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That Beyoncé b*tch!!! Or is it??? Give them the benefit of the doubt... Xxx

30/6/2015

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Still in the concert DVD mode, I watched Beyoncé's 'I am...' World tour. I love how I can expand my consciousness from the comfort of my own iPad lol

She intersperses real life clips with concert performances. And at one part, she's going through a designer shopping mall, tons of camera phones going off in her face and comments that 'It's kinda like being in a fish bowl.' That she feels she has to constantly smile otherwise someone might mistake her for a mean person...

Cut to an enraged person, calling Beyoncé a bitch as she saw him in the Prada store but seemed to ignore him even though he's a huge fan of hers! Thankfully, he gets to meet her and declares his love for her...

Curioser!!! I read an autobiography (someone famous, can't remember exactly who...) ages ago and they said the same thing. They were having a rough day as some family issues were going down, a fan accosted him for an autograph and he's like 'Erm not now!' And the fan switched on him!

The message here is, you just don't know what's going on in someone else's life! It's usually the case that even though it may seem like they are acting negatively towards you it's got nothing to do with you. And even if they is being a toss pot, it's highly likely that they're going through something tough and/or they are just generally in a negative place. All you can do, as I like to say, is 'Send them love!' Easier said than done I know but still! Your energies would serve you far more to offer a wee bit o' compassion!

All is well!

Happy Beyoncé-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Mme. Dion- so gracious, so inoffensive- yet wildly successful!!! Connect to your heart (which goes on...) and the rest will follow!!! Xxx

29/6/2015

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I was in a bit of the DVD concert mood and watched Celine's 3 hour fest (over several days, not in one go!), absolutely incredible the work that goes into these shows! It really highlights the power of their vibration- as Abe say- there aren't enough man hours in the day to try to attract the millions and millions of fans these artists have.

Celine is so inoffensive lol, she learns the local phrases, is always gracious and kindly to everyone and all sorts. She is very earnest and open and this comes through in her performance. My advice for anyone seeking to be a powerful business/freelancer of any kind, in any sort of field is to connect with yourself and not be afraid to be vulnerable and put yourself out there. When you're working from your heart, people really feel that and are drawn to your honestness.

She really set the tone with the success of her Vegas show! Her incredible drawing power has set a precedent- as I read, stars such as Britney Spears wouldn't have touched a residential Vegas show had it not been for Celine. Now every Tom, Dick and J-Lo is doing it.

Whatever your dream, follow it and keep going no matter what. Keep the quality of what you're offering high and the rest will follow. You're always learning!

Be vulnerable, be open hearted, offer the best you can and trust. Your escrow is continuously growing and always will be!!!

Happy Celine-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Their life is none of your business!!! Truly it isn't!!! Xxx

28/6/2015

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We had a family event the other day and our food ordering went awry! Father was saying his way was right and mother had quite obviously made the mistake... (Although she'll be damned if she accepts the blame for it lol!).

They were on another table so it really didn't have anything to do with me as we had got our ordering correct (years of eating experience pays off lol).

I felt the need to go over and try and soothe the situation. But it blew over quite quickly, eventually! This small but significant event reminded me that it is none of my business what goes on, on 'the other table!' Whatever is happening in anyone else's life does not need to be your business. Obviously if they come to your for support and advice then feel free to give as much as you can, but in the grand scheme of things, it is not your responsibility to 'fix' it for someone else.

Their journey is their journey. And whilst it may pain you to see the other in distress, the best you can do is shift your focus to see them as thriving and happy and brilliant!

Seeing them where they are only adds more energy to where they don't want to be, but it also drains you! And that ain't no good to no one!

Use the power of your mind to envision how you want your life to be and do your best to trust that it's unfolding perfectly for everyone else! All is truly well no matter what!

Happy non business-ing!!!

Love you guys!!! Nick Xxx

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What's your inner dialogue saying... Make it a good un!!! Xxx

27/6/2015

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As the magical phrase which Louise Hay heard that changed her entire beingness 'If you change your thinking, you can change your life!' It's true!

I think as the journey of self awareness keeps pulling us along, I think it serves us to self examine even further. Trying to pay attention to what's constantly going through your head and the tapes (or rather MP3s in this day and age!) that are playing.

Is it predominately good/bad, supportive/unsupportive? Is it your own true inner voice or is it your parents?!

Please be your own best friend! You live with yourself 24/7 so love, love, love yourself! Your most important relationship is with yourself.

