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Step a few feet back- it doesn't look as scary as it do close up!!! Xxx

29/2/2016

Watching a Cirque Du Soleil show is definitely a high point and it makes quite the difference where you sit!

When I sat further back, it doesn't look as scary, the performers are doing their thang and I'm loving it. It was only when I see the show sat a few rows back from the front I appreciate how scary it is! The heights that they work from are tremendous. I actually felt a wee bit of vertigo whilst sat in my chair watching them fly about many feet in the air!

The same can be said of a problem or issue that you may have going on. Up close and personal it can feel quite scary and overwhelming, but if you can mentally or physically distance yourself from it, then it doesn't necessarily look as bad.

When you're in the midst of a problem, it's hard to see the wood from the trees as you're just so swamped under, if you can allow some space, it can really help. That's why it's usually easier for someone to offer a clearer solution on an issue and vice versa- just make sure you're speaking to those who support and uplift you when you're seeking out advice.

So just take a breather, chill out a bit and then address whatever it is you need to.

All is well!!!

Happy back-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Use it or lose it!!! Make the most of those positive brain pathways!!! Xxx

28/2/2016

Scientists claim that when we are new to this world we have tons and tons of brain pathways all darting about trying to make sense of this place. They find that as we get older, this number tends to decrease but the connections solidify more, increasing in strength the more often we use them.

The same goes for your positive or negative) thinking! The more you do it, the easier it gets and the stronger your propensity for such things are. It therefore stands to reason, if you've been negative most of the time, those neutrons will be more active and it is possibly going to take a greater amount of effort to make positivity your more natural way of being.

So get on it asap! We are creatures of habit and heuristics, so all you need to start doing is carving out more ways of being upbeat into your life. Make those connections stronger and you'll not only start to feel better, but by the nature of Law Of Attraction you'll start bringing to you more of what you want.

And doesn't it feel good to feel good- it is the primary motivator after all.

So try it- even five minutes a day of deliberate practise and focus can go a long way in bringing about an uplifted life.

All is well!!!

Happy pathway-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

What is your personal construct??? Make it a good one... Your memory is up for grabs!!! Xxx

27/2/2016

Everyone has their own construct of reality- a mix of memories, perceptions and all that good stuff that goes into making you, you!

The thing is, whilst a number of us like to cling to a supposed real reality- 'oh but it really is true for me!', I must inform you that everything is up for change and misinformation including your very own memories!

There are literally a gazillion things vying for your attention at any point in time, so you are filtering that which is most important to you and placing your attention where you want it to be (either deliberately or by default).

We want you to put a most positive slant on your focus and memories and projections. And it is all up for change, just don't be led by others who would have you complain.

A fascinating study into memory was carried out by the legendary psychologist Elizabeth Loftus. She got participants to watch a video of a car accident. She then asked them to recall certain details about it. They found that just a slight altering of the words had surprisingly profound effects on what was remembered. Eg. if she used the word 'contacted' vs 'smashed' it resulted in an almost 10mph difference in estimating the car speeds!

She also found much evidence to find that memories could be falsely created! Eeek! It stands to reason if you can make things up, might as well make them good feeling!

So, the message here is to not get stuck in the 'realities' which don't serve you- 'Oh, I'll never be able to achieve that! Good things don't happen to me!' And so on...

Instead, create memories which work for you, which support the best of who you are and what you want to experience in this life. It's all up for creation- it is your mind after all!

All is well!!!

Happy memory-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Love yourself, be kind to yourself... Break the chain of pain!!! Xxx

26/2/2016

I consider it an absolute honour to be able to hear others' experiences about what people have lived and to have them share with the group, things they may have never told anyone before- what a privilege!

What I'm even more pleased about is that they have taken steps to change it, to seek to be more positive about it all. In other words to break the chain of pain.

As Louise Hay beautifully points out, how can your parents be expected to show love, when they never were? As she found out when she researched her family as to why she had such a horrific upbringing.

First of all, you have to learn to be kind to yourself. You are doing the best you can at all times and with all you know. Love yourself, support yourself. It is only when you have this compassion for yourself that you can even begin to think about truly being able to offer it to anyone else.

