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Do your own thing, follow your own path and you'll be rewarded with paradise!!! Sweet Lord almost missed the ship- trust the little OCD voices???!!! Xxx

31/10/2015

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Today we arrived in Isle Of Pines and OMG it is paradise! Absolutely beautiful, relatively untouched, uninhibited, a beautiful mix of hues, blues and turquoise waters, simply stunning and for me, definitely the highlight of this cruise!

Unless there's a major, major reason, I generally like to do my own thing in ports, explore the local area and walk around...

Today, was no different in that respect, I walked a little bit around and I saw a little foresty area, intrigued, I ducked in and came across a footpath, definitely off the beaten track. I could hear some noises, which I hoped could've been the sea but could also have been the rustle of the trees.

A few minutes later, lo and behold I came across a beautiful little beach! A little private area for me, untouched and totally, completely tranquil and stunning! WOW! What a blessing. I just sat down and observed the waves, the sun and the sand. It was paradise! No one around but me! Perfection!

It really highlighted to me that just do whatever suits you! I've never been into excursions or doing group thingys and today I was well rewarded and reinforced the greatness of just following your heart and doing your thang.

On another note...

The last tender to the ship was at 4.30pm and I thought I had another hour to spare (so many time changes on the cruise!!!). I thought it was approaching 3.30pm but I thought just in case I'll head back early... I came to the mini dock and saw they were packing things away. It was only when I got on the tender that I realised is was the last freaking tender to the ship!!! Dear lord, what a blessing the voices in my head, OCD, and all that kicked in. It was just a little impulse to hurry back and lucky I followed it. 'Things are always working out for me' we must repeat!!! Lol!!

A couple of sea days then we hit Sydney. Not sure what reception will be like but I will see you when I see you!!! It has been the most amazing trip ever! There's no going back, go all in and until the end!!! (Private joke...!!!)

Things really are working out for us all!!!

Happy paradise-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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My own private beach!!! Xxx
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Stunning!!! Xxx
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Love it!!! Xxx
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Like a babs, you'll fall over a lot, you'll get your fingers caught, you just gotta dust yourself off and keep on going!!! Be easy about it!!! Xxx

30/10/2015

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It is so wonderful to observe my little nephew growing up. It is such a joy to see a little pure child- a tabula rasa, learn about his surroundings through constant experience.

What he shows me is that he continuously falls over as he learns to walk, gets his fingers caught everywhere, bangs his head but it's all part of learning and growing. He doesn't trip over and then declare he's no good at it and refuse to get up and move. He just props himself up, and keeps on going, ever eager to resume play in his surroundings!

As Louise Hay says- we need to treat ourselves as gently as a little child. Not berate ourselves, tell ourselves we're no good or make up some excuse to give up! We just keep on going, being our own best friend, hopefully, but not necessarily surrounded with people who will support and love us. It's defo worth seeking out like minded, supportive people, especially if you need a boost from time to time, it can make the world of difference!

The more you get out there; the more you try; the more you'll 'fail!' Although you won't actually be failing, you'll be learning and growing and only when you look back will you be able to see how important it was to go through whatever it was you went through.

Make it your mission to be someone who experiences it for the sake of it and not for some ulterior motive. Listening to the wildly successful stories from the A-list actors and actresses on The Hollywood Reporter Roundtables, their decades were littered with rejection after rejection, after rejection, after rejection! No really! Watch some episodes and you'll see! But they came to the realisation that acting (or writing or composing etc) was their passion that they would just continue to do it anyway. Such is the strength of their calling.

So follow your bliss, keep on going. It doesn't matter how many times you fall over, all that counts is that you get back up and keep going!

All is fun!!!

Happy fall-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Suva we have arrived!!! Everyone is doing their (selfish) best!!! Just let them off the hook and stay in alignment with you and you!!! Loving the Hollywood Reporter Roundtables!!! Xxx

29/10/2015

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We have arrived at Suva and it is looking like a mightily busy place, I'm off to explore!

I am re-loving the Hollywood Roundtables! If you didn't know, it's about an hour long group discussion with the top A-listers in a specific field e.g. Oscar actors 2014, or Emmy comedy actresses, Showrunners 2015 etc

They are asked about their lives, careers, reflections and all sorts of good stuff. I love it because it gives us such a wonderful insight into what makes these incredible consciousnesses, as they really are at the top of their game!

What is interesting, is that they are also asked about working with the different departments, e.g. The actors are asked about how they deal with writers, the studio execs are quizzed on how do they make their next choice of movies etc. And it is so clearly evident that everyone is just doing their best, even though that may not involve making everyone's life easy!

The execs have to make a profit as they have to answer to the shareholders. The showrunners need to answer to the ratings from the studio heads. The actors need to work alongside the directors and writers to get the best performance and so on... And whilst there may be tussles along the way, everyone is just trying to make the best show that they can.

Same with life, everyone is doing their best and has something or someone they have to answer to in some way. What you must do, is instead of pushing against them and using that as your excuse to block up your life, you just make the best of where you are and give your ultimate performance and keep your eye on the goal. And your goal is joy, experience, personal fulfilment and all that good crap!

There will always be someone to answer to in some manner- that's the inherent truth about being in this world and with other people in our lives! You just need to align with your inner being.

All is well, enjoy it all! We make to much of this!!!

Happy Report-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Suva busyness!!! Xxx
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There are enough acting roles (and abundance) for everyone!!! Enjoy the diversity, what's yours is yours!!! Fiji we are here!!! Xxx

28/10/2015

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We have arrived in Lautoka, off to explore soon!!! Looks quite beautiful!!!!