Don't be modest (or at least on the inside!), congratulate, praise, big up, cheer yourself on through life. It may feel quite unnatural but odds are you've been berating yourself and it's about time for a change.

Louise Hay says that as soon as she's finished a workshop, she tells herself what an amazing job she's done, she will not say one bad or critical word to herself. Then the next day she will start to look at what she can improve for next time. She says, if she criticised herself when she first started out, she probably wouldn't have gone on stage again! And what a loss that would've been!

Look in the mirror, deep into your eyes and tell your beautiful reflection how much you love you. That you are perfection itself! This is how Source sees you. And that's why criticism feels bad- it's focused upon something in a way that the Universe does not see it! Breathe, relax and know how wonderful you are.

Happy dialogue-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Treat life like a beautiful cruise ship tour... Eat what you like and leave the rest!!! Xxx

26/6/2015

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So today was a wonderful adventure aboard the magnificent Royal Princess cruise ship! These are tours of a few hours just to give you a taster of it. It is one of Princess' newest ships- maiden voyaged in 2013 with the Kate Middleton as its Godmother, it is truly lovely!

We walked round the main sights of the ship- the bars, theatre, pools, spa, atrium and of course my favourite room- the buffet! I just love experiencing all the wonderful variety and comparing it with the other ships and cruise lines I've been on. Mentally I can do a little bit of a critique- 'Oh, I like that, I don't like that, never seen that before, ooh that bit looked bigger on TV!' Lol!

And in a very ideal world, this is what your life should be like. That is the value of contrast- how do you know you'd like an outdoor movie theatre playing Beyoncé (which was pretty cool btw, the sound system carried the sound impressively to the other side of the ship!), if you've never given thought to it before?

Or maybe you weren't a huge fan of the atrium in comparison to another cruise lines?!

I personally encourage you to get out into life and mix it up. You'll learn so much. That which you love you can add to your mental shopping list. That which you don't, you can discard and more often than not you will appreciate what you do have, that much more when you see something you really don't like.

Give your utmost attention the qualities you love about a person, place or thing and by the essence of Law Of Attraction you will be drawn to more things which match this.

Although it can feel that way, the contrast of life does not need to be an uncomfortable thing.

Last night I met a good friend and as is usual with magical rendezvouses and my groups, so many wonderful 'co-incidences' have occurred today (though we know it's not coincidence but alignment!).

I'm off to meet another wonderful friend to see Minions movie now- BAH NAH NAH!!! What fun!

Happy cruise ship tour-ing!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Lovely atrium!!! Xxx
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Skywalk- looking down from up on high!!! Xxx
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Vortex Minions!!! Xxx
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The price of pushing against- an iPod Nano... And for everything else there's MasterCard!!! Xxx

25/6/2015

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So, as Abe says, there's really two ways to know where you're vibrating: 1/ How you feel 2/ By looking around you at what manifests. In an ideal world, you'd be living most of your life by number 1- because this is your most powerful indicator, but hey, just do your best with the intent to learn and expand.

Today was really a manifestational reminder that self must come first. No one else is worth the price of your misalignment. Your most important relationship is with you and you...

On a side note, I was listening to the amazing Jess Ortner's podcast with Pam Grout (author of E2)- and she briefly mentioned she loves the Way Of Mastery. They have a wonderful darshan talk on their website, where the teacher speaks about letting go of needs- the need to be understood by others, the need to appear as good- these are all tied up with others' perceptions of us, which at its basis is because we don't feel self confident and validated within ourselves. When we completely love and accept ourselves, we can let the other go and live much freer, aligned lives!

Anyhoo, I was engaging in a not so great conversation with a friend of mine, and we were light hearted disagreeing. I did feel my focus go on trying to get them to understand my point of view. And did do my best to let go and realise it wasn't my issue to convince them but what can ya do? When I got home, SPLAT! I dropped my iPod Nano, face down on the hard floor. I picked it up and the screen is cracked and smashed sob sob! And I NEVER get cracked screens or anything like that, I take care of my electronica and when I have dropped my bits in the past, they have magically been fine.

A non believer might say 'Well that's just one of those things!' But I know for me, it was just an indicator that I was vibrating in a not so uplifting space. A few mins later I almost drop a Tupperware of melon on the floor- whenever there's a string of not wanted manifestations, I take it as a hint to call it a day and go straight to bed!

After a few mins of dismay, I took the J-Esther way of looking at things and thought 'Oooh, something to buy!' So I just went on Amazon and ordered a new one.