Break the chain of pain, you are not your mother, father, partner etc. You are you! The brilliance, magnificence, uniqueness that is you.

Your point of power is now. So choose to feel good and align yourself with that which is a vibrational match to your wellness. You're doing your best and that's all anyone can ask.

All is truly well!!!

Happy break-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

On some level, since always, you've known what's good for you... Sometimes!!! Xxx

25/2/2016

It's funny how things transpire over the years. I remember when I was a kid and went on holiday with my parents to Vegas I saw a poster for KA (a Cirque Du Soleil show). At the time I had no idea about it, I didn't even know what Cirque was, I just loved the magical picture and was fascinated with it.

Fast forward many, many years later and having seen it a gagillion times, I can easily say it is my most favourite show in the world EVER! The fact that it was $165 million in production costs alone, gives you an idea of how spectacular it is. I just love the music, staging and everything about it- defo worth a visit if you can get to Vegas lol (or at least in my opinion it is!).

And each to their own init! 'O' tends to be their most popular show here, selling out with high prices. But for me, I just love KA.

What sticks is out, is that when I was a kid, I had absolutely no idea what a match to my good feelings the show would be, but I do remember vividly being called to it on some level.

The message for me here is that when you're full of childlike wonder in the world, no resistance or particular care, it is amazing how on some level you just know what is good for you.

That's one technique I recommend- reconnecting to what you loved as a child, especially if you're having trouble finding things you enjoy- which is vitally important to a good life!

All is well!!!

Happy KA-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

The agony, the ecstasy (MDMA) and the trolling... All simply to feel better!!! Xxx

24/2/2016

was watching the BBC programmes about the line (so to speak!) of Ecstasy, from production all the way to the end user. Surprisingly (or perhaps unsurprisingly!), when asked as to why she did drugs, the young girl replied that it made her feel good, she could have fun and dance all night and feel uninhibited.

A programme trying to chase down and confront the quite horrific trolling trolls showed me that some just want to be acknowledged! There's little else satisfying for them than the 'victim' replying and then blocking them. In a funky way, it gave them a sense of validity.

Whilst that may be all well and good. The thing is, most everyone looks for things outside of them to feel good. It's looking for love in all the wrong places, as you'll constantly need an external, more powerful fix. And if/when it can no longer deliver, it'll likely throw you off and you'll start to need something harder.

We want you to be able to generate your good feeling focus internally and then look outward into the world. And as you do, most things will be pleasing and by the nature of the Law Of Attraction, you'll draw more pleasing things to you.

Actively look for things to appreciate, tune your mind into goodness and wellness and you'll be inspired to take those actions which are in alignment with ease and flow for you.

All is well!!!

Happy acknowledge-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Thank you Manchester for a rocking eve!!! Love, love, love it!!! Xxx

23/2/2016

Wow!!! What an amazing evening we had in Manchester, it was absolutely wonderful. Little else beats being in a room full to the brim of leading edge positive thinkers!

I just love the wonderful uplifting vibe of everyone focused on well being and seeking to feel a little bit better and to allow a little bit more ease into their lives. Life is supposed to be good for you!

Some wonderful points:

- You are love. Everything is love! At the core of all that is, the resonance that is you, it is love. It's the highest point of vibration! You are loved at all times. Start to accept and feel that for yourself. Now that's what I call alignment!

- Break the chain of pain! No matter what has gone before you or how horrible people may have been, you have the power of now to change all of that. You can break the chain. From your new standpoint of power, you can do it! Forgive and forget, not for their sake but for yours!

- Be easy about it. Do as much as you can from a place of empowerment. If you choose to do something, give it your all. If not, then allow yourself to not do it. And be ok with it no matter what!

Relax into your well being. It is your true nature! Have fun with this!

All is well!!!

Happy Manc-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

How do I turn this Law Of Attraction thingy off??? Xxx

22/2/2016

The simple answer is - you can't!

My friend asked me somewhat tongue in cheek how to turn the Law Of Attraction off in his life. He was obviously joking but it did get me thinking how it is at work always and forever!