One thing which I hear quite consistently in the Hollywood Reporter interviews with the actors and actresses is the fact that a number of them say something along the lines of 'What are my roles are my roles and that's good enough.' In other words, they don't stress (too much) about not getting certain roles, what is supposed to be theirs, will be. That is quite zen, especially if they are fighting it out with a ton of actors for the best parts. It's definitely what we would prescribe as your thinking for anything in life- what's your is yours and what's theirs is theirs.

There is enough abundance and all that you are wanting, waiting for you in your magical escrow. No one can steal from it, no one can remove any of the contents, it is all for you and you alone. You just have to align with it.

We live in a wonderfully diverse universe. Some say that they are concerned there wouldn't be enough of whatever to go around, but part of the magic of this world is that not everybody wants exactly the same thing. Each one of us has our own route to what makes us happy and because we have all lived our own unique life experience, we all are satisfied in a myriad of ways. Some people love cars, others prefer transport, some love to travel, others are more homebody, some love to cook and prepare, others love convenience and restaurants. There is so much variety and we live in an infinite universe- when you ask it is given!

So try to release any feelings of lack. If you see someone else with something you would like, try not to feel jealous or resentful, instead, appreciate their ability to create, think 'good for them!', use it as a basis to launch your powerful desire and do your best to line up with that.

This time-space reality can yield to you anything you want- you can be, do or have whatever you desire, just become a vibrational match to it!

All is well and abundant!!!

Happy role-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Fiji island methinks!!! Xxx
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Third day of lectures!!! Some great stuff going on!!! Xxx

27/10/2015

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'Happiness is more important than oxygen' (Don't take this literally!) Alignment is vital to life, and when you've tasted that alignment, when you're not in it, it feels incredibly tough!

Everyday can be a celebration, all day, everyday can be a good one and you can't go back- once you've expanded, retracting feels wildly uncomfortable.

Your 'microphone' is always on, i.e. you are always sending out vibrations but are they inline with what's in your Vortex? Most people aren't usually 'broadcasting' positively about as many life areas as they could. It's easy to broadcast good things about a cruise, but most don't expect, nor broadcast positively about their job. We want you to be deliberate and conscious in your broadcasts about as many areas of your life as you can. Or deactivate your negative subjects, until you're so secure and locked in to that positively powerful vibration and then work to shift it! It isn't the conditions around you, it's your broadcast about the conditions around you that matter.

If alignment is all that matters, then why not start with simple things which get you in the Vortex?!

The distinction they wish to make is- go to the beach feeling joyful and don't go to the beach to make you feel joyful. If you can do that, things manifest with so much more ease and flow, simply because you're in that good feeling space.

Even if you're specific desire doesn't occur, the goal is to be happy along the way, to know that it is coming regardless, and to be happy anyway! It is really easy to be dissatisfied or upset if something hasn't happened in the exact way that you wanted, even if all the signs, pre paving and things have been pointing to this particular thing manifesting. But it's all on way to the perfect unfolding.

Be happy regardless! That is the key here.

All is truly well!

Happy broadcast-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Abe choosing peeps!!! Xxx
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The magnificent Jane Cho!!! Xxx
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Don't try it on!!! The Universe (and your mother) know your true vibration!!! And Eat Well For Less!!! Xxx

25/10/2015

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I have been enjoying the Iplayer TV series 'Eat well for less' with Greg Wallace of Masterchef fame. Together with a partner in crime he goes out to help families whose food spending is out of whack and helps them not only save money but also eat a more nutritionally dense diet.

On a side note, they do taste tests with the general public and with the families they are working with- they remove all packaging from their food, replace it with generic plain wrapping (so they don't know the brand they'll be using) and either: keep the food product exactly the same as the family has been using for years, change it to a cheaper brand or sometimes a more expensive product, if the need calls for it. Without fail- with some of the products that have stayed exactly the same, the family cannot identify it- even if they been eating/drinking it every day for the last decade! They declare that it probably is some inferior supermarket own produce. And also, it's amazing the impact of packaging and brands has on us, our perception and choices- don't judge a food by its cover!

Anyhoo, my main point, was that on one of the shows, the presenter helped cook a healthy meal with the mother and when they fed the children, they asked one of her young sons if he liked it. He replied that it was yummy and he thought the chard salad was delicious. To which his mother replied 'You can be honest you know, you don't need to lie' type thing. He repeated that it was yummy, to which she repeated that he didn't need to lie and could be honest, to which he responded 'OK... I don't like it at all!'

I thought that was quite funny, as he didn't appear evasive or that he was lying at all, plus it was quite an innocuous question. But his mother, like the Universe, knew his true vibration!

And it can be like that with us- we may offer the happy, clappy, chappy words and affirmations but if we're not being true to how we feel, then it can't work! The Universe can only bring us what is a match to what really is going on within us. In other words, we'd like you to accept how you are feeling, don't stick a fake smiley face sticker over it and from that place of realness, seek to feel better from where you are, wherever you are.

We want you to be connected to how you really feel and not how you think we would like you to feel, or how you think you should be feeling. But how you are honestly feeling. Identify where you are on the emotional guidance scale and seek to improve it just a little bit- depression to anger to frustration to hope to joy, love and appreciation. But only when you're ready- you have that choice, that is self empowerment after all. Choosing what to do and when to do it!!!

So there you go, be realness peoples!!!

All is well, no matter where you are vibrating!!!

Happy Chard-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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The seas of Lifou!!! Xxx
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The beach of Lifou!!! Xxx
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One Jobs in alignment is more powerful than billions who are not!!! From humble illegal beginnings, do grow greatness!!! Xxx

25/10/2015

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That's what Abe says, kinda! I was watching part of the Steve Jobs documentary and it still blows my mind the effect he had and continues to have on the world, what an amazing legacy!