So there we have it- no one is worth you being pulled off your high flying disc, your good space. They are just not worth it. Instead, let go of the need to be understood by others, to have them think of you as good, but rather align with the brilliance of who you are, know your greatness, wellness and power.

PS my Nano still works, so all is not lost...

All is truly well!

Happy non push against-ing!!!

All my love, Nick Xxx

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The iPod Nano crack'd!!! A powerful reminder that self must come first!!! Xxx
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Diversification- spread your woo woo skills!!! It could help in the case of a market crash!!! Lol Xxx

24/6/2015

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So following on from the finance ting, we covered the importance of diversification. When your investing, this is crucial- have a wide portfolio of assets so if anything happens to anyone of them and there's a market crash, then you've got the support of the others, so you're not completely wiped out.

For me, the relative spiritual equivalent of this, is to diversify your tool set for when things go funky. When you're in a bumpy patch, it can be nigh impossible to reach for appreciation, so distraction can help- watching a movie, listening to music, doing something just to take your mind off the negativity can be handy. On the flip side, when you're on a good spin, you can milk it- make lists and rampages of appreciation (that you're doing regularly), let that feeling of exhilaration flow through your body.

Personally, I've always been a fan of having as many tools and techniques to enhance life performance. Good sports people will do things like Pilates, yoga and other body conditioning tings- it adds an extra layer of skill to their set.

Susan Jeffers wrote about creating a full life. If your life consists solely of RELATIONSHIP, then if your partner leaves you, you've got nowt! But if your life is made up of CAREER, RELATIONSHIP, COMMUNITY, FAMILY, HOBBY etc, then if one goes missing then you have lots to keep you occupied in any case.

I'm always a huge proponent of having as much in your ammo toolkit. That's why in each of the groups I will present different processes each month, as sometimes it'll hit the spot, other times it won't work at all.

Just keep at it and know how wonderful you is!

Happy diversify-ing!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Keep your head in the game!!! It's so good!!! Xxx

23/6/2015

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Today was back at finance course. Totally loving it! It really really reinforced to me, when there's a good teacher and willing student, the sky's the limit!

The subject is still huge and goes beyond me, but bit by bit, I'm getting more of a solid foundation. It helps immensely to keep revisiting and learning and topping up. Keep your head in the game!

This rings true and maybe even more so for this consciousness thing. It's very easy to get sucked into the daily drama around us but I really believe it's invaluable to have as many reminders to keep us focused.

If that means going to a group regularly, listening to YouTube/audio clips, reading books etc just keep learning. 'Stay hungry, stay foolish' as Steve Jobs recommends!

Next week is probably the last week of the course- how am I gonna live?! It's really nice to keep learning and incresing my knowledge.

On a completely different (musical) note- the most magnificent James Horner transitioned today! I was so fortune to have seen him at Titanic Live a few weeks ago. What a gentle genius! His music has been a mainstay of countless Hollywood blockbusters. I love film soundtracks and use one of the instrumentals from Avatar as part of my daily meditation (Bioluminescence Of Night). Composers are totally channelling when they do their thang! Truly amazing!

Anyhoo, keep up the great daily work.

All is well!

Happy head in the game-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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That tennis and sports... It is a game of the mind too!!! Xxx

22/6/2015

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Now, let's call a spade a spade- there is a huge component of physicality involved in playing sports. To be at the top of your game, involves a tremendous amount of athleticism, prowess and conditioning. BUT the mental component cannot be overlooked. It can be the difference between make or break (point!).

I was watching the last moments of a tennis match a little while ago between Nadal and Dogopolov. And Nadal is obviously one of the bestest in the world and I hadn't even heard of the other guy! But the other guy won! I was sitting there contemplating it all when the commentator said 'The power of positive thinking.' He didn't elaborate on it but what perfect timing when I heard that.

I've heard that sports players visualise the scoring of goals and points before matches and what not. Because it does help! Getting your mind into the right space is something everyone at the top of their field is aware of in some shape or form.

They carry themselves differently, their expectations for success and what they are wanting is heightened. And it keeps them focused on what they DO want (ooh, where have I heard that before?!).

So whether it's the game of life or football or whatever activity takes your fancy, train your mind, have fun whilst playing it (of course!) and BOOM enjoy beating Nadal!

Happy play-ing!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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You gotta love that which is different from you!!! Life would be quite boring without the contrast!!! Xxx

21/6/2015

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We live in a magnificent world of diversity. Just look at virtually any popular post on Facebook or YouTube and you'll see how there are so many perceptions of a single event. Some of which you totally agree with and others you are probably like 'WTF are these people on?!'