Everything that's going on in your experience is a result of how you're thinking, feeling or believing. It's all a reflection of what's going on internally. You'll believe and think in a certain way, which will activate the corresponding feelings and therefore lead you to experience the matching circumstances.

Much like the law of gravity, you don't need to know anything about it for it to exert itself on your beingness. But, to know how the laws work and how you can use it to the best of you ability, that is masterful, deliberate creation! The best of all worlds.

To work this law to your advantage, all you need to do is start by directing your thoughts and feelings in a more positive direction. Focusing more on what you want and less on what you don't want. It really is that simple (in theory at least!).

Try appreciating more, giving yourself and others the benefit of the doubt. Starting to believe in yourself and what you have to offer. Seeking out things which are playful and fun in nature. Trying to feel better in each and every situation. And as you do, your point of attraction will shift and then you'll be having a blast with it all.

All is well!!!

Happy turn-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

She'll take a lie detector to prove she didn't steal those jokes!!! Don't bother- the others out there are not worth it!!! Xxx

21/2/2016

So Amy Schumer (comedienne de l'annee!) was apparently accused of stealing jokes by fellow comedians. She vehemently denies this, so much so she spoke about taking a polygraph to prove her innocence.

Now, if there's legal eagles involved, she probably would need to do such things (or at least have more of a compelling reason to), but the thing is, there's nothing you can do to please them out there. Because then there'll be another and another... And another!

When people complain about something (and they are usually complainers), there's very little you can do to please them. Satisfy them in one way and they'll be able to find something else to gripe about.

Likewise, if you can find something to appreciate in one situation, then you'll be able to find more and more things that you love. It just depends on your focus.

Stop trying to please anyone else, it really is a draining experience. There's no need to explain or justify who you are or what you choose. We want to you to be self secure enough that you can act in ways which are in alignment and when you do, life will flow.

That's the key. It is so tempting to try to get others to understand you, as if that somehow validates your beingness or gives you a feeling of confidence and reassurance. But that is really looking for love in all the wrong places.

Relax into your well being, trust who you are and your inner inspiration. And tell em all to bugger off! Lol.

All is well!!!

Happy Polygraph-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Forget Blue Monday and all that jazz!!! You dictate how you wish to feel no matter what the superstition!!! Xxx

20/2/2016

They managed to calculate (using whatever factors 'they' use) that on one of the Mondays in mid-January it is meant to be the most depressing. Thankfully I read the article at the end of that supposed blue day, and it felt just like any other regular day, (in all fairness I was on a night shift and had slept most of the day but still, it was a good day!).

You see, there are always people ready to declare such and such a thing is supposed to be 'good/lucky/bad/depressing' etc But ignore it. Their experiences have led them to that conclusion and it's up to them to live it, in whichever way they deem most appropriate. But just cos it may be that way for them, it doesn't have to be for you.

You have to live your path of alignment as you'll be forever at the mercy of this and that and much like a cruise ship without stabilisers, you'll be forever tossed and turned in the rocky waters of life.

Decide the criteria that you want to live by and be a deliberate creator. Don't be a liver by default- where you look outside yourself, let that dictate how you want to feel and then react- for that is a horrible dis-empowering way to go about things. Carve out your vision of your dream life in your mind, feel good, then go out into the world and be the fabulous you, loving all the wonderful Mondays of the year (well, as best you can considering the weekend is over, ha!).

All is well!!!

Happy Monday-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Thank you London!!! Sweeta Lord!!! What an amazing evening, thank you all so much!!! Love yaaaa!!! Xxx

19/2/2016

A huge thanks to everyone who braved the coldish and came to last night's meeting. As always, it was a truly uplifting, fabulous evening. I think it takes a real commitment to head out the door and come along to an evening you may not know much about. It's infinitely easier to stay at home and troll negatively on Facebook and YouTube. So a huge bout of appreciation for all. And what an evening it was!

It is so heart warming to be in a room crammed full of brilliant, intelligent, eloquent beings, supporting, loving and being there for one another. No judgement, just love!

A couple of the myriad of good points...

- Decluttering. Abraham has a great process at the back of their book, for clearing out in 'Ask and it is given.' When your surrounding physical environment is clean, the energy can be so much lighter.