It showed how he started off. Back in the day they had the old tone based telephony systems which used beep thingys. They managed to work out how to create a little box that would send the signals down the line and so they would be able to call internationally for free. As they stated- it let them control billions of dollars worth of communication lines using only a box worth $100.

They then went on to say that had they not experienced that, then the Apple computers wouldn't exist. Presumably as it set them up and whetted their appetite for all things technological. Amazing how from these smaller starts, that they've have gone on to great things. It shows how you must appreciate and make the most of every experience as you never know where it will lead you.

Such was his belief in what he was doing, he was able to communicate that so passionately to us that we got sucked into his Vortex of knowingness. Although his journey wasn't completely smooth- he was fired from the company he created, but no doubt that added to the richness of his journey. It was this experience that he recounts himself re-starting as a novice- free from the expectations of success and those boundaries. And from here he went on to eventually create smash after smash hit, with the iPhone 6S smashing sales targets even to this day!

So I think what stands out most for me now, is just believe as much as you can. Believe! Believe! Believe! Faith can move mountains! You never know what's possible but just believe in something. And the world can be your oyster!

Enjoy it all!!!

Happy Jobs-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Un peu de Noumea!!! Xxx
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A beautiful sunset!!! Xxx
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Second day of lectures!!! How thrilling!!! Death, problems and the updated 5 step process of creation!!!! Xxx

24/10/2015

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So we enter the second set of lectures... Here are some key points:

- We opened the day with transitioning! Those who linger and hold on to being alive when the path of least resistance would be to leave their physical body. The questioner asked what to say to the relatives and loved ones. Abe said every case is so individual it would be impossible to offer a set of words to be used in every situation. They said it's important to know the love in the situation. Death is inevitable, so why we are not prepared for it more, Abe doesn't know why?! Lol! Abe encourages unconditionality, the carer has to know well being and what's really going and not get drawn in to the negative feeling that relatives and those around the person who is transitioning. All is well! Abe said what we really want you to say is 'WOOOO!!! This is going to be the best time of your life, what's coming next is going to be the best thing ever!!!' Obviously this might not be the best thing to tell the loved ones but you can know it within yourself!

Abe recounted how that morning Esther was feeling so good and aligned. She then went onto her balcony and appreciated the waves, the ocean and all that surrounded her. They pointed out that had Esther been in a lower vibration, she could've felt lonely, or vulnerable. In other words, she felt good and then looked into the world. But someone with a different perspective in exactly the sane situation could look out into the world and feel bad. You get to choose! It is all about perspective.

- Don't be so quick to get to the culmination, the best point of creation is the sweet spot of the idea flowing through you and the thought, emotion and impulse to act. Lining up with what you've put in your Vortex.

- Abe's Updated 5 Steps Of Creation:

1/ Ask- you do this by the living of life. Contrast causes you to ask for you stuff.

2/ Answer- the Universe answers and creates your stuff in a vibrational space.

3/ Allow- this is your work, to get into a mode of allowing by releasing resistance and being in a good space of receptivity to allow your stuff to flow in.

4/ Maintaining your good vibration, consciously and deliberately.

5/ Not being hard on yourself for being in the step 1 mode of contrast.

- It's ok to notice the 'problems' as long as you become solution oriented and not holding onto the vibration of the issue.

A really great day of learning as always!

Happy transition-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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First day of lectures!!! How exciting!!! Xxx

22/10/2015

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A beautiful sea day, albeit a bit bumpy! Interestingly Abe went straight into questions and didn't do an opening spiel! Today we had our first day of lectures and here are the stand out points...

- A counsellor is a soother. Your greatest benefit is to help the 'client' move forward toward who they really are. Make it softly clear that you're not going to be a sounding board for what's gone wrong. Your work is to help close that gap between where they are and where they want to be. Their inner being won't join them in the misery and neither would you. Let them know that things can get better and they deserve it to be so.

The next spoke about his journey with the 12 step programmes. Abe went through them one by one giving their own spin!


Abe's New 12 Steps:

1/ The powerlessness I feel is temporary and caused by something I have power over. My Source sees me as powerful.

2/ I know my inner being is aware of me and offering clarity at all times.

3/ I like being in alignment with the Source within me so I can hear the guidance.

4/ I mean to see myself and where I am from the eyes of Source. I intend to look at myself in a fearless way.

5/ I want to shout to the world what a good person I am.

6/ When I'm in alignment, thriving is my experience and evident all around me. A defect is a step 1 moment that is now serving me extremely well.

7/ Since God has never seen my flaws, it must be my work to remove any defects.

8/ I'm going to make a short list of people who were most helpful in helping me launch clarity. Great value has come for me and them. I am appreciative of everyone in this co creative journey. I will write letters of appreciation.

9/ The note of appreciation!

10/ It is my intention to pay attention to how I feel, I am tuning in to that clarity.

11/ I soar to those heights, it is my intention that my prayer is of appreciation. In appreciation I am in contact with Source.

12/ I teach through the clarity of my example.

- Separating your vibration from conditions. Focusing and controlling your thought because of how you feel. Your inner being knows what you're path of least resistance to accomplish a good feeling relationship. Even if they have differing views (e.g. Them being anti-Abraham).

The main push of today was not needing conditions to be happy, doing your best to feel good for the sake of feeling good. Letting go of relationships needing to be in certain way and focusing on your relationship between you and your Source!

All is well!!!

Happy uncondition-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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We are extremely pleased to be here!!! Abe's opening address!!! Xxx

22/10/2015

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The next lot of blogs may be dated as I'm out of sync with UK time and may not be able to get online everyday.

Oooh, Sydney port is opposite the Opera House, it is absolutely stunning. What a blessing it is to be here. Am loving Australia lots and lots, really fresh, vibrant and clean! Quinoa and chia galore!

It is now just before 5.30pm and we are getting ready for the first opening talk by Abe. It's just a 30 minute, pre cruise intro to set the tone. The ship is stunning as always, as is the food and cake, cake and more cake! It is wonderful to meet up with old friends from London and past cruises.

Abe began with:


- It is a rare one who comes consciously into alignment on a consistent basis. Focusing is deliberate intent. Your emotions are your moment by moment indicator of the relationship between you and your Inner Being. It's more important than what anyone thinks, or what you think about anyone.

- You are tethered to a broader perspective. You didn't come to save the world. You came because you are creative genius. You came because there is variety.

- When conditions are at their best, it's easy to be in alignment. But we do not want you to be need to pleased by the environment or people. Maybe Abe should've got Esther to organise one of these in a wretched place! Lol. So we can focus and be in alignment.

- Be nice to each other, be nice to yourselves!

All is well!

Happy cruise-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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What's the best way to deal with your stocks and shares??? Nobody knows!!! Xxx

20/10/2015

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Oh wow!!! I am just loving Sydney- it is an incredible city. Tomorrow we join the ship! Internet may be very sketchy, so will see you when I can! Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Ok, well that's not completely true, there are many people who do, but it's funny what a myriad of prescribed ways there are to deal with it- literally!

Some people advise (well most people) that you would generally be better holding your equities for long periods of time, 5-10 years+ to level out the fluctuations. Others say it would be best to check them regularly- for example, every 6 months, just to see how they are doing compared to the market in general.

One chunk of research I read said that after some psychological research, it's in fact highly recommended to buy a good diverse mix of shares and then don't check them for decades- don't read another business article or anything like that! The reason for this is that they found people were more risk averse when they saw frequent losses (which can be common in the financial markets). However as the stock exchange generally does provide the best gains, especially compared to government bonds and gilts (which are more stable but with lower returns), they said it is worth putting your money in the riskier shares market because your returns would be far better. But with the frequent downs, it puts people off and so they would tend to invest less.

So as with all things, it's 6 of one and half a dozen of the other. There are tons of people out there giving you diametrical opposed advices. What you have to do is sift and sort and work out what systems work for you!

You have to be brave enough to make your own mistakes. When I did a finance course ages ago, they said don't copy anyone else, it's not the same, whether you're right or wrong, you need to be making your own choices. It just makes more emotional sense! So just get out there and work out your own way of doing it.

Enjoy it all!!

Happy share-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Thank you Melbourne!!! Wow, loving it!!! My first workshop down under!!! Love y'all!!! Four continents down!!! Xxx

19/10/2015

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A huge thank you for the warm welcome and leading edgeness of it all! What a fun, wonderful evening. A huge thanks!

It is always fun sharing this work with those across the world and what a blessing it is to be here. Taking consciousness and beingness to new, ground breaking levels!

We started, as usual with meditation. This is a really great way to relax the body and the mind. By tuning into no thought, you're allowing your vibration to naturally rise and let your goodness in.

We then covered the money game. Filling in a magical, blank cheque with an amount of your choosing and vibrationally spending it. Feeling the flow and freedom of it all. So good! You can look at how your spending helps those in the world around you- by choosing to put your dollars/pounds into the economy, you're assisting all the wonderful sales people, creatives, mechanics, designers, importers, exporters etc- it's way bigger than you would imagine!

We then looked at things which made you happy in your career- where you feel most comfortable/ what you loved doing as a child/ what you enjoy doing now and what you would like to do more of if you had unlimited time and resources.

We then covered a list of positive aspects. Listing all the things you love about a person in your life. As you activate it more and more, you'll see it more and more! We then listed activities which were relaxing. When you're ill or stressed it can be too hard to reach for a positive thought, so having conscious tools such as: meditation, exercise, relaxation, reading, audio books etc are so helpful in raising your vibration.



We closed with some Oprah and TJOP videos- so beautiful!


How wonderful, so I've now taught across the UK, both coasts of America, Asia and now Australia! What next?!


Thank you for a lovely evening! I am going to miss Melbourne a lot (especially the Lindt cafes!!! Mega yummy!). Onwards to Sydney and Fiji!!!


All is well!


Happy Melbourne-ing!!!


Love you all lots, Nick Xxx
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City versus the country... You decide... Really you do!!! Xxx

18/10/2015

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It was funny, the other day I was meeting my friend in central London and whilst they don't live completely in the sticks, they are definitely not used to the hustle and bustle and crammedness of it all.

She really couldn't stand it and definitely wouldn't want to live in the busyness that is London! Whereas I couldn't live anywhere else!

It's a mix of what you're used to, preference and what floats your boat! And that is the magnificence of the diversity of the Universe that we live in.

I just love the life of the city, all there is to do, the late hours, the great (usually) transport system. I just love, love, love it! Yet, I know people who abhor the busy lifestyle and much prefer the quieter, country life.

Just like there are those who love adventure holidays vs beaches vs cruises (that's me!). It's the buffet of life out there.

There is so much choice out there and you are so free. When I think about it, there is really little reason to complain! Yes, for whatever reasons it's not always possible to just up and leave, but you can definitely work towards your dreams when you're ready.

As Abe say, you are free! You are so free to choose, you can even choose bondage! It's just waking up to the awareness that you have those options. Until then, you will always be subject to the whims and whiles of your surroundings!

So wake up and smell the fresh (or smoggy!) air!!! You get to live the life of your creating! Just start somewhere.

All is well!!!

Happy city-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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The unseen vibrations behind everything is consistent... Ask Amy Adams as she hustles!!! Xxx

17/10/2015

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I was re-watching one of my fave interviews ever- The Hollywood Reporter with the academy actresses such as: Oprah, Lupita, a few others and Amy Adams. What caught my attention this time was when Amy was speaking about her role in American Hustle.

She played a really vulnerable woman and she spoke about how emotional it was. What was interesting was that she said that even though it wasn't always made apparent to the audience, every decision that that character made had to be from that place of 'weakness.'

It really got me thinking that's how it is for us and the people we observe. First, you can't know everything for everyone, so there's a limit to what you can infer about the way someone loves (in other words, mind your own beeswax and focus on living your joyous life!). But second, everyone has their own emotional set points that they are used to. It's the internal basis from which they act, also known as the dominant vibration and from there things it spring forth.

Fear not dear ones! This is all up for change. If you can put in the time and the effort to focus on how you're feeling and lift your vibration, then you can make your emotional set point whatever you choose! And hopefully, you'll want to make it happier and higher. That is what deliberate creation and focus can be!

As a child, I definitely fell into what I felt was the more 'unlucky' category, things going wrong, running out of cake where every other child would get their slice before me (unthinkable now, cos I love me cake!). But definitely since doing this work, things are more aligned for me (so much so that some call me 'lucky'), and even if things don't go my way I like to think I can refocus and take it on the chin.

So the moral of this film tale, is that you can change the basis of how you act. You can take your decisions from a bias is of well being and strength, not weakness. And when you do, see your life change! It truly is magical!

All is well!!!

Happy act-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Don't take on other peoples stuff!!! It's far too weighty!!! Xxx

16/10/2015

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Woo! I've arrived in Australia, my internet is very sketchy so may very well not be able to post daily. Catch ya when I can!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx
Being focused in this world, being the kind, loving being that you are, it can be really easy to get involved in other people's business.

It is natural to want to help and uplift others but you cannot take on another's plight. It is not good for that person and it is not good for you. That's not to say that you shouldn't care or offer support. However, you need to be able to draw the line and take care of self.

Try as you might, you can't intervene in their life to any lasting or permanent degree. And even if you could, they would either become way to dependent or resentful due to your constant interference.

What does help everyone, is your positive attention to the situation. Mentally and vibrationally activating the best of all those in the situation. To know that those you love are smart, capable, sure and brilliant.

Once you have you unwavering focus on this, now you are of truly value.

You just set your tone and allow them to flow to you. It can get really tiring trying to save the world. It was never your job.

Your work is to have fun! To connect as much as you can to Source and have as much experience and sifting and sorting as you can.

That's what life is made of!!!

Happy stuff-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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One man's Wicked pleasure is another woman's horror!!! The magic of diversity!!! Xxx

15/10/2015

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NB: I'm off down under from this evening so my internet/blogging might not be posted everyday!!! Will do it as often as I can get online though!!! Lots of love Xxx

It was funny, quite a while ago, I was into the Wicked musical soundtrack and had it on full blast. My friend who isn't really into that was, like 'Turn that off! It's awful!' Well sorry! Lol!

It just got me thinking about the wonderful diversity of stuff that's out there and the diametric responses we can have to them.

That is the magic of being in this varied physical time-space reality. There is so much to choose and focus on.

Somethings will make you soar so high with joy and appreciation (music has always been a good one for me). And other things will switch you off faster than you can say 'Eleka Nahmen Nahmen!!!'

The key in life is to seek that which you find enjoyable. Make that a priority every day! Laugh more, play more.

Steve Jobs in his Stanford Commencement said words to the effect of- when he was about to set off on his day ahead, if he looked in the mirror and asked himself if this was the way he wanted to spend his life and the answer was 'No' too many days in a row, he'd be thinking of changing it up.

Life is relatively short. So don't waste your time living someone else's dream! Live your own. Follow your passions and inspirations. Even if it's just small part of your day! You're needs are important too!

No one gets to choose for you. And there is so much choice in this world, that you really can get out there to hunt for things that float your boat.

Life is for living!

Happy Wicked-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Distance and distraction makes the heart grow fonder. Forget about it and revisit it ages later!!! Xx

14/10/2015

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Ages and ages ago, when I was in the music Abe mix mode and I had got my hot seat question, I created a ton of mixes for an edited segment I loved. I used my fave instrumentals from pop, classic, rnb, hip hop and all sorts.

I completely forgot about them for a while and I have only just revisited them and I am loving it!

It just showed me that some distance gives you a clear view on stuff. Completely removing your attention and forgetting about it, can give you a fresh, purer perspective on it.

That's what we recommend when you're going through something difficult that you can't budge vibrationally. Get off the subject, distract yourself with good feeling things. When your vibration is at a higher point then continue that good feeling and allow the issue to sort itself out or from that higher stance, try working on the issue. You'll be doing it from a more powerful place so you can be in the Vortex whilst fixing the issue and not being in a lower place and having that it drag you to a lower frequency.

That's the key to powerful upliftment, to hold your focus so strongly that people and things have to join you up there and not you being drawn into their drama.

If a loved one is having difficulty, then you do them the greatest service by seeing them as happy, successful and well. Not to change them or to try to force them to be up there but instead, by feeling good about how wonderful they are and then shining a spotlight on that.

So take a break, some time out and see how you feel about it all. Hopefully you'll be vibing high and it'll all be great!

Enjoy it all anyhoo!!!

Happy distance-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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Thank you so much Birmingham!!! OMG what an amazing, supportive, loving, wisdomous leading edge group tonight as always!!! Thank you all soooo much!!! Love you guys!!! Xxx

13/10/2015

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Wowwwwww!!!!! Thank you so much Birmingham, what an amazing, brilliant group of people sharing and caring and supporting each other. Soooo leading edge, I just love it so much!!!

Some key points:

- Feel good no matter what. Whether you have your stuff or not, matters not at all! If you can make sure that you're doing your best to feel good, now we're talking! Because at the core of what you want is the feeling.