Your job in life is to simply sift and sort through the variety of life and to give your attention not at all, to those things which do not resonate.

You can simply appreciate the difference of it all, as life would be very boring if we were all the same.

One of my closer friends is quite the opposite of me. He's loud and brash, I'm quieter and reserved. He speaks with little pre-thought, whereas I am more considered. I would pin him as an extrovert and I'm definitely a strong introvert. Yet there is a decent level of appreciation towards the other. I definitely appreciate his ability to just put himself out there, regardless of what other people think (albeit I can only bear him in small doses!).

It reminds of the magnificent Susan Cain (author of Quiet), she speaks about how she went to a residential conference for Highly Sensitive People. And whilst it was so wonderful to be surrounded with other considerate, polite people, after a while she yearned for the company of her more gregarious friends, as it was way too subdued with all those quieter, deep thinking souls in their own corner.

So, you see, too much of anything can get a bit boring. If we were all the same, there would be no expansion or ability to diversify.

Instead, just sift and sort through all the things around you and filter through that which makes you happy.

Happy different-ing!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx

PS If you're reading this from Edinburgh, Glasgow or Newcastle then welcome welcome!!! My groups have just launched up there and I am very excited to teach there at the end of July!

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It might feel like work... But practise and processes really do help!!! Xxx

20/6/2015

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The other day I was in the park playing volleyball with the people I train with. And we are all pretty much beginners so at some points it looked more like- try and tap the ball over using your palm/wrist/fingers than proper full out dig/spike/bumping! In fact at the start it was barely making more than a couple of contacts with the ball than a decent rally!

It was quite funny to me, as in vball training sessions we spend about 75-80% doing drills and only about 15-30 mins playing a game! And I've always wanted to have more of the session in match mode. But like our informal session showed me- the technical work is really rather important!!!

I think similarly to our lives. It can sometimes feel like doing the processes, meditations and such which can feel a bit like a chore. However, it really does help provide a stable base from which to live life!

It's oft too hard to try and grapple with love and appreciation in the middle of an argument with someone near and dear. Instead it's the time before or after these incidences, when we have a clearer head that it would be worth spending the time laying the vibrational foundation from where we want to live.

So if you can, try to take the time to do your practises, your emotional drills. This will help you immensely when dealing with the game of life.

Happy practise-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Just keep on going!!! Trust in yourself and the work you've put in!!! Xxx

19/6/2015

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Ah I am still feeling mega good after the past few days of groups. I am still so touched and blessed and amazed at the wonderful vibes, loving atmosphere and brilliance we have at the groups. Truly leading edge. As always, a huge thank you for coming along. When you're in a world of a billion options to spend your time, all at the click of a button, thank you for choosing us!

The message of the day for me is, to just keep going! We all have our up and down days, months or even years but I cannot emphasise how vitally important it is that you take care of yourself- physically, mentally and hopefully spiritually.

Don't beat up on yourself! There'll be times when you fall off whatever wagon it is you are wishing to ride (healthy eating/fitness/doing positivity work etc), just get back on as soon as possible. Knowing that over the long term you are constantly shifting to betterness.

Feeling better is the work. Just a wee bit of relief can go a long way!

My cutest nephew in the world is one year old today and how blessed we are to know him!

Be like a child, in the moment, doing whatever entertains then and there and flying high!

Happy long term-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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The card I got my one year old nephew! It's gorgeous!!! Xxx
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OMG!!! Thank you London!!! This the leading edge and Masterminding to the nth degree!!! Wow!!! Xxx

18/6/2015

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Sweet lord!!! What a freaking amazing leading edge of all leading edge-nesses. Thank you to all the magnificent, eloquent, brave, smart souls for sharing the best of yourselves! And for being respectful by listening to each and offering loving, kind, tender advice! Wow, thank you London so much! As always, I feel like flying sky high after a group!

I can't even begin to glean all that we covered...

- The power of letting go... This can be difficult but when you release and do your best to withdraw your negative attention, it can really start to allow the good in. Oprah's clip YouTube clip 'Surrender' speaks beautifully to this!

- Be kind and loving to yourself. When things are going badly/contrasty, just be kind and easy to yourself. It's all going to be ok, you're doing your best. Just keep repeating soothing thoughts to yourself.

- Processes- focus wheels, lists of positive aspects, visualisations can really flip a negative vibration (when you're in the right space). Try it and see what happens!

There were tons and tons of wonderful bits of advices and all sorts. And again, thank you for touching base- if you're a regular, newbie or an every-so-often matters not. You are all worthy and brilliant and goodness!

Thank you!!!

Happy Thank-ing!!!

All my love, Nick Xxx

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Love these guys so much!!! Y'all rock ass!!! Xxx
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Oh wow!!! Love love love it sooo much!!! Thank you Liverpool!!! Xxx

17/6/2015

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Wow wow wow!!! Love love love!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you Liverpool!!!

What an amazing evening as always! How blessed are we?!?! To be surrounded with so many wonderful people, with all that positive energy, I am sky high!!!

Some points:

- So many good books out there! Just see what books, audio, YouTube clips and all that good stuff is out there for you. Have a feel for what resonates and BOOM, away you go!

- Make peace with where you are! Where you is, is where you is. Ain't no shame or blame in that! Just the thought 'I'm not feeling great now, but I can start to feel a teensy bit better when I choose.' Choice is key, empowerment is key. And all in perfect timing!

- Does your belief serve you? What do you believe about all the subjects in your life. If it's good feeling, keep it, if not, change it. Work within your belief system and don't act contrary to it- this will set you up for a much easier life.

Today we played the money game. You can download blank play cheques from The Secret website. Fill it in with a large amount and then write down how you'd spend it. You can do any of the following and more: Spend/Save/Invest/Donate. It is yours to do as you see fit.

See what crops up- do you find it fun and easy or is it hard and challenging? Practise this game and adapt it as much as you can to all the areas in your life.

Most importantly: HAVE FUN!

Thank you again Liverpool, so appreciative of each and everyone of you!

All is so very well!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Stunning idea!!! Saw this on the moneysavingexpert site!!! Xxx
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Let it go- it's not your Source, tis your mother!!! Claim your own beliefs and live it!!! Xxx

16/6/2015

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I was at lunch with the family the other day and the people in charge of ordering had gone nuts and we had wayyyy more dishes than we could possibly eat (and trust me, my peoples can eat!). So, I thought 'Ooh, I'll try a bit of this and a wee bit of that and yay, buffet style!' That combined with other people dumping bits in my bowl and I ended up with way too much food than I could eat.

Mother saw my leftovers and snapped 'Don't waste... etc etc!' Well, I'm pleased to say that I mentally brushed that off and did not claim any of that shortage consciousness! Yay me! Lol. I wasn't going to force myself to eat more than I wanted to and make myself sick (which would really have been the waste!).

I really think it's wildly important to let go of others beliefs if they do not serve you. Firstly, you have to make yourself aware of anything that you want to change. Then as Louise Hay says ask yourself 'Do I want this to be true?'

Silly but important sayings get ingrained in our consciousness 'Money doesn't grown on trees. Good things just don't happen to people like us. Don't waste, there are people starving. You'll never amount to anything...' The list goes on... As some people choose to accept these things for themselves. But it doesn't have to be the case! Your point of power is now. You get to choose for you, no one gets to say how you live your life.

And when you can shake it off, live an aligned life, then things flow to you with the greatest of ease. And those who are struggling, will look at you, either in disbelief, jealousy or curiosity wanting to know how you have become so brilliant. And then you can share what you know. You strive to be conscious and feel good and let go of how others tell you to be based on their limitedness!

So go forth and be in power. You can do it! We believe in you, of this we are certain!

Happy belief-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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The power of positive assumption and putting it out there... Xxx

15/6/2015

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I was at work a while ago and one of my co workers says to the other 'You're settling in well here aren't you?' To which he responded 'Yes, I kinda am.' Now although I didn't think he hadn't settled in badly, I didn't think it was over spectacular either.

But it was interesting how that simple but leading question elicited a positive response.

I liken that to pre-paving. This is where you set your intention before you enter into a situation. How do you want to feel? How do you want it to unfold? This helps focus your energy on how you would like things to be. And hopefully, it will turn out nicely. And even if it doesn't, ah well, just make the best of the poop!

You can help shift your relationship with someone by entering in with some positive expectation.

For example, if a child calls out to their parent, and mother responds 'What's wrong honey?' in a gentle concerned manner, they're more like to get a more honest, less defensive reply than if they shout to the infant 'What have you done now?!' It can be like that with adults- approach someone like a spider ready to sink it's fangs in and you'll likely get a defensive reaction.

Instead, do your best to walk into as many situations with positive expectation. If it works then yay, if not, at least you did your best and in any case you're pre paving for what's down the line for you. Be happy and screw the rest- their happiness is optional and of no concern of yours!

Happy assumption-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Forget the moaney beaches!!! Surround yourself with wonderful people!!! Xxx

14/6/2015

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How funny, I was with some peeps a while ago (not purely by choice- although yes, I do know that everything is a choice but still...). And man, were they loud and complainy, I felt so drained after that interaction!

Now, I realise that from a pure point of view it is really the relationship between self and self which needs to be worked on but anyhoo... It emphasised to me how nice it is to be with good people!

You don't get to choose, as such, your family or your workmates and I do know that many of you do have that issue. But, in the meantime just make the best of where you are. As a wise psychic told me- 'Your friends are the family you choose for yourself.' So choose em wisely peeps!

I do hear that for some people that they have no one to chat spirituality shop to. Instead of lamenting it, I say 'get up off of that thang.' With the wonders of technology you needn't leave your bed to connect with other people out there- forums, Facebook groups, YouTube. There are ton of Meetup groups, social groups and all sorts of happening things. And if all else fails, do what Louise Hay (and Susan Jeffers) recommends- start your own. Louise says 'All you need is some love and teddy bears' and you're good to go! Lol. She started off with 6 men with HIV in her living room and BOOM, decades later she's queen of the world!

Like anything else in life, just try to be a bit more conscious with who and what you surround yourself with. You're important too and should treat yourself accordingly!

Happy friend-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Like shares and equities, life is always looking to your expansion!!! Xxx

13/6/2015

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I was listening to a teacher speak about buying shares, when to buy them and what some recommendations were. Much like life, there is no right and wrong- one financial advisors says one thing and another says the opposite, yet both can be successful. Apparently Starbucks' share price is at an all time high. Some would say wait for it to dip and then buy, others believe it would still be worth buying now because of the expansion plans they have in place.

The teacher explained that it's worth looking to the future for the company you wish to buy shares in- is there room for expansion? Do they have plans in place to expand? If so, then it may be worth investing.

On a side note, I read something along the lines of- either professional investors or successful investors (whether those two are mutually exclusive I will leave up to you to decide lol), are demarcated from average loser Joe by the strengths of their convictions. In other words, it is the high degree of belief that they have in themselves, their choices and their companies that seems to determine how well they do playing the markets- I thought this was quite an interesting tidbit...

Anyhoo, back to expansion... That's how we want you view your life. Absolutely make peace with and enjoy your now (especially if it's pleasing!), but you can also turn your attention to the broader part of you. That which is expansive, what you've given birth to vibrationally.

At every point in time you are shooting off rockets of desires for preferences, and the Universe- in its eternal wisdom is answering. So it's done! It's done, it's done, it's done (did I mention it's done?!).

So just ease into that flow, do your best to enjoy what's going on and be thrilled about what is to come.

You can be, do or have anything you wish. Just allow your well being to take precedent!

Happy equity-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Love kid's humour!!! Xxx
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Law Of Attraction or LOA For sure!!! Xxx
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Money money money!!! Are you attracting or resisting it??? Xxx

12/6/2015

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Money usually elicits some sort of strong reaction within people. Louise Hay says that when she used to teach, she found more people had more stuff about money than sex! Which is quite surprising considering what a push button subject sex is.

Ultimately the question is 'Are you attracting or resisting it?' (Money that is!)

There are two ways of allowing something into your experience- 1/ Think about it positively 2/ Surrender and get off the subject. You have to work out what works for best for you, as with all things, only you know where you're vibrating and what would make you feel better.

As it is a subject which, in most circumstances, touches your life several times aday, it might serve you to work on it.

Money is energy. As Ms Hay says 'Money is as spiritual as a rose.' It's a flow of consciousness. As someone wisely pointed out, if everyone in the world was given exactly the same amount of money, it would soon redistribute itself to the levels of consciousness held previously.

If you see something 'extravagant' do you immediately go to resentment, judgement or lack? Or do you think 'One day I'll have that, how magnificent it is' or 'Good for them! That's not something I'd buy for myself but I appreciate the sentiment!'

You see, you are attracting or resisting. And a good way to tell where you are is by your immediate gut reaction. If someone says to you 'My first class flight costs £6,000' do you think how you could never afford it or even worse (like many YouTubers and their comments!!!) start to criticise and complain. Or do you think 'Bloody good for them! That's amazing!'

Play as many money games as you can (22 techniques can be found in the book Ask And It Is Given). I read a rampage twice daily and have done for about 7+ years. Try EFT/Tapping etc Take some time to do the work. Especially if you've had negative beliefs ingrained in you from your parents and/or society.

We want you to feel as good as you can about as much as you can. And this is just one aspect of it. The exact same thing which I've mentioned above could be applied to love, health etc

Happy attract-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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OMG! OMG! OMG! Loved it- thank you so much Brighton!!! Xxx

11/6/2015

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Wow, what a most wonderful evening we had in Brighton!!! Taking life and learning to new levels! Being in the company with such magnificent leading edge, heart centred people is truly brilliant!!! Loved it so much!

I can't get to Brighton as much, so I condense a full workshop into an evening sess.

We did:

- Some goal setting. Writing what you like to achieve in the future. Start to put your attention on what you do want and how you'd like things to unfold. Beats complaining!

- Money- spend that cheque! Write a play cheque for a huge amount and then mentally spend it. You can save, invest, donate, do whatever you want! See what beliefs and stuff comes up for you. You want to be in a good feeling place.

- Career- what did you enjoy doing? What do you enjoy doing? And what would you enjoy doing more of? Do more of what you love! And see how your spirit rises! And most likely your bank balance.

- Relationship- do a list of positive aspects on someone you love and/or someone who's difficult to love. Do it because you love to love! And then see what the Universe brings you.

- Health- prep things that relax you. If you get a cold or other illness it's usually your body saying 'slow down!' I find it too hard to be positive if I'm ill, so I just do my best to go to '0.'

Thanks so much for a wonderful workshop! Spend an evening feeling better about stuff and see how good you feel AND all the wonderfulness the Universe brings you.

You are perfect. All is so very well. Be easy about it!

Happy workshop-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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A mother's intuition!!! It could save ya!!! Follow it!!! Xxx

10/6/2015

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So my friend was telling me that the other day, she got home and immediately sensed someone else had been there. The hubby was meant to have been out all day so she figured it wasn't him. So defences up and ready to fight or flight, she gingerly entered the premises...

It was only when she looked down at the table she noticed her husband's credit card, meaning he had been home in his lunch break. So she could relax and breathe a sigh of relief!

Although who really knows what it was, I conjectured it was her mother's intuition at work. You see, for the last year she has been tending to and caring for her newborn baby. Little is more powerful than a mother's love and so she has spent most every minute of every day for the past 12 ish months, making sure this dear one is doing well. As he has no language, she can tell when something is not quite right by interpreting his behavioural patterns, body motions, noises he makes etc. Thus developing a heightened instinct, gut feeling and being able to read non verbal cues.

Back in the day, that gut instinct was necessary for survival. Being highly aware of your surroundings and what lurks ahead was quite the life saving skill. Nowadays you can use it fine tune what goes into your life. When faced with a decision, tune into what feels right. Act on it and see what happens. The more you use it, the better you'll be at guiding your own life.

You always have your internal guidance- your connection to Source and we encourage you to follow this! All the greats have! It's just over time we get trained out of listening to ourselves as we take onboard advice from our parents, society, family and friends. But that's the goal- to trust in yourself and your intuition, that inner voice calling you forth to that which would bring you joy.

And who knows- it could save your life- literally and/or metaphorically!

Happy instinct-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Oh wow!!! How wonderful!!! Another amazing rockin evening!!! Thank you Manchester- let's fly!!! Xxx

9/6/2015

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Thank you SOOO much Manchester! What a most wonderful evening, being with a group of like minded, feel-good and wanting to feel good peoples as always makes me wanna fly so high!!!

Some points:

- Follow your joy/bliss. Do more things that connect you with you. Try thinking back to when you were a child. What did you have fun doing? What was the essence? Creativity, helping people, socialising? Do more things which make you happy!

- For beginners- try starting small but do something daily. 5-10 mins of breathing/meditation at the start of the day, then a short list of things you appreciate will set you up nicely for the day ahead.

- Money game- there are many variations of this. You can mentally spend £50 as many times through your day. Pick a large amount e.g. £10 million and write what you'd spend it on. Pick an amount and increase it daily, e.g. Day 1- mentally spend £1,000, Day 2- £2,000 etc...

- There is enough for everyone. No one needs to lose for the other to gain. Focus on the infiniteness that is you and let it in!!!

Love you guys lots and lots, thank you for sharing your time and beingness!

Happy passion-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Thank you Birmingham!!! An amazingly powerful Mastermind group!!! Y'all freaking is amazing!!! Xxx

8/6/2015

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Thank you Birmingham soooo much for an incredible evening! Napoleon Hill and Abraham speak about the power of more than one mind coming together with exponential beneficial effects. Well tonight was an uber mega Mastermind! A room full of people all sharing their inspirational stories, their working points and everyone supporting with advice and love- life doesn't get any more potent than that!!!