- The contrast is what makes you, don't let it break you (ooh I just made that up!). Odds are you've gone through some contrast in life, all of which has culminated in a powerful place of asking. You've worked hard to train your mind to be in a better place and now you can be deliberate about it!

- 'I am open and receptive to all good and abundance. Thank you!' A wonderful affirmation to repeat to yourself. Do it with your arms flung open wide for full effect haha!

- Act and imagine as if. For fun, imagine as if you've got that thing you want. If it's a new partner, imagine you're going on a date with them as you head out your front door in the evening. If it's your new luxury flat, then see yourself going home to it when you leave work. As long as it's fun, pre pave!

Again, thank you all so much! I just love it! Until next time!

All is well!!!

Happy London-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

There are just different perspectives and they are all valuable!!! Loving the Fountains Of Bellagio!!! Xxx

18/2/2016

So I am totally loving the magnificent Fountains Of Bellagio. It is the dancing water fountain in front of the Bellagio hotel in Las Vegas. They are one of the most spectacular, free pieces of entertainment this world has!

I've been watching my fave songs on the fountain on the brilliant YouTube and it is a wonderfully uplifting and meditative experience. It makes my being soar!

There are videos posted which are taken from the perspective either outside the hotel in front of the fountains and another from the high up hotel room overlooking the water show.

Now both give very different experiences and both have their advantages and disadvantages. Up close you get the full spectacle- the high shooting of the waves, the crashing sounds, but a limited view as the whole Bellagio lake is pretty wide, so your field of vision is limited. The videos taken from the room gives the whole overview of the design. You get to see the lights and shapes as you're looking at it from up above, but you're missing the full blasting sounds of the jets of water.

Both are beautiful, yet both offer differing vantage points.

The same is with life, you can look at a situation from a variety of ways. And you can either choose to make the best of where you are and appreciate it, or you can lament on the parts you're missing. The choice my dears, is yours!

At the end of the day it don't matter. What matters is that you're doing your best to feel a little better and to see from the best perspective that you can reach for. This doesn't mean happy happy all the time. It just means, better from wherever you stand.

All is so very well!!!

Happy Bellagio-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Thank you Liverpool!!! What a fantastic group and great first meet of the year!!! Xxx

17/2/2016

On Monday I was back at my Liverpool group and it was lovely to reconnect with all the fabulous people there. A really wonderful mix of complete newbies and oldbies!

As always, everyone is warmly welcome. Over the years I've seen people who knew nothing about this work but felt compelled to attend and were so inspired that they are now excellent experts. Just keep working it!

We did the post-it process and had a wonderful blast of success. Before the end of the group a load of different people came up to me with manifestations that had happened inline with their intentions- all that within the space of 1-2hours! It's always a delight to see things happen so quickly sometimes.

That's a huge benefit to the groups, less so nowadays for me as I'm quite stable within this work but it can happen that there'll be some magical manifestation during or quickly after a group. It still amazes and delights- the power of releasing resistance and positive group thinking.

So the game is to just grab a post it sticky note and write 2-3 things you'd like to happen. I'd say keep it light, a mix of small and big things. Then just let it go. You can either stick it somewhere in plain sight so it keeps it in your consciousness or you can just put it away and trust the Universe has you covered. What's important is that you keep it fun and good feeling.

Always lovely to hear everyone's tips and hints. Journaling/writing things down came up a lot. There is something to be said about putting pen to paper. A few mins a day or appreciation or scripting (writing how you would like life to be), will serve you greatly!

Have fun with it- all is well!!!

Happy Liverpool-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

How do you top your last worldwide success??? Don't try... Just have fun with it all!!! Xxx

16/2/2016

Adele was speaking about the huge pressure about creating her last album. Given how successful her first one was and then the nerves of creating a sophomore which blew out her debut, I can't even imagine the worries and stress trying to match it all with her latest musical offerings!

She spoke about how she tried and tried to create music that was worthy of it, but it was not working one bit. She created and chucked out a whole load of tracks. It was only when she began to lighten up, forget her stress and just have fun, that she connected with her alignment and it began to flow.

She recounts that it took her back to when she created her first album and the freedom she experienced back then. She then 'channelled' a whole load of good stuff and ta da- her newest batch of songs have done pretty damn well!