- Feel the vibration of abundance!!! There is an abundance of abundance everywhere you look. As you can focus on that, as you see more of it, by law you will draw more of it to you. Get in the flow and you'll notice it everywhere you look.

- We've all been there and done that. Criticism, family issues, break ups, break downs etc. It's this contrast which pushes us to do more! It's made us who we are and is the bestest thing that could've happened- when you clear it and know that you've given birth to more and more. All is well!

- A little bit of positivity can go a long way. It doesn't matter how long you've been negative for or what's gone before you. Your point of power is the NOW, you get to choose what you think and feel and what you focus upon. We are just reminding you of that which you know at the core of your being.

- Let it go! Withdraw your attention from what is wrong and what is not working, get off and do some fun stuff! Raising your vibration can do tremendous things for you and your manifestations. Just relax into it!

All is so very well!!! Thank you all so much!!! Love, love, love it!!!

Happy Birmingham-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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If you always do what you've always done... You'll always get what you've always got!!! Genius words!!! Xxx

12/10/2015

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Now have a think about the above statement. How true is that?! If you continue to live your life in exactly the same way, then chances are you'll be constantly regurgitating the same thing. If life is working for you and all is well, then continue in the way that you are. But, if things aren't, then it may be worth considering a change. As they say 'a change is as good as a rest!'

For me, for the most part, I usually like to mix things up and this year- one of my New year's resolutions has been to try new and different things. And it had been fun- sometimes I've loved it and other times it hasn't agreed with me but I'm much the wiser and more expanded because of it!

I've tried: new sports, visiting new places I've never been before (Asia and Australia, Scotland), a new cake from my fave Patisserie Valerie almost every month (who said resolutions needed to be difficult?! Lol) and a daily blog, to name but a few things... And most I've found so thrilling and exciting!

The point I'm making here, is don't be scared to just get out there and do new things. Especially and obviously that which sounds exciting and inspiring to you.

You just never know where it'll take you. As Steve Jobs said 'You can't connect the dots looking forward!'

So try a new book, group, food, sport, activity for the fun and expansion. You'll add to the colour and variety of your life and you'll learn a bit more about what makes you tick.

NB: Be easy and kind to yourself. You can't expect yourself to be an expert at everything you do. In fact, the more you do, the more you'll find that you're not good at! But don't let anyone talk you down (not least of all yourself!), if anyone is impatient or unkind then ignore them and take your business elsewhere! For me, as I can be really slow sometimes, I need someone who is patient and able yo break things down for me- which is what I like to be as a teacher.

So have fun, try new things, experience that this life has to offer!

All is well!

Happy New-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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Happy Anniversary!!! Some reflections over the past 6 years!!! And here's to many more!!! Love you all lots and lots!!! Xxx

11/10/2015

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So, it's 6 years that my London group has been running. It feels so quick and yet a long time! Here are some thoughts, learnings, insights that I've gained these past years and in life. Enjoy dear ones and thank you for being part of this magnificent co creation! Xxx

It's all about the people, 'bout the people (no treble!)

It's all the wonderful group members such as yourselves which make these events the fabulousness that they are. Your constant commitment, your willingness to come along and try new things and share the best of who you are is unparalleled! You are all so kind, so brilliant, so generous, so loving, so wise... I could go on forever! What I love so much, is when someone has a question or an issue and everyone (metaphorically) runs round and gives support, advice and love. To be able to be who you are and express yourself without fear of judgement can be an incredibly rare thing in the regular world, so I really to try encourage that vibe. A few minutes spent with a supportive stranger can change your life- it did mine!

This is one of the most powerful things out there! You have both the theory AND practical parts!

What I like about the groups is that we have the two foldedness of vibration upliftment here. You have the social aspect which also involves the theory side- learning from each other. The other incredible component is the practical techniques. I try to bring as many different tools, techniques and variations as I can each time in the hope that you'll find something at some point which works. Also, listening to each other's experiences and seeing how everyone else does their processes is invaluable, especially for the beginners who don't know where to start.

This shit works!!!


It really does! I have seen it time and time again and have experienced it for myself- which is why I'm so passionate about teaching it and helping anyone I can who will listen.

And this shit can work fast!!!

I have seen people and their lives change in as little as one Meetup! It is tremendous- the way they look, the confidence with which they carry themselves, the alignment that occurs is truly mind blowing and so great to see! Whilst I would like to take all the credit for that, it's more what they go away and do after the meeting that's what counts, because trust me, some will think it's a pile of poo and will see no change!

It's about feeling good first and foremost not getting the stuff! Being aware is key and try to do some regular practise.

How you feel should be everything. Manifestations are secondary, it's all about feeling better/as good as you can. When you get your head around this and make it your priority to be aware and then try to shift to a more positive mindset, now we're talking! If you can, do some daily techniques- it's so helpful! You're not to be happy all time and don't hold yourself to such impossible standards. But you can definitely feel better when you're ready, that is important.

Some will love you, others will hate you. But you just gotta dust it off and keep doing the good work you do!!!

For the most part, there is a tremendously positive response to the groups. If only just cos the people are just so lovely! However, some people really haven't liked what I've presented to them! You can't please everyone and you just have to let it go and carry on! This is a piece of advice I always give to anyone doing their own group, business or who's putting themselves out there. You just have to keep at it regardless of if they like or hate you! As there will always be those on either side.

Be mindful not to listen to the haters too much. As Abe says- those who hardest to please are usually completely unpleasable so don't even try to bother to bend yourself in ways to please them. I've maintained that I'd rather be divisive than insipid- i.e. I'd rather someone love my work or really dislike it than be a lukewarm 'meh' about it!

And you never know how you may impact someone. I did some work with a group member at the very beginning, I didn't see them for a while so had no idea how they were, it was only a few months later that I caught up with them and they had manifested the thing we had worked on!

Be vulnerable, be open, be out there (especially if you're freelancing and the like), just be you!

I'm usually a private person, as a strong introvert I'm not a fan of putting myself out there, being showy or boastful. But I'm an open book when it comes to this work. I'm happy to share what works for me and my experiences with LOA because I truly believe this works! I like to think people can pick up on this transparency. I very much appreciate the way Abe are completely open about Esther and Jerry's adventures, foibles and strengths.

Only you can do it in your way, just be aligned with it!


Sometimes I hear doubt from a person about whether what they have to offer (teaching, coaching, business, product etc) is any good and why should they offer it? You have to believe in yourself/what you have to offer. No one else has lived the life that you have or had the experiences you've lived and you are not alone (usually lol) in your issues! This makes you an authority on those subjects. I know LOA, I know travel and a bit about other areas of life, but other things I haven't experienced or have the foggiest about! Offer what you can and be aligned with it. When IBM ruled the world, computers were impersonal monolithic things. Apple and Jobs came along and were determined to bring the personal touch to computing and have since taken over the world many times in many ways! They had such alignment and passion with what they did, it carried them forward.

Do it for the experience and let the rest go. You may 'fail', you may succeed, but in any case you'll be expanding! Just keep committed to growing and learning. JUST KEEP GOING!

I've always thought to do things purely for the experience, just to try it and see how it goes. I have done a lot in my years (e.g dance teaching, croupiering, film work, photography, charity work, the list goes on...)- many failures, many successes but it's always an adding to! And you learn a little bit each time. As Jobs says- you can only connect the dots looking back. I know you freelancers out there rely on stuff to make an income and for your survival, but if you can to write the need to make money out of the equation somehow, you'll feel freer, more fun and things will flow. It's all about the experience! Just keep at it and trust somehow, someway things will shift.

There is no one right way. Do not compare yourself to others! Everyone is unique and meant to be so!


Listening to the plethora of authors, books, tools and techniques and their variations that my group members bring each time, really shows me that there is no one right way. Everyone has their own way. One man's pleasure is another man's poison. Each to their own. What I like is just to present as many ways of thinking and let you take whatever works for you.

Be you and let everyone else be them!

It can be really tempting to get loved ones to want to think the same way as you, especially when you feel as good as you do. Some may be willing to listen and share the best with them. But don't force it upon anyone. As I once read 'Don't try to teach a pig to sing (or something!), it wastes your time and annoys the pig!' In other words, don't spend your time trying to change someone who doesn't want it. Be you and when they see how happy and successful you are, they will ask and then you can go nuts!

Just keep at it! Someway, somehow you'll see change!


Some people see life change quick- manifestations can happen fast. Others it's a longer process. Just keep going, if not this school of thought, then another or another. Just keep conscious on your path to learning. It's a way of life!

There is a greater power out there, loving you, supporting you, it's just up to you to align.

I can't know this for sure sure but it's definitely what I believe. Things are always working out for you, you are loved and taken care of. Sometimes (well in fact all of the time!), it's just you who blocks it. Be your own best friend, love yourself and you'll fly!

Your escrow is always growing. The worse it's been, the better it is on the other side!

No matter how bad things have been, no matter how depressed you've felt or for how long- you can change it. But also, because of this, your escrow is bigger and brighter and what's waiting for you on the other side of it is bigger and brighter than you could imagine!

Everyone's the same! Everyone wants a better, feel good life.


I've been fortunate enough to teach regularly across the UK every month, in Asia, across America and shortly Australia. And whilst there are cultural differences, everyone is ultimately the same. Everyone wants to feel better, everyone feels some fear doing something new, all want more self confidence, to know they create their own life and can be, do or have anything they want.

So there you have it. Some things I've learned these past years and throughout my life! I hope it will be of some benefit (maybe life changing!) to you. Thank you for sooooo much for being here!

I LOVE YOU ALL SO SO SOOOO MUCH!!!

Here's to many more years!!!

Happy group-ing!!!

All my love, Nick Xxx
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Thank you HYLE London!!! What a warm, leading edge, wonderful group of people!!! We are rocking it!!! Xxx

10/10/2015

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Thank you HYLE! What an amazing day we had today! Loving it so much. A really fabulous group of people taking life to the next level!!!

Today we started with Maria. She started with the basic philosophy points of Louise Hay. Loving the self is the most powerful thing you can do. Change your thoughts, change your life! Release and surrender to allow in more. Be grateful now, look around the room and find something you appreciate now. As you do this, you pave the way for more.

Gunita covered the mind-body connection. Taking some time to quiet the mind and tune into the body and what is it trying to tell you. Each illness has an emotional, mental basis, thought patterns become things. The 'You Can Heal Your Life' book has a list of illnesses and their probable mental causes.

We then listed the illnesses our parents went through and compared it to ours. We aren't our past nor our parents' beliefs. Just because there may have been an issue in the previous generations, this needn't be the case for us now. We create our life ourselves by what we choose to think and how we feel. We can release our past and move forward with what we want.

Kristina got us to list three things we love about ourselves and what we love to do in life. We then wrote the word 'Abundance' over and over again and then contemplated what came other words came to mind.

She then told us to think about something which doesn't activate too much resistance within ourselves, e.g. Blue glass, red roses etc, think about it purely, for a short time and then lightly notice when you see it in your life! A little thought activation can yield tremendous results in your manifestational results.

Thank you so much for a wonderful afternoon!!

We love you lots!!!

Happy HYLE-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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Take that one step to your goals... Even if just means stepping outside the door!!! You can do it!!! Xxx

9/10/2015

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This tool particularly stood out for me teaching a workshop recently. It's a fairly simple process but really spoke to me today!

What you do here is just take one step, any step, in the direction of your goal.

What this does is help free up some resistance towards what you want to work towards. Sometimes we can hold our goals in lofty, non-next-logical-step place, they consequently feel too big and that makes it nigh impossible to bring into your experience.

What this technique does is put you on the path. Odds are, you'll do that thing and hopefully be inspired to take the next step, then the next and before you know it, bam! You'll be closer than you realise.

I believe it was the author of the magnificent book-cum-magnificent movie 'Cloud Atlas' who recounted along the lines of- 'I couldn't write a whole book, but I can write a paragraph... Then a chapter, which became many chapters' and thus eventually became a number 1 best selling book!

I was due to go out in the evening but I was feeling a bit lazy and for me, once I get indoors I tend to not feel like going out again. But I wanted to make the most of the opportunity, so I just thought to myself 'Ok, I'll just go and step inside, I don't have to stay long and I leave when I want.' This is a really great tool especially for us introverts! Make a small commitment and once you've completed it, you can be done with it. As it turns out, I stayed out for ages and it was fun!

So try it! You never know what it will lead to, how quick it will bring you to what you want and how much fun you could have!!!

All is fun!!!

Happy step-ping!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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Holy freaking moly!!! Here's to 6 years London!!! Thank you all soooo much!!! Love love love love love it!!! Let's keep rocking this shizzle!!! Xxx

8/10/2015

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Oh my goodness!!! What an amazing, most perfect evening- a most excellent way to mark our 6 years together London!

As always, a huge, huge, huge thank you, to each and everyone who came along and shared the best of themselves! The stories and wisdom was, as always off the hook, ridiculously incredible! Love love love you all so much! Thank you everyone! This is co creation at its very, very best!

Some key points:

- Can you be happy where you are now? With or without your stuff?! If you can train yourself to be happy wherever you stand, you will be always be happy! But if it's conditional on something else, then you're asking for trouble ha! Because conditions will not always be pleasing to you.

- Suffering is necessary, until you realise it is optional. How amazing is that?! Until you realise that you're in control of how you feel, you will always be at the mercy of that which is around you. Once you realise you have a choice, now we're talking!

- Love them as they are. Honour their choice and decisions. It can be tough when others aren't living at their 'best', but it isn't our job to fix them. If you can focus on the best of who they are and make sure you give that your full attention, then they can only interact with you when they are at that level. It is law. Just don't give your focus so much to what you don't want!

- Become the person you want to attract. Make a list of qualities you want in a partner, then seek about becoming them yourself. As you do that, you will be more in alignment with the amazingness that you've created.

- Do your best to let go (of the bad feelings). It can be tough to truly surrender your deepest desires but what you can do, is do your best to let go of the negative emotions that come with not having something you really want. That is what surrender is- releasing the resistance that is keeping you from what you want.

Just relax, let go and trust that things are always working out for you. And they are! Go with the stream, the flow and enjoy it!!!

All is well!!!

Thank you again for your constant love, support and beingness. Here's to another 6 years and many more!!!

Happy six-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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It's all about the journey and sometimes the destination too!!! Being number 1 is boring!!! Xxx

7/10/2015

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As cliche as it sounds, life (and travel kinda) is about the journey and not as much about the destination.

I just remembered Simon Cowell's Oprah Masterclass interview, he said that it's a lot more fun trying to get to number 1, as opposed to being at number 1 and then having to assume a defensive position. Which makes sense! Why do you think so many entrepreneurs have so many businesses? Why do the musicians continue to produce songs even though they have to enough money to retire for several lifetimes?!

It's for the focus, the life flowing through them. That's why they do what they do!

For me, I enjoy the organising and planning of it all. And I just love pre paving- the excitement of mentally being there, the deciding where to go and when and all the nitty gritty that goes into it. Knowing what I know now, I make an extra conscious effort to enjoy that mental process and planning. Allowing that feeling of exhilaration flow through you- that is what we push for you!

You want to enjoy what you can while you can. If you can really get that- if you can reach for the good feeling first and foremost before the manifestation, then you've got it. Because odds are, if you're miserable today and that's your general temperament, then when what you do want comes, you'll still be miserable and/or you'll easily find fault with what you have. Even if this isn't the case, look at it this way- if you can be happy now, no matter what, then you can be happy in the future come what may! That is true mastery right there!

So enjoy the journey, enjoy the destination, enjoy it all! For that is life!

All is so very well!!!

Happy journey-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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Sam Smith or Adele doesn't call it 'channelling' but it is!!! Loving the Bond themes!!! Xxx

6/10/2015

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I was reading up on the creation process to Sam Smith's and Adele's movie songs- of which stand to be some of the most successful James Bond theme tunes in history! And it is reported that they wrote the songs literally in a matter of minutes. It struck me what an aligned process that must've been- to vibrationally download that so quickly, it simply must be a combination of elements aligning in perfect harmony (pardon the pun!).

A form of 'channelling' if you will!

It reminded me of a conversation Abraham was having in one of their earlier DVDs. Someone was having trouble with the whole channelling phenomenon. To which Abe replied along the lines of- just refer to it as inspiration! You don't call the basketball player a channeller but he is!

In other words, it's just alignment with Source and self, and allowing that wonderful material flow to you and through you. That's what happens when you're in the 'flow'- that psychological phenomena- where you're so engrossed in something fun, you lose all sense of time and space. Being so powerfully focused in the now that you are just loving it.

That is the optimum state of creation and allowing.

So pay close attention to what gets you in the flow and do that much more! What makes you happy? What could you do for hours on end?

Richard Branson posted something like 'I'm not happy because I'm successful, I'm successful because I'm happy!' That's the right way round as far as we're concerned.

Follow your bliss. In your joy, you find what you are really about. Feel good and then...

All is wonderful!!!

Happy Bond-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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