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There is something to be said about that quiet, knowing internal confidence!!! Xxx

31/8/2016

Although fairly rare, I do love being in that zen state of alignment (I'm usually whizzing about from thing to thing!). It's that wonderful feeling of being centred, strong and unfazed. I love it!

And there seems to be something to that state when it comes to manifesting...

I've heard people talking to Abe about just having that bouncing off the wall expectation and whilst that is a wonderful place to be, they advised that a place of calm expectation can be better. Insofar as it feels next logical step, you're up to speed with where you are and ready to receive the next thing.

You want your consciousness to be expectant of wonderful things, to know that each day as you go about your business, that well being surrounds you and fills your being.

If it's easy, then great, carry on and expand and love it all. If it's a challenge, then continue to work at it, til it feels more natural. We want you to start feeling that you should be 'lucky', that you should win prizes, that your bus, train and everything you want are perfectly lined up for you. That you have divine timing, that you're surrounded with so much greatness!

All is well!!!

Happy internal-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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To allow but not tolerate the loud football people!!! Xx

30/8/2016

The other day I was on the train to work the other day and it was a busy Saturday. And oh my goodness, I was in a carriage with some loud footie fans. They had cans of lager and were singing and shouting at a very loud volume!

I had two (well technically three options), leave or stay and allow it (remaining begrudgingly would be the third option)!

I decided to stay, I was very conscious not to get too annoyed, instead to soothe myself and think 'they're just having fun, nothing wrong with that' etc. It was fairly effective but not overly so... But it was a short journey and if I really wanted to leave, I could've easily moved to another carriage.

The difference between allowing and tolerating is that in tolerating you are putting up with the situation but remaining unhappy. With allowing, you're letting the situation be, but feeling better about it all inside.

We are not advising you to be a doormat, but we are advising you to be in alignment and to feel as good as you can, so you're not in a vibration where you could be a doormat!

That's fine tuning but it makes all the difference. Make peace with where you are, when you've shifted vibration then you will be a mismatch to those situations which do not serve you and even if they do occur they don't bother you that much!

All is well!!!

Happy football-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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To praise or not to praise... What will ruin the child??? Xxx

29/8/2016

My friend and I were discussing his kid and how best to raise such a wonderful young being. Personally, as I didn't/don't receive much parental praise I would far lean towards over praising the child, that and combined with my knowledge of how powerful it is to express such appreciations really would line me up to have such a disposition.

My friend agreed somewhat but had read that one shouldn't praise too much as the kid gets too reliant upon that and then when they join the real world and not everyone is so kind, the kid would get demotivated and wouldn't flourish.

Interesting! I kinda have to see the point in this logic. It's teaching them to become dependent on an external for positive reinforcement.

I still would lean towards that as I can't help it, but I think the extra element there, is to teach the kid to look for things with which they could praise themselves. In an ideal world, that would be the ultimate! To have a being who could self generate a positive focus so they didn't need a parent, teacher, friend, society to prop them up emotionally. That would be cool!

Anyhoo, parenting ain't that easy in practise but you do what you gotta do! They can take care of themselves and you ain't responsible for anyone but yo'self!

All is well!!!

Happy praise-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Gimme, gimme more!!! I just want more!!! Such is life... Get used to it!!! Xxx

28/8/2016

In those immortal words of Britney Spears, 'gimme gimme more!' Such applies to life! Many of us see ourselves winning the lottery, getting the dream partner, house, job or whatever it is and then thinking that will be the end of that and then live happily ever after.

But my fine feathered friends, you weren't created that way, so please don't get it twisted!

Odds are you'll readjust to the previous set point you'll have and you'll crave something else. Does the world need another entrepreneur, song, book, business or whatever? It's the calling of life through us that drives us. The billionaires have more money than they could spend in many lifetimes, yet it doesn't stop them from going on to more projects. It's because it's the creativity, passion and focus which the next step gives them.

The thing is, you really need to be satisfied with all you have in the now and eagerly anticipating what's round the corner. That would be the ideal state of creation.

We can often get lost in the 'stuff' that we want that we think will make us happy, but that's backwards! You have to be happy now, and then move forward through life, otherwise it's likely you'll experience that emptiness which you think will be fixed by reaching for something outside of yourself. When like Dorothy, you can realise you've always had the power and it is with you now!

All is well!!!

Happy gimme-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Trust your gift!!! Sometimes it's better to not know any better... Set your own acting rules!!! Xxx

27/8/2016

Trust your gift!!! Sometimes it's better to not know any better... Set your own acting rules!!! Xxx

I was watching my favourite interview series- the Hollywood Reporter round tables- this showcases and gathers some of the most successful people in film and TV and gets them to chat about their lives, careers and experiences. I just love it!

I was watching the TV interviews and one of them grabbed me and she was so funny. She spoke about one of her first few experiences of auditioning. She somehow got wind of it and she rocked up, the other actresses were chatting to each other and playing the game of 'Who is your agent? One-up-manship!' She was thinking 'Erm, I'm my own agent!'

She then burst into the audition and was pretty rude to the audition people, but she got the part!!!

She said that it was because she didn't know any better- she didn't know she had to have an agent or the etiquette around being in the casting room. Had she, she might have had been too fearful or just assumed she wouldn't be eligible, but because of her ignorance she just went in was herself and got the role!

Sometimes, it's best to not know too much, to be a clean slate and go in with that pure expectation- ignorance can be bliss!

All is well!!!

Happy ignorance-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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WOWWWW!!! OMG thank you Liverpool!!! What an absolutely amazing evening, thank you for your brilliant beingness to everyone who came along and shared the best of them!!! Love ya!!! Xxx

26/8/2016

OMG, wow!!! Thank you everyone so much, it was a crazy cool group tonight. It was so lovely to be in a room crammed packed to the brim of leading edge co creators both oldbie and complete newbie. I really do appreciate being around such positive, open people. Taking us all to new levels!

Some key points:

- Be like the Phoenix, who rises from the ashes! It doesn't matter what has gone before you (anyone who's anyone has had their fair share of breakups, breakdowns, bankruptcies and all sorts!), but all that matters is what you do in your now, moving forward! You can thrive and succeed, just allow!

- Be easy on yourself, it can be really tricky with that inner critic going on and on all the time but the trick is to somehow not let it get the better of ya! It can be a drag being a drag all the time lol. You want some positivity! Having said that...

- Don't be a fake book! Be a real book ha! The thing is not to put a smiley face on when you're feeling crap, the idea is to acknowledge you're feeling poo and then when you're ready, start to move yourself in a better feeling direction. And when you experience that rush of relief, it's highly likely you'll have a positive manifestation!

Thank you all for another amazing evening, I can't believe it's almost the year end with the last couple of meetups! There's still time to make it an amazing year if it hasn't been already!

All is well!!!

Happy Phoenix-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Sweet lord!!! What a freaking freaking amazing group we had tonight!!! Thank you so much Manchester!!! Love it so much!!! Xxx

25/8/2016

Holy moly I just loved tonight so much! As always, and even more so of late, I am really appreciating people who are taking some sort of positive steps to create a better life for themselves. It really is wonderful!

Thanks so much for a beautiful, sunny day and a most powerful, inspiring, leading edge evening Manchester! Loving ya lots!!!

Some key points of the gabillions that were shared:

- Appreciate your sensitivity! In this society it can be hard to be a sensitive old soul because many wouldn't want you that way (primarily because of their issues!). But you must appreciate your ability to feel more, to love more, to notice more. It really is a gift!

- Thank the contrast! Without knowing what you don't want, you wouldn't know what you do want. The trick is to turn your attention to what you do want and activate that thought and feeling vibration from a space of what you would like, whilst being clear of what you do not want. Tricky and advance but that's the key!

- When you love yourself, you've got it covered. Because no matter what fears or worries crop up, you can deal with it. Being there for yourself and knowing you'll be there for yourself no matter what will see you through everything! Not the easiest task ever, but that's the trick!

- There's no excuses! It doesn't matter how old, young, abled or not so, if you want it, you can get it! Louise Hay didn't write her world inspiring book until she was about 50 years old! She is 90 this year and continues to learn, taking classes in dance and children's art and all sorts!

- It's all for the experience! When you realise that there isn't some higher thing you have to attain and it really is for the life flowing through you, you can start to chillout, relax and really enjoy all that life has to offer! Thank you so much for an amazing evening Manchester- y'all kick ass!

All is well!!!

Happy sun-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Sometimes you'll be the student... Sometimes you'll be the teacher... Just be you and allow!!! Xxx

24/8/2016

It's so important to be the true, real, authentic you in this world. Not only will it benefit it others, but it will be of extreme benefit to yourself! The mental and spiritual well being and peace it can bring you is life itself. It can be tempting to try to be this for this person and that for the other person but you're not only training them to expect that of you but you're pulling yourself off your path.

It's so important to be you, whoever that is. Sometimes you'll be the teacher, the advice giver and you can offer some expertise. At other times, you'll be the student, learning from someone else more experienced. And it's all good- it's keeping the balance between giving and receiving that is key.

Sometimes I'm the one offering the advice and trying to help as much as I can. And other times I'll need to know as much as I can about a subject that's new and fascinating to me but I know very little about.

Give graciously and accept graciously. It can be difficult but you can assist others by accepting that they who would love to help you, and likewise you can offer your advice when needed. Take an aligned approach, such as Samantha from Sex and the City when she talks about money- 'If you have it and someone needs it, you give. If you need it, take it!'

Live the balance, for such is life!

All is well!!!

Happy student-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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It's so inspiring to be around other inspiring people taking positive action!!! Xxx

23/8/2016

I was at a focus group a little while ago and by chance (or as I like to believe- post-cruise alignment!), I just got chatting to a couple of people afterwards. I commented that it's rare for me to get picked for such things and they were saying that they did it all the time! They then went onto give so much helpful advice, tips, hints and so much wonderful information. I was so impressed, touched and inspired by how open and generous with their information they shared. It opened my consciousness as to what's possible and it really struck me like a ten tonne truck, how I just love to be surrounded by people who take action to lead a better life for themselves.

It doesn't mean you have to go off immediately and face your fear and jump off a tall building, but I do encourage you to get out there and do your best to seek out ways which will improve your quality of life.

There are infinite groups, resources, meetups, meetings, websites and all that good stuff. You just never know what will hit you in a powerful way and help you take things to the next level!

There is no reason to complain about anything. Most business people, one of which who stands out is Richard Branson- has created a lot of companies based on his dissatisfaction with what was currently on the market, and the impact he's had on everything from media to flying to hospitality has been phenomenal!

Connect and mix it up. Somethings and some people will hit the spot and will help you excel, others can be a bit rubbish, but just dust it all off to being part of the journey.

All is well!!!

Happy action-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Leave em be... Let them complain, but be sure to tune out!!! Xxx

22/8/2016

It's probable you know at least one of them, you may even be one yourself... A complainer! Now who doesn't enjoy a good moan every so often, the thing is you don't want your energy to get stuck there!

You want to be looking for ways to enjoy life and have fun and uplift! And chances are, as a result of your conscious work, you are feeling better and inevitably want to share it with those who are near and dear. And they may come along with you but others might not, they'll just sit there and complain and when you try to offer some advice they'll argue for their limitations. It's probably best to just leave them to it. Because the more you try to change them, the more they'll dig their heels in.

Instead, focus on your life, pay attention to what you want to do, where you want to go and how you want your life to unfold.

Then when things go well for you, others who are in the right place of receptivity will be open to what you have to say and hopefully they'll run with it and you'll see them flourish. But, it is not their job to be happy so you can feel better and vice versa. They are where they are and it's all fine!

And if they want to stay in their negative state, then just tune out if they continue to go off on one. Respect yourself enough to care how you feel, turn your attention to the broader, successful part of them, not where they are in the aspects of life which aren't pleasing them.

All is well!!!

Happy tune-ing!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Find a penny, pick it up... And all day long... You'll have good... Thoughts!!! Xxx

21/8/2016

Nowadays, I really try to appreciate the goodness that's all around me- especially if it's free!

I've always had a knack for finding things (huge thanks for to my wonderful Ortho-K lenses for my sharp vision!). And being the conscious creator, I am currently loving finding pennies around (and don't even get me started on 2p coins- that's a 100% uplift!) lol.

It's not much but it's something. And it got me thinking, thoughts can be like pennies- it's easy to disregard, one here and another there but it adds up and before you know it, there's a deluge of what you've built up.

It's quite easy to think the odd thought such as 'I'm too fat/thin/ugly/stupid/not good enough/I'll never be good at that etc' But when you have some 60,000 thoughts a day and most of them (some researcher's say as much as 98%!) were the same as the previous day, which were the same as the previous day and so on, that single negative thought becomes a lifetime habit already!

So start now, not tomorrow, or next year, but now! Collect those singular positive thoughts, things you'd like to believe about yourself and watch them grow, until that becomes your dominant vibration and then Law Of Attraction can bring you your good stuff!

All is well!!!

Happy penny-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Vive the difference!!! Now is the greatest time to be the difference that is you!!! Xxx

20/8/2016

As Abe says- it's the best of times and the worst of times, because it's the most of times. Everything is flying at a tremendous speed. But there has never been a better time to be different. Yes, there will always be those who push against and try to enforce their blinkered view on others but it has never been easier to connect with others of like mind.

Introverts are claiming their strengths of sensitivity, a proclivity to being on their own, in the face of what was once considered the best way to be i.e. gregarious, loud and social. Geek chic is in and very desirable to many! Colour, sexuality and all sorts are uniting to bask and show the power of love over hate.

In any case, we want you to pay close attention to what makes you happy and shut the rest of the world out! It is really easy to get sucked into what's going on out there but that's the last thing you should be doing! Garner the contrast and work out what is it you do want but don't spend too long on the unwanted.

You are a tremendous being, perfect in all your differences, it doesn't matter what anyone's told you that you can't do or how you're flawed- that's a load of bull! You is brilliance! So know it!!!

All is well!!!

Happy difference-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Appreciate all your qualities- your alleged weakness could be your strength (and vice versa!!!). Open your mind and heart a little... Xxx

19/8/2016

It really hit me the other day, that what is a strength in some areas, can really be a bit of a hindrance in others! My friend is really knowing, he can believe something so strongly that he'll see the best in someone and talk them so powerfully into it, that they become the good that he sees! Obviously, that's a really fabulous quality to have, especially when assisting people in becoming who they truly are.

But! When they become convinced of something negative about themselves, my goodness they really don't seem to hear a word that anyone else is saying! I was trying to get them to soften their vibration so they could start allowing in something they want a lot and have been working towards but goodness- it's like hitting a brick wall, there is just no budging them no matter how much I tell them!

Basically, we want you to know your wellness so much that no one can tell you otherwise. But conversely we want you to soften your attitude towards things that are not serving you.

If you've believed all your life that money is hard to earn, then that probably doesn't feel very good- soften it! Start telling yourself that things are up for change, that you are pretty smart, that anything is possible, that you've worked on your vibration and this is just the start of a new adventure! You can have the ideal partner, house, and more joy and confidence than ever before, but you have to be willing to let it in and relax your mind.

Bottom line- if a thought feels bad, it's letting you know it's not who you truly are. So change it! And lighten up, we make far too much of all of this!!!

All is well!!!

Happy heart-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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The Uber alignment timing, post-cruise goodness!!! How wonderful!!! Xxx

18/8/2016

It's interesting the timing of things. I swear it must be post-cruise alignment (which is basically when you spend a good chunk of time in a good feeling space with virtually nothing to worry about- unless you choose to do so!).

Anyhoo, I was selected for one of those focus group things (basically being paid to share your opinion!). Now the funny thing is, I have been on their system for what must be years and applied for tons and tons but to no avail. I get home post holiday and boom- I get chosen for one, which I think is right up my street. Fascinating timing! And I've seen it time and time again!

That's really why I recommend people spending time in a state of relaxation and distraction. It's amazing how your vibration can naturally raise when you do your best to really not fuss and worry about anything/very little.

Ultimately, there are two ways of letting in your good stuff- focus on it in such a positive way that your being sings when you think of it. Or, distract yourself, let your mind feel ease and focus on fun and allowing things- movies, music, ents, walks, dancing, art- whatever does it for you. Consciously deactivate that vibration of worry and allow your vibe to rise naturally. At worst, you'll have spent some time having a good time. At best, that could break down the walls of resistance and allow more good than you've ever known to flow into your beingness!

All is well!!!

Happy distract-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Stop asking for a sign!!! Just pick one and get on with it!!! Xxx

17/8/2016

It's funny cos when I have a fairly important decision to make, I like to send out the intention 'Universe give me a sign on which one to pick!' Sometimes it does, but moreover when it doesn't (or at least that I can pick up on), it results in going back and forth and I get frustrated.

But I just laughed to myself when I was making a decision a while ago and thought 'Stop looking for a freaking sign and just get on with it and pick something!'

And I know why- my underlying fear was making the 'wrong' decision so on some level, I was trying to look beyond myself and almost not take responsibility. I was quite fearful of making a mistake, so I was looking outside of myself for some sort of answer.

Now, it's completely OK if you want to ask for a 'sign' and the Universe can yield to you whatever you want. But for me, it definitely had the underlying basis of being a little too scared to move forward.

Ultimately there is no right or wrong, if you're not being called towards one thing or another, then try pushing the energy out there mentally and imagining what each outcome could be like- which one rings your bells? Or the other way round is to select an option (and it doesn't matter which one), and then make that the right one.

That is to say, when you've chosen one route, give it your full positive energy, and look for all the ways it could and would work for you. Don't regret or look back and think you should've picked the other option, instead align with your choice and move forward as best you can. You are a free being so revel in myriad of options you have!

All is well!!!

Happy sign-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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WOW!!! Thank you Birmingham!!! What a freaking corker of an evening!!! I just loved it so much!!! Xxx

16/8/2016

A huge thanks as always to all the leading edge co creators who joined us this evening! I really appreciate it! I just love being in a room full of people taking positive action to create a better life for themselves!!!

A few takeaway points, of which there were tons:

- Start small, look for things you can do everyday. Catch yourself, as you become more and more conscious, your sensitivity will increase to it all and that's what we want for ya!

- Affirmations- say them with lots of positivity and power, as you get that powerful emotion behind it, you will start to shift your vibration higher and higher and boom, before you know it, you'll be attracting it!

- Work, work, work like Rihanna and 5th Harmony sing! You have all these beliefs in your consciousness from as young as childhood, some which serve you, others which don't. The key to deliberate creation is to work out what you do want to create your life and work out what doesn't and then go about allowing it in.

- There are so many resources out there, which have gone on for literally hundreds of years! It's just up to you to align and keep up with it. And the choice is yours!!!

- It's a lifetime's worth of work people! Keep being conscious and going. The contrast will always be there, it's just up to you how you react. You're doing a magnificent job, it's just up to you how you view it. The choice my dear is yours!

Thank you Birmingham for a freaking magnificent leading edge evening! I just loved it so much!!!

All is well!!!

Happy work-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Just a small shift of focus can turn you from the happiest person to the most miserable person in minutes!!! Xxx

15/8/2016

In one of the last sessions of lectures on the Abraham Alaska cruise a wonderful, vibrant girl got into the hot seat! She was beaming and the crowd cheered for her high energy. She could've been quite easily the happiest girl around for miles!

But then she started to talk about her issue and then became quite easily one of the most upset in the room!

On a side note, the issue was that she was upset that her family didn't support her and wasn't going to attend her wedding. To which Abraham replied that it was a good thing because she really only wanted happy people around her for her big day!

Anyhoo, Abe wisely pointed out that she went from the brightest being to the saddest being with just a slight shift of focus. Nothing else had changed in those few minutes other than where she was putting her mind.

And that was a really good point- with just a change of mindset, you can go from being a wonderfully happy being to feeling awful. It all lies in the power of your mind.

You can control where you put your attention and because of this you get to bring about whatever is predominantly on your mind and your vibration.

So consciously make an effort to focus on good feeling things. That which pleases and uplifts you. And notice how life changes, all because of where your mind goes.

All is well!!!

Happy wed-ing!!!

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I've only gone and won the flipping lottery!!! Again and again and again!!! Turning into expectation...Xxx

14/8/2016

You gotta love the timing of well being! It never ceases to amaze! Now before you go getting all jelly, I can share that it was literally only a few pounds each win and a lucky dip for the next draw but still! I love it!

I haven't won the lottery for ages and ages and in the few weeks following the Abraham Alaska cruise I won about 4 times! Never happened before. Now that's what easily could happen when you start doing this positive work (not winning the lottery necessarily but you find yourself saying 'that never happened before!' About good manifestations). And I personally think that's a really powerful way of showing you your vibration is in a higher place. You become the recipient of so much good- courses, good people, wins, extra abundance, job offers, inspirations etc. Your main manifestation should be how much better you feel, but the physically goodies can be very nice too!

And then it turns into expectation. So it's almost as if after a lottery draw I expect to receive an email saying 'Congratulations!' (Something which I never dared reach for or could do so before!).

Now, it is so vital to remind you that it's not about the 'stuff.' Because that will come and go and probably really only keep you happy for a little while, but more to show yourself if you can change your thoughts and feelings, then you can rock it out and have so much goodness happen to you!

Expect well being and alignment and abundance to flow (as long as it feels good), is all for the fun of it!

All is well!!!

Happy lottery-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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You literally have to save your own life first before you can save anyone!!! Xxx

13/8/2016

Although it is easy to tune out, it is very wise to listen to the safety announcements on a flight. One of the key ones is to put your own air mask on first before you tend to anyone else. Why? Because without doing that, you would pass out and be of no use to anyone else.

Abraham recounts the time when Jerry was being trained as a lifeguard. He was told that in some cases, the person drowning would be thrashing and in panic so much that he might not be able to do anything for them and he would have to let them drown. He responded what was the point of being a lifeguard if he couldn't save them? To which the teacher pointed out that if Jerry didn't let them go, they would drag him down and they would both drown and then he would be of no use to anyone after that!

The moral of these tales is that you have to take care of your physical, emotional and mental well being first and foremost and then from that place of strength you can shine upon anyone that wonderful spotlight of well being.

You must be selfish enough to feel good! You don't do anyone any service by joining them in their misery (even if it does like company!), instead you are the most benefit when you can see someone as healthy, whole, complete and brilliant. They'll rise to this expectation and if they don't, then that is their choice but nothing to do with you.

All is well!!!

Happy compete-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Thank you London!!! A most perfection perfect perfectist evening!!! Just love being with other leading edge co creators!!! Love ya!!! Xxx

12/8/2016

Thank you London!!! A most perfection perfect perfectist evening!!! Just love being with other leading edge co creators!!! Love ya!!! Xxx

Wowwwww!!! What a most perfect evening and group we had! As always a huge thank you to all the wonderful beings who made it along tonight. I just love being in a room full of leading edge co-creators!

For me, little thrilled me more than when people take positive action in whatever way to live a better life. It is truly encouraging, inspiring and powerful to see! Bravo and well done for being you and being where you are!!!

Some key points:

- When you're in a great space, you'll be amazed at the synchronicities that you'll get bombarded by! People, places, signs, calls, websites, they'll all line up to meet you in your high vibrational place!

- Follow your dream, it doesn't matter how long it takes, if you have some sort of calling, then constantly work towards that in some way. Keep yourself on track and eventually it will yield, it must! Be it in this life or the next ha!

- There really are no excuses nor complaints. There are so many ways to improve the quality of your life if you want to! Books, audiobooks, YouTube clips, groups, Facebook and all sorts. It's all out there waiting for you. Just be brave and committed and take that first step towards it.

- Your stuff is done! It's waiting for ya! All you have do is to line up with it! It's really quite that simple! Kinda...

As always, I just love spending time with other positive people! Yes, life can knock you about and all sorts but we can support and love each other no matter what!!!

All is well!!!

Happy London-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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You want competitors who bring out just the best you!!! Be a Goldi-competitor!!! Xxx

11/8/2016

You came to this life experience to mix it up! To not have things be too difficult (as that would be uncomfortable for too long) but not too easy either (because that would be boring!). You wanted to mix it up, align and allow in the good, mix it up, align and allow...

I was listening to an Abe clip (a free CD from her land Seattle lecture, thank you very much!). And they put it perfectly when they said that when you play a match you didn't want to play people who were too easy to beat, but not so beyond you that you got discouraged.

Seek out that balance in life, that constant flow between ease and flow and expansion. This world is endless in possibilities and experiences which can lift you to new levels. Much like Goldilocks you wanted that which is just right.

You are the creator of your reality, by the thoughts you think and the emotions you feel. You draw to you all that is a vibrational match to what you are sending out. By choosing what you wish to focus on, you can have the most enjoyable life experience or the most miserable. The choice is yours!

All is well!!!

Happy compete-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Break the chain of pain!!! Just cos they done you wrong, doesn't mean you have to continue it... Xxx

10/8/2016

I was on the train the other day and I heard a father speaking really quite abruptly to his young child, it was a little bit sad! But kids- the resilient beings they are, didn't seem too fazed by it all.

It then occurred to me, how must have the father been raised? And his father's father and so on. Louise Hay's parents weren't particularly loving towards her, but it was only when she researched their past that it dawned on her that how could they offer love if they had never been loved?

So, the chain of pain continues, until a conscious one such as yourself decides to investigate further and reach for a better feeling, more loving and kinder way of living.

And if you've been part of a chain of pain, don't lament but thank. If it wasn't for that, you wouldn't be in a strong place of wanting to know how to live better.

A huge component of Oprah's success is her ability to empathise and offer love. The root of this is because she was told she was never wanted as a child. She was able to turn this round and use this as a strength and as a multi billionaire, she's done pretty well out of it all!

So break, break, break it! You are the culmination of all that has gone before and you are magnificent. A powerful, loving focal point of Source who is truly great!

All is well!!!

Happy break-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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It's the extracting of the best of you in the competition and football match that really brings in the fun... The infinite goals!!! Xxx

9/8/2016

There is something about pressure, powerful desire and putting in your best that really leads to some remarkable, nail biting, edge of the seat stuff!

I'm not following the Euros 2016 (football matches) but one did catch my eye the other day. Hungary was playing Portugal and it seemed to be going along quite steadily, then towards the end, every time I popped out to the staff kitchen- which had a TV playing the match, another goal had been scored! It must've been a thrilling match for the spectators ending in a 3-3 finale.

It begs the question why couldn't have so many goals been made earlier on?! It's because, its that mix of focus, intense desire and skill that pushes all the players to dig deeper and play their very best. They need each other to go beyond and produce a hella good match!

Same with life, the contrast and people who pee you off extract your strongest game because it causes you to focus. Now, you don't need the drama to live a powerful life, it's just that it does extract from you some of the best things you're likely to experience.

All is well!!!

Happy goal-ing!!!

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Your vibrational creations are a bit like cooking rice... Let it cook!!! Xxx

8/8/2016

I am by no means at all a chef-fy, but after having burned and undercooked countless batches of rice over the years, I have come up with my own way which pleases me. Ideally soak it before, bring it to the boil, then bring it right down to the minimum heat and then just leave it for a while. This method is easy for me and produces some lovely cooked rice to my taste.

It was funny, but ages ago, I was with a friend and part way they kept stirring it and I'm like 'No! Leave the lid on and let it be!' I set it up to cook as well as it could before their prodding!

And then it occurred to me that our vibrational creations are just like that. You set up the desire, you let it simmer and at the right time it will be ready! You don't go there every few mins, check on it, mix it up, go away, come back, check on it etc. It doesn't lead to an ease filled creation nor does it result in very nice rice!

You see, you have this wonderful buffer of time where you can mould and create and add and update your creations. And that is a wonderful thing. If everything that passed through your mind, manifested instantly, goodness- we would be in for some trouble!

Instead, it is the constant shifting, desiring and updating that you send our vibrationally and then at the right time, it will make itself known to you. You just have to trust and get in that good space of allowing!

Relax into your well being, chillout and flow. It's really all working out for you.

All is well!!!

Happy rice-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Everyone can win in a competition.. Sorta... Focus on the goodies!!! Xxx

7/8/2016

I've heard a couple of times people ask Abraham about competition. If everyone really can get what they want, then how does it work when there's only one winner?

One response they came up with was everyone could be a winner if they were to focus on the goodies. The actual winner can appreciate their win and the others can turn their attention to the Step 1 they've been doing- the asking and the things they've learned on the way.

It may not be as satisfying but there are always things to be gained in any situation...

And on the other hand, if you won at every single game you ever played you would soon get bored and look for another game and/or seek out more powerful opponents.

There is little else satisfying than putting in the time and effort to get your goal and that moment of closing the gap and experiencing your desires- that is the very nature of life. If you got everything, all the time, without any trying, life would be very boring! On the other hand, life shouldn't be a constant struggle either.

You want a fine balance between wanting something, giving the space to allow it and then experiencing it.

All is well!!!

Happy compete-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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