So our advice to you is to try and introduce more fun into whatever it is you do. Especially with creativity, you can't force it, you need to relax and feel as good as you in the creation of it all.

How you feel is everything, so really try to add some play time to your work time. If nothing else, you'll have a much more fun experience!

All is well!!!

Happy album-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

There is no such thing as a set reality!!! Each to their own, it really is!!! Xxx

15/2/2016

I was watching this fascinating programme on the nature of reality and human perception. It really hit home to me that there is no such thing as one set reality or truth! The world out there doesn't exist other than what we choose to project on it.

Each of us is wildly different and therefore our experiences will be markedly so. What's out there is not so much as what is actually out there, as it is the meaning and focus we put on it.

There was an experiment which looked at a painting entitled 'The Unexpected Visitor.' After only a few moments of scanning the picture, the experimentees were easily able to work out the general scenario. However upon further inspection and questioning, they got a number of more detailed questions completely wrong. This is because we filter out what is irrelevant and put our attention on what we most need to see. Knowing this, we just need to selectively pay attention to what we would like to experience and see in the world.

It leads on to another important point- don't even bother trying to get anyone else to see the world in the same way as you do. Everyone has had their own experience of life and has come to their own conclusions. There is a rare condition called synesthesia. The people with this condition experience their senses in completely different ways. So, they may associate letters with specific colours and see words as a series of hues. Trying to get them to experience words in the same way as we do would be a futile task! As is trying to make anyone else conform to what you want them to do.

Construct your own reality, based on what makes you happy, what you want to see and experience in the world and know that all you need to do is just change what you project onto the world out there!

All is well!!!

Happy reality-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

You can find this work in quite unexpected places- just ask Miranda!!! Xxx

14/2/2016

I was watching Miranda (British comedienne) on her sell out show at the huge London O2 and first of all- props to her! It's one thing to do a concert and such which in a huge venue but to deliver a whole show where it's just you talking takes quite a lot of energy!

I had enjoyed her BBC show but hadn't seen her do any standup, so wasn't that familiar with her work. What pleasantly surprised me was she (knowingly or unknowingly) weaved into her spiel some very Abe-ish things!

Do fun things, act like a child and do things which are good for self care. She waxed lyrical on how she does all the things which take care of her soul and make her feel good. And she encouraged her audience to do the same, whilst making them laugh!

And that was really nice to see. To watch someone obviously of influence, in a fun way, encourage people to do things which will bring them into alignment is a really lovely thing. And it can reach a different audience whom us woo woo people may not be able to touch in quite the same way.

It really is the most diverse of times, and so, with you being able to access pretty much anything in a few taps on a screen, you can vibrate at whatever level you are wanting. Be aware of what you're sending out by your thoughts and feelings and typings. Just a quick glance at the 'comments' section of news articles, Facebook etc will show you how easy it is to tune into the negative- don't do it! The emotional price you pay is far too great. Focus on the good, how you want to see the world and how you want it to be.

All is well!!!

Happy Miranda-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

"I knew ma rent was gone be late about a week ago... I work my ass off, but can't pay it though..." But it was good feeling, and each to their own!!! And How To Get Away With Murder!!! Xxx

13/2/2016

Those were the lyrics to the booty busting song of Pitbull's called 'Time Of Our Lives.' It basically sings that even though times are tough, they still want the time of their lives on a night out.

Anyhoo, a while ago, I saw some lady post the above lyrics and say she didn't think that she should listen to the song as the words about working hard and not being able to pay rent obviously don't vibrate at a good feeling level for her. But funnily enough, that has been one of my favourite songs on repeat!

It holds special memories as it was what I heard on most nights on the dance floor on the Abe Fiji cruise, and those really were some of the best times! Dancing full out in the Quasar club, surrounded by amazing people, in the middle of the South Pacific- life doesn't get much better than this!

I also happen to love the melody, lyrics and beats of this groove. I find it uplifting and upbeat. So it just goes to show that to each their own! There's not one path to alignment nor set thing which is inherently positive or negative. Yes, there are some things which have a more negative and others with a more positive bent, but you have to work out what makes you feel good and gets you in the flow.

I'm currently watching and love, love, loving the TV series 'How To Get Away With Murder.' It stars the magnificent Viola Davis and a stellar cast navigating the law and crime. It's a little bit heavier than my usual fare and definitely not something I would want to fill my consciousness with on a full time basis. But for a bit of entertainment, it really draws me into the moment, it is so gripping and well done!

Enjoy it all!!!

Happy dance-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Make a movie about a blue biro- it could be a huge hit says Ridley!!! Xxx

12/2/2016

oI was watching a roundtable featuring some of the world's most successful directors- Ridley, Quentin, O'Russell and a few other greats. And they ended up discussing how execution and not necessarily the subject matter was what was most important for making a 'successful' movie.

Ridley Scott (or someone there) said along the lines that you could do a whole movie based on a blue biro and as long as the execution is done right, then it can be a huge success!

Which is what harkens back to something I've written about previously- it's not what you do, it's how (and the vibrational basis from whence it came that) you do it.

If you look around the things which have done well in the world, there is so much diversity and variety that it would be impossible to pin point the one thing that defines it, other than that person's point of attraction and the vibrational basis.

Pick things that resonate with you and put your heart and passion into it. If you've watched 'Joy' featuring Jennifer Lawrence as an entrepreneur launching her miracle mop creation, they start off on shopping TV. They get their top sales chap to try to flog it, but he botches it up trying to demo it. She steps in and tells them to let her sell it because it's her baby and she knows all about it. Lo and behold, she does and the sales go through the roof. Same product but two different stand points- one of which is filled with passion and loved for that which is on offer.

So you want to seek inner alignment first and foremost, not to go chasing the superficial, surface reasons why people succeed, otherwise you'll try to replicate it and then it may not do nearly as well.

Reach for that inner calling and then take the inspired action.

All is well!!!

Happy biro-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Do what you want, trust your instincts!!! Cos you know what, they be gone by that point!!! Xxx

11/2/2016

In a Hollywood Reporter roundtable, Hilary Swank made a hysterically funny and true point. She pointed out that it's so important to trust your gut and not listen to anyone else trying to coerce you into making a decision (in her case, the choice of movies she would be in), because by the time her movie came out, they wouldn't be anywhere in sight!

That really struck a chord with me. Sometimes, I get so swayed by what someone else wants, that I yield and then when it's time to do whatever, they're nowhere to be seen lol. I now try to reach for a more solid footing of 'This is what I'm going to be doing, if you wish to join in that's great, if not, that's fine too, but I'm definitely doing this because it sounds good to me.'

And usually, if you're strong in your calling and following your passion, then they will fall into line, or it just won't speak to them and they'll fall away, but at least you're not left high and dry regretting following whoever because you felt obligated to.

Be light and easy about it all, stay true to who you are and what calls you forward. Get to know yourself, as you're the only one who's with you your entire life (well you and all that is non physical, but anyhoo...), so make sure you're having fun with yourself! People come and go, they have differing opinions based only on their perspective but they cannot know for you, even if they think they can!

So follow your gut instinct more, most anyone who's doing anything great knows this. I don't think I've ever heard anyone say 'each wonderful decision I made, was one where I went against myself!' And even if that was what made them successful- what a horrible way to live! No, I prefer to make my own decisions based on what I like the sound of.

All is well with you!!!

Happy instinct-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

There are literally tons and tons of ways to get to where you want... Just ask a taxi driver!!! Xxx

10/2/2016

At the time of Xmas and New Year when there's no transport, work arranges a cab to/from the office. And over the years what has struck me most, is the variety of routes they use! Especially as of late they use GPS systems (which may do traffic calculations etc?!) but even before that the routes have been different too. So much so, I don't think I've been taken the same route twice or much more. That's quite surprising!

It reminded of me when Abe says that there are literally 30-40 times a day you can rendezvous with what you want. It's just a matter if you're in the vibrational space to receive it. It's like they see an overview map of your path and what you have to ask yourself is 'are you walking in the direction of your desires or are you walking away?'

You know your walking your path if you're residing in the upper echelons of the emotional scale (hope, joy, love, appreciation, positive expectation etc). That's what your emotions are there for, they are your guidance between how close or far you are from your path.

What we would want for you, is to try and loosen up and know that you can be happy in whatever you do and have. Sometimes we get caught up in how we think things must be, 'for me to be happy I need to get my desire in this specific way and I just will not be happy if I receive it any other way.' And so we end up missing all the goodness and all the myriad of ways it can come to us.

That doesn't mean settling for second best, it means focusing so purely on feeling good and looking for things to appreciate, that the Universe can only bring you things which match your high vibration. The more you find fault and complain, the more of that you will see and the more the Universe will bring you of that, a very vicious cycle!

So chillout, know your goodness is here now and on its way and enjoy the ride!

All is well!!!

Happy taxi-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Expect good things from everywhere... Some high flying Michelin expectations... Xxx

9/2/2016

What with Masterchef and the Michel Roux service shows I saw, I am very curious about the level of everything that the coveted Michelin starred places offer. So I saw a Groupon for a two course dinner I thought, 'I would be very interested to try Galvin at Windows thank you very much!'

So I called into book our table and whilst on the phone, I imagined this fancy place with the fancy maitre d' and all the fancy staff. I had a brief but pleasant conversation with the reservations chap. Afterwards, I thought to myself 'Well that was very very nice and professional!' And in fairness, it was. But it was only after I took a quick objective step back that I thought to myself that it was good but not like amazing amazing! But because I went in with that such positive expedition and had overlaid how wonderful it must be at the other end of the line, it lifted my perception of that experience!

And that my dears, it what we recommend for you. Place your goodness expectations on whichever situation it is you are wanting to positively influence (which should be all of them lol). Override whatever they are giving you (especially if it is not pleasing!) and see what you are wanting to see, things which you love. Find the positive aspects in the situation and that's really all that matters. Your perception of your life matters most. Just take virtually any product or service and read the reviews! Some will say it is the best thing ever, others will say it is the worst thing ever.

Work to see the good things in all that is around you and you will have the greatest experiences. It's all about you!

All is well!!!

Happy Michelin-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Self empowerment is soooo important, even more than I realised!!! Keep your power peoples!!! Xxx

8/2/2016

We always harp on about the power of self empowerment and I knew it was important but it was only watching what happens when some gets disconnected that it really hit home!

I was watching the powerful Reggie Yates' BBC series and in this episode he was looking at men who were into men's rights and not so much in favour for female rights. He interviewed a troll who posted some shockingly horrible stuff, for which he was eventually arrested for.

When Reggie got to interview him, either by this point he had been very contrited or he just wasn't as mean as his writings were, as he seemed quite reserved in person and he did say he wouldn't actually do what he wrote, it was just stuff he got caught up with at the time.

Anyhoo, who really knows. But what struck me was when he was talking about his previous experiences and it was from a place of disempowerment that all his chaos sprung. It reminded me of when Abe said something along the lines of- any negative lashing out always stems from a perceived loss of freedom somewhere. That's at the core of fighting, war and all that- 'You've done this to me, I feel powerless, so I'm going to try to compensate by overcompensating!'

And there is no real victory that comes from any of that. You must feel free in your own mind first and then the good will follow. And whilst your exact situations in your life may not feel that free, ('Oh, but I have to go to work, feed the kids and do the dishes!'), you can choose a thought that feels better and look for the best in any situation.

That's true freedom and power, being able to focus in your mind on where you to be and how you want things to unfold. That ability to be happy whenever you are is the greatest skill you could develop. And then you won't need war. And by the nature of it, the Law Of Attraction will bring you goodness to match your good feeling vibrations.

So be conscious, know that you are ultimately free, you have the choice in how you feel and that you can feel better wherever you are.

All is well!!!

Happy empowerment-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

What's your excuse??? And can you let go of it...??? Xxx

7/2/2016

It's interesting, all of us, to some degree have our 'stuff', it's what makes us human. There will always be contrast as that is what makes us us. The question we want to pose to you is 'Are you going to continue letting that block you? Or can you do your best to drop your defences and let go?'

Michel Roux Jnr did a wonderful programme taking a group of youngsters with some sort of no direction and/or a contrasting past. One of the girls was exceptionally sharp and wonderful when she smiled (although she did have a scowl a lot of the time!). Her story was that she was a teen mum and she didn't think very highly of herself. At the beginning she was very defensive and kept telling her story and using this an excuse to not try or change. Mr Roux kept trying to reassure her that many of his staff were young mothers and they managed to do well but she wasn't really having any of it.

It really struck me that a lot of us do that, either consciously or unconsciously. We keep telling our old stories and using excuses to prevent us breaking through and being the pioneers our vortexes are calling us to be. 'It's because I was not pretty enough/my gender/my upbringing/my parents/my race/my sexuality and so on and so on. It may have been true and valid back then but your point of power is now. Why use it as an excuse to not step into your power right here, right now? If you can desire it, then you can allow it in, no matter what!

Be willing to open your heart and let it in. There are so many people out there who would be willing to love and support and help you. And even if not, you've got you and the power that creates Universes at your fingertips.

Drop your defences, let go of the excuses and see what happens, it may not be easy nor a smooth transition, but when you can place your faith and trust in yourself and the Universe, when you can really know that you'll never get it done and it never goes wrong, you'll be living the life you chose to before you come into this physical beingness.

All is well!

Happy excuse-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

The better it gets, the better it gets... There is so much more to it than meets the eye!!! Xxx

6/2/2016

It is so incredibly fascinating watching the deeper layers of peoples' lives, especially when it's laid out in front of you on TV! I was watching that Doctor in the house programme- where a doctor lives with a family 24/7 for a while in order to help them live more healthy lives.

One family he stays with eats a ton of junk food and are very overweight. Seems a fairly open and shut case- just get them to eat healthier! It was only when he started grilling them (pardon le pun!), as to how it got started, when he found out the true reason. It turns out that the mother had gone through a lot of trauma and in particular, she had lost her brother. As they got caught up in all of that, they turned to junk food as it was fast and they didn't really have time to focus on cooking and stuff. And since then, it just carried on. So they ate tons of fast food, they feel sluggish, they gain weight, eat more fast food, feel more sluggish, gain more weight and so on...

Interesting or what?! That's why the better it gets the better it gets, or the worse it gets, the worse it gets! You start on the upward or downward cycle and it can spiral, gain more momentum and carry on. The trick is to somehow, someway break the spell. Either by appreciating and focusing on all the good in that situation, or by letting go and putting your attention elsewhere.

We want you to be aware that when things are not as you want them to be, try shifting it. Offering more downstream thoughts such as 'This too shall pass. It's only a phase. Things are always working out for me. I wonder what good can come out of all of this?'

Being aware of negativity and then looking to shift it when you can is vital to being a masterful master. It is that simple in theory! Things needn't run out ahead of you for too long. You may need to just be patient and allow it to just fizzle out, but keep your eye on the goal- that is to focus in a better feeling direction.

Be easy about it all no matter what. All is well!!!

Happy better-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Get a doctor in the house 24/7!!! How revealing!!! Xxx

5/2/2016

BBC have a show where to get to the bottom of the health issues of a family, they install a doctor to live with them! So all through day, the professional can see how the person is living and get to the bottom of the illnesses (most of which is usually a mystery to the patient!).

As you can see coming a mile away, when you look at their lifestyle- diet, exercise and their general state, you can begin to see how and why they are the way they are!

And it's the same with vibration. It can be a little miffing as to why things are the way they are with your life, but if you were to project your thoughts and feelings on a loudspeaker or screen, it'd be fairly easy to work out why things are the way they are. Likewise, it's easy for someone external to us to be able to pinpoint what's going 'wrong.'

As Esther realised when she left her mic on by accident after her seminar, she mused that it's like that with vibration- your transmitter is always on and the Universe is responding in kind with people, circumstances and events which are a perfect match to that!

You see, you are constantly emitting vibration, by your thoughts, words and actions. The goal is to start shifting them to a more positive, fun, ease filled direction. That really is the goal. For you to feel as good as you can!

So try to be a little bit more aware of where you are and maybe you can be doctor free!

All is well!!!

Happy doctor-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx