ate nothing but McDo for 30 days!). Anyhoo, this movie was about the use of product placement in the world around us.

One thing which caught my attention was when the experts were giving their opinion. They said something like, some adverts are based on the premise that you are lacking (in worth, coolness etc) unless you have their product.

I think it can be that way for most everyone to some degree. Even in this field of thought, where it seems that you are able to draw to you whatever you want, it can feel like some sort of lacking if your manifestations are on the thin side. But what we want to remind you of, is that you are never lacking. You should be 'judging' your life on how you are managing your emotional and vibrational gap.

If you can make feeling better/good your priority then you're on the right track. And your stuff, as wonderful as it may be, might or might not come BUT you can be happy anyways. And funnily enough, this will draw to you your goodies infinitely faster.

A big push for my groups is to help reinforce that it is the emotional journey and not the sizing up of each other's manifestations. Awareness is infinitely more important for me than being able to create your desires (although your true desire is really to feel good and in alignment).

Revel in your 'successes', revel in your 'failures.' Just plain revel! No matter what!!! You are never lacking, you are never not good enough. You are abundant and perfect exactly as you are!!!

All is so very well. Just keep trusting that working on the emotional journey is what you're really after. And just keep going! And it will unfold in perfection for you!!!

Happy revelling!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

I have just watched The Matrix 3- although a bit more fighty and less theosophical than I'd like, it was still pretty brilliant!

Against the wishes of many, Neo (our hero), decides to go right into the heart of machine city. Although 'no one has been within 100 kilometres' of that place, he believes in his mission. And so must you!

Whatever your calling is in life, your dream, your goal. You have to believe in whatever it is you are trying to achieve. All the greats have! Beyoncé, Branson, Sugar, Jobs- the list goes on! People thought them to be crazy in one way or another and they have all met with various 'failures' along their path (and will continue to do so as they try more and more things!). But the goal isn't to succeed- the goal is to mix it up, to live the life you intended to!

Line up your thinking, your being and your dreams and there ain't nothing you can't achieve! It may take a while- so just keep going, it may not be easy- but you're resilient and many may pooh pooh you- but just believe! And if nothing else, you'll have so much fun and learning along the way!

I had already decided to write this themed article about 2/3rds of the way into the movie. But it ended perfectly when Neo won. The Oracle (the most revered, most knowing figure in The Matrix) was asked 'Did you always know?' [it would work out]. To which she replied 'Oh no. No I didn't. But I believed... I believed.'

And that is what we want for you. Believe dear one! You can do it!!!

Happy believing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

I was watching this cute little teen movie called Thunderstruck. It was about how a clumsy 16 year old magically switches basketball talent with a professional player.

With his new playing skills he becomes the star of his school's team and Mr Populaire! After a while the pro player and his agent realise somehow the skills have been swapped and after some to and fro-ing the players manage to swap back their respective skills.

The clumsky kid who has been crowned king of his team has little skills left, but obviously their team is counting on him! Just before they go into their final stint, the kid pulls his game mates together and says to them 'we'll do the best we can with what we have!' And lo and behold they win!

Now, most of us won't have such quantum leaps. But often it can be the case that we 'magically' attract the job/relationship/chunk of money of our dreams. Only to find that some time later, it leaves our experience for whatever reason. Causing a lamenting of sorts.

You can try backtracking and whatnot but usually it serves you, much like that young chap did, to just make the best of where you are and move forward with whatever skills you have.

And that's one of our recommendations, don't get upset about what has or hasn't been, or how you will get it back. Instead, from where you stand, work out how you can feel better and move towards what you do want. In the certainty that whatever is next, will be bigger, brighter and better than before. It has to be! You are always adding to your escrow and moulding the vibrational clay of what's to come.

So enjoy what you have now, let go in secure appreciation of what has been, and anticipate in excitement that which is to come!

Happy skill-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

I was talking to my friend and she was telling me how much she loved her child and all that good stuff. And what is purer than a mother's love for her child? Especially when the child hasn't started speaking yet ha!

It is that love and life force flowing through us which drives us all forward. It does serve mentioning that in the whole scheme of things, it isn't so much the person or thing as it is the way upon which you are focusing. In other words, whether it's your child, you partner, a car or your Louboutins(!), you appreciate and love them for what they represent and how they make you feel and not who or what they are.

Not to sound too dispassionate! But that is what it is all about. 'But surely?!' I hear you say, 'It is that specific partner/baby/family member that I truly adore,' and yes whilst it is the case that you may not be able to love anything in quite the same way, again, I have to say it is the way Source is flowing through you and the manner in which you are focused.

If you can really get your head round that, then you're in for a much easier, open ride through life. Because partners change, children move on, people transition and so on. An incredible amount of pain is held onto because you think you need that thing to be in your life in that exact way. But we are all transient beings, ever expanding, ever changing, ever moving forward- whether we like it or not.

And once you accept the fact that it is just life flowing through you, you can be satisfied in a myriad of ways. For me, I draw upon a plethora of things to lift my vibration. Whether it's a movie, music, good time with friends, my most amazing groups, cruises, books, whatever it is, I consciously use these wonderful tools to allow that exhilaration to flood my entire being and to allow my consciousness and vibration to rise. You can be satisfied right here, right now where you stand. Even (or especially!) when the stuff you want isn't with you. And that is the goal, to be able to focus your mind so powerfully that you are feeling as good as you can, wherever you are.

So have fun with it, steer your mind towards things which please you and relax. All is so very well and things are unfolding perfectly!

Happy loving!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

To breathe is to quite literally to live! I found myself getting cranky at work (fatigue or sugar crash ha). So I put on some Abraham (The Secret Behind The Secret- one of the best DVDs ever!) and centred myself with some deep breaths.

I am far from an expert on breathing but I know there are a myriad of practises- yogic, meditational, Kundalini, tantric- the list goes on! But whatever you do, breathing in a slower, more deliberate fashion is infinitely beneficial, even just on a basic physiological level. It can help relax your body and mind and all sorts!

When I was younger I used to play the flute (I even by some miracle got to Grade 5! Haha). And there I was taught diaphragmatic breathing. Basically, you're filling your belly with air- so your tummy sticks out when you breathe in and when you breathe out, you pull your tummy in. That's the one I use most.

Another way is thoracic breathing (I used this when I did Pilates- really excellent exercise for back pain and also gives you a 6 pack like nobody's business!) You breathe in through the nose, fill and expand the ribs and then out through the mouth and release the ribs. I think it's done through the ribs as the exercises engage the pelvic floor and there is a 'zipping' up action in your belly area, hence the rib-by breathing.

Anyhoo, these are just some ways to play with and improve the depth of your breathing. I am definitely guilty of shallow breathing as I'm usually rushing round doing a ton of things!

It would serve us all to slow down a wee bit and just breathe! The benefits of mindfulness and mediation are so powerful.

I was looking at the Hay House World Summit- a huge free online event run by Hay House and their authors (everyone from Esther to Deepak to Cheryl Richardson is speaking!). And I saw Miranda Kerr has a segment. I was very surprised, I didn't realise she was into woo woo but she is!

She is one of the world's most successful super models. She says:

'I like to meditate. Doing just three minutes of prayer and a minimum of five minutes meditation twice a day sets the tone—like an arrow so that you’re hitting your target. When I pray I always thank Mother Nature for all the beauty in the world; it’s about having an attitude of gratitude.'

See- the daily practise she does! And she must be doing something right, as she went from being (according to Wikipedia which is always correct lol) supermodel number 9 in Forbes' list, earning a cool $3.2 million in 2010. To being number 2 with $7.2 million in 2013! So she must be doing something right!

Now, I'm not a huge proponent of using material wealth to determine success (it is joy which is your true measure!), but still. That's quite a good consciousness she must have to create all that.

So tune into your own inner super model- you are all beautiful and perfect, strut yourself and be sure to breathe!

Happy breathing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

See you in a few days!!!

(PS I'm spending some time over the next week having family fun with my cutest nephew, so I will be offline, but fret not!!! I will continue writing my daily blog and post date em type thing, when I get back online! Xxx)

Ok, so maybe 'challenge' isn't the most downstream word and would be better replaced with 'experience' and some such ease filled word. But for all intents and purposes for today we shall stick with that!

You came to this physical experience to expand, to love, to grow and so on. And from the knowing of what you don't want, you would be able to turn your attention to what you do want and start to allow that in.

So when things go 'wrong', it's ok! Because if everything went perfectly for you all the time, you would be bored and in fact, you wouldn't be human- you'd be in the non-physical!

I have just downloaded a pool (snooker esque) game and am playing against my workmates. How rubbish would it be if any of us would be able to beat everyone, all the time? Not only would you get bored in like five minutes, you wouldn't learn a thing! I'm pretty good at the game but not brilliant, so I watch how my opponents play and try to learn tips from them.

In the overall grand scheme of things, things are meant to go your way, you are meant to live a good life and you are meant to experience all you want. However, there will always be clarifying moments. Abraham have said something along the lines of, if they were us, they would try to be in the Vortex 80-90% of the time and the rest would be the experience of contrast.

You came to learn and push yourself to new levels of well being. It is with that laser focus that you can take your next steps into the world.

If you're new to this work, or if you've had a good time but something negative happens, just do your best at that moment and then move on. It is likely it is just a cleansing of vibration, especially if you've been in an unconscious/negative place previously. The Herxheimer effect in nutrition is when you've been eating poorly previously but then you have a detox/cleanse and the body goes into a health crisis- readjusting and clearing out the crap. But once you pass that difficult hump, you'll feel fab! Same with this work, just see it through, keep being conscious and I really implore you to carry on. It can be disheartening if things aren't happening in a major way as you would like but just give it time! And if nothing else, you'll be enjoying life a little bit more.

And what is life if not that?!

So bottom line, keep at it, know that your rough times are contributing immensely to your good times and trust!

Happy challenging!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

The most simple but interesting thing happened today (it doesn't take much to amuse me! Ha!).

I picked up some extra hours at work so instead of taking the bus, I did a short walk going towards work from the local train station. I have been at this job for over 7 years and take the exact route virtually every morning, except I take it going from work to the station and not the other way like I did today.

Anyways, it was like I had never walked in that vicinity ever! I wasn't quite sure where I was going and it all looked completely foreign! I thought that was so fascinating (and a little freaky) considering I walk this area so frequently.

It showed me the value of shifting perspective, even if it's just slightly, how it can change everything for you! It forced me to look at the buildings and the locality in a new light.

I've always been a huge proponent of trying, learning and experiencing new things. You can only learn, expand and grow from doing something novel- your muscle memory and brain circuitry create new neural connections- which can only be a good thing! You are also adding to your escrow...

Also, if you're sensitive, empathic and compassionate, it adds an additional layer of understanding by seeing things in another way. When you find out about someone's life experience (especially if it's someone you don't like/disagree with), then you can begin to understand why everyone is the way they are. And that all people are just doing their best to make it through life.

I think it gives great insight to be able to see through the eyes of another, and even though you can only really see from your perspective, if anything can help you offer a little bit more love towards your fellow man, then that can only really be a good thing!

So try something new, allow yourself to see a fresh perspective on life and it could help you no end!

Happy perspecting!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx