Abe was speaking to someone about how they viewed their partner going on holiday to see an old flame. Not the most comfortable space to be in emotionally, but it serves you not to control your partner. He said he wished her well and that whatever happened he’d be ok with it.

Abraham replied that that was a good thing, because it’s aligning of vibration, because that was all he could do. But also, to say you’re ok with something and to actually be ok with it is most important.

It’s one thing to say something. It’s another thing to actually feel it and offer the vibration of it. And that’s what counts. It’s the aligning of thought, action and emotion which is amazing. Emotionally and manifestationally.

All is well!!!

Happy ok-ing!!!

​Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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You can’t change everything in your life, nor anyone in an instant. All you can do is shift your vibration! That’s the only thing you can really reach for at this moment in time. And to be honest, that’s pretty much all you need. If you can trust that shifting the way you feel, changing your vibration, your viewpoint is what’s most important, that manifestation will follow, now you’re talking!

It’s all you can do! So begin to make that your priority. How are you feeling at this moment in time? When you’re at work? On the bus or tube into your job? Focusing on your parents? And so on. If it feels negative, then that’s your indicator that you’re viewing something negatively.

If you’re feeling excited and positive about it, then you’re on the way there! If you can get there in your mind first, then you’ll be hit with inspiration of what to do, where to go and who to contact.

All is well!!!

Happy shift-ing!!!

​Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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When you’re deciding whether to change a job, house, partner, location etc, it is often born out of knowing what you don’t want. So obviously a good chunk of your vibration is going to be from the unwanted. However, it’s best if you can try not to keep that your dominant vibration in the process of attracting what you do want.

This is because your point of attraction will be on the things that are wrong with your previous situation and this is more than likely going to attract other or similar things that you dislike in your next creation. Instead, turn your attention to what you do want and let the reasons the new thing lights you up to be the main thing that you want. That is to say, be called to the different situation as opposed to being pushed from the old one.

You can carry over a lighter vibration and then attract more wanted! Simple!

All is well!!!

​Happy change-ing!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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One thing which never fails to surprise or touch me is the kindness I see in the groups. It is a lovely warm safe space to love and be loved. It’s not easy coming forward and admitting you need help but in the right place, you can receive more than you thought you might.

We’ve all been there, but what’s so great about coming through something like that is that you’ve learned how you best deal with it and you can therefore share it with others. We’re all human and it’s just being gentle with yourself and others.

That’s one of the most powerful ways to love yourself- be kind and gentle with you.

All is well!!!

Happy gentle-ing!!!

​Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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A client was writing to me about some horrible experiences she was going through. In the grand scheme of things, nothing truly horrific but still not great for the ol confidence! They asked ‘did I attract it.’ To which the answer is always ‘yes,’ but when you’re hurting and wounded, that’s not the most empowering thing to hear.

I thought it would be good for them to reach for some anger and revenge in such cases- mentally but not physically! It reminded me of the time Esther reached for some revenge when Rhonda Byrne screwed her over with The Secret ha!

It’s just about taking a step to feeling better, once you’ve stabilised in that, you turn your attention to love and hope and appreciation. That’s the key.

All is well!!!

​Happy hope-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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I was speaking to a friend the other day who organises events. And I really like his attitude to all of it. He was very much the mindset of that if there were a lot of people, then he’s done a great job but even if not, he’s still going to go out and have fun even if it’s on his own!

I think this positive internal state is what has helped contribute to making his events really successful- at least from a numbers point of view. It’s because he’s kept it open, even if only one other person shows, he’ll still go ahead and run it. Because he likes to be reliable but also, that one person would go away, hopefully come back and then tell someone else and so on. And that’s how it grows.

And his stuff has done really well! I truly believe it’s his openness and positive, relaxed, reliable mindset which has contributed to the organic growth of his events.

I really think the mindset with which you approach stuff is fundamental to how it turns out. Have fun no matter what, even if it’s just you and you!

All is well!!!