Some points:

- Ask and it is guaranteed (just get outta the way!). I am loving that as a book title! When you ask, it is given, the Universe answers you and there are a myriad of ways to get what you really want- you just have to get in your good space!

- Don't matter what ya do- just have the intention to feel good at the end of it. Whether it's specific focusing or surrendering it to the Universe- make your intention to feel ease and feel good! That is so ridiculously important, feel the ease!

- Big up your goodness, play down the not so goodness. If you've got some aspects working really well, keep telling yourself how wonderful it all is and how well you're doing. It can help to work on problems but have the mindset to improve how you feel about it! You want the attitude of 'I did well on this, I know I can do well on this other stuff.' It can be easy to focus on what is wrong and easily forgetting how brilliant we are... and we really are amazing!

- If you're new and want to get more advanced, then try sitting down and work to feel better about a subject. Pick something small to medium (maybe not that issue you've been working on for the past 25 years!). And write a list of appreciation about it, script how you want it to be, maybe write all you don't like about it, and the Pivot and write how you want it to be. Whatever you do, just set out to prove to yourself you have that emotional and mental control!!!

Have fun, we make far too much of all of this. Lighten up, all is so very well!

Happy Master Mind-ing!!!

All my love, Nick Xxx

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A most beautiful sunset on the train back to London! How blessed we are!!! Xxx
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Is that the time??? The power of perception and flow!!! Xxx

7/6/2015

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Life is like a box of perception... You can only know from your point of view and it can all be shifted, merged and divided depending on where you focus.

Some people complain they don't have enough time and others, I'm sure, complain that time goes too slowly (especially if they're at work! Ha). Me being me, I've always usually got something on the go and rushing round, unless I'm on holiday and consciously chosen to switch off, or I'm ill. I've currently got a cold so am slowing things down!

Anyhoo, for me, time generally flies. But interestingly enough, if I microwave something which say, takes 2 minutes (or incidentally, like now, I'm on the last minute of a shift!) and I'm doing nothing but waiting for it- it seems to take a mini eternity! How interesting to have such wildly different experiences (or at least for me it's interesting!). It showed me how a slight shift of focus can bring about a completely different interpretation of a period of time.

There's a state that psychologists refer to as 'flow', this is being 'in the zone.' Being in that good space where you're fully immersed in an activity. This is another example of putting your mind's eye on different visions. If it's music, breathing, yoga, mindful eating, walking or whatever does it for you, do more of it! As you follow your passions, your vibration raises, you get in that good space and you begin to allow your true desires in.

So try it now, if you're feeling good then do whatever it takes to enhance that feeling. If you're not in a good space then turn your attention to something else. Louise Hay recommends concentrating on your fave flower or something equally as innocuously uplifting.

See how ya get on! And do it more often. Your soul (and clock) will thank you for it.

Happy time-ing!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Pay attention to self... It might actually not be his sandwich!!! Lol Xxx

6/6/2015

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I was reminiscing about the mischief I got up to whilst in secondary school and boy was it funny! A vivid memory flashed through my mind.

Being the cheeky devil I was, I was on my way home with one of my best friends when I grabbed his sandwich (I think I probably sneaked into his rucksack and stole it!). I was running down the street and he caught me and obviously tried to pull it back from my grasp! Moments later a truck which was driving past, slowed down and the driver proceeded to scream at my friend 'Oi, give it back to him!' He protested but the driver was insistent.

So begrudgingly he handed over the sandwich to which the driver quite happily zoomed off and I had to sheepishly hand it back... Now to the outside eye it looked like the motorist did quite the justice thing- I was a shrimpy little kid and some tall school thug was prying a sandwich from my grip but obviously to those involved it was quite the opposite!

Now, this doesn't mean to not intercede when you feel the need, especially if you're a brave, kindly person. But when it comes to life, you generally can't know exactly what's going on for anyone. Everyone has their own perspective and their own way of living. Your job isn't to understand why someone is the way they is, but your job is to stay in alignment with your dream and what's calling you forward in life.

Parents want the best for their kids (usually), partners want the best for their partners (in most cases), but who really knows what's 'best' other than the individual themselves?!

Instead trust in the overarching well being of your loved ones, know that all is well for all of us. It is not your job to save anything or anyone. It is your job to follow your bliss, to get in that good feeling space and then take action. The positivity of that which goes on on this planet is beyond measure and the not well being is a mere fraction of all that is.

Happy sandwich-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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