Happy event-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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I was speaking to a friend who’s job is primarily people facing and therefore offering a service that the customer should like. Upon commenting that he wasn’t overly enamoured by what he was doing (and there were ways he could conceivably make it more enjoyable for himself), it dawned on me that at least for your soul, you have to take pleasure in what you do- on some level.

You have to pay more attention to what lights you up and makes you feel good. It’s your life experience, you have no idea how long you have left on this planet in this physical existence, so it serves you to do more of what you find fun.

That’s not to say you necessarily up and throw in your and join the circus! But that you try to encorporate some good feeling things into your schedule, for the pure joy of joy! Do more and more of this because it feeds your soul. And things will flow with more ease.

All is well!!!

Happy enjoy-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Sometimes, we have a clear picture of the person, place or thing we believe we need to be happy. However, we can place too much pressure, stress or expectation on it that the more we try to make things happen, the more it eludes us.

Sometimes, it’s just better to go general and relax and let go of the way we think it will come to us. The notion that we’ll be fine anyways and we can be happy and enjoy life is really so important.

By doing this, we can release any resistance holding us back and really let in the goodness. The Universe can bring us what we want in a myriad of ways. And when we truly let go, often it can come in the exact way we imagined it to be!

All is well!!!!

Happy general-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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As a sensitive person who likes to ensure the well being of those around me, it can sometimes override what I would like and need. Growing up the only way to express anger was to bottle it or let it explode. But as I grow and mature, I realise that those aren’t the most healthiest reactions. Instead, maturely discussing things like an adult and not being afraid of backlash or loss, is what I’m trying to do.

And this does involve pushing back a little bit when people may overstep the mark. It’s just a gentle but firm way of saying, that doesn’t feel good to me, I would like it this way. How they react ultimately isn’t any of your business but how you feel is everything.

It might feel uncomfortable especially if you’re a gentle people pleaser but if you think it’s important for your soul then try it. Be gentle with yourself and the others. They may not be used to you speaking up for yourself, but you’ll be fine!

All is well!!!

Happy express-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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You have to trust that the Universe has your back and that things are always working out for you. A good dose of self love will always help when things don’t work out in the way that you expect. But instead of getting too caught up in the heartache, be kind to yourself, breathe and know that it’ll work out.

Sometimes the most difficult, painful experience is your path of least resistance to what you really want. And more often than not, a powerful catalyst to change because that’s when we really dig deep and search for a deeper meaning to life.

Just be patient with yourself and the unfolding of it all. This life is to be enjoyed and experienced and not rushed. Just allow it and be open. The Universe will inspire, surprise and delight you in ways you could never imagine if you just let it!

All is well!!!

Happy trust-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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What we believe we crave in a relationship with that special someone is usually what we want for ourselves within. Especially when we put them on a pedestal. When we look to someone else and they have a quality we believe we want, it’s probably because we feel we are lacking it in ourselves and therefore are seeking that balance within.

For example, the partner who works incredibly hard 24/7 could very well attract a partner who is a bit of a bum! Both souls are appreciating the opposite quality within the other and so it manifests in a relationship that way. However, the playout could also be resentment and arguments as both lifestyles are conflicting.

But if you could learn what’s going on and correct the imbalance within, we no longer look for such an extreme in another and therefore resolve that issue by doing our internal work. Ta da- life sorted! That is just one way we can use our manifestations to learn and grow and improve!

All is well!!!

Happy opposite-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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So, as part of my DJ training I was using someone else’s tunes and not my own. There were only a handful of songs I could choose from but I didn’t know many of them. I had to keep within the same BPM bracket lest it sound funky. So I chose a song I didn’t know and it didn’t land very well!

The crowd kinda died and I didn’t like the song. A lose-lose lol! What it did reiterate to me, is to do what you enjoy. At the very least you’ll be having fun!

If you like what you’re doing, then odds are someone else will- that’s how Simon Cowell chooses his songs and artists and he’s been doing pretty well with it!

All is well!!!

Happy music-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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