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Thank you London!!! And... Sir Alan Sugar- here I come (well not really but still!) Xxx

31/1/2015

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First of all, a huge THANK YOU To my London group for an amazing day! Everyone worked so hard and only had 1 break but the time flew by and it was such a pleasure to hear everyone chatting away to each other. I am still buzzing! Such a leading edge powerful group of people.

There is little more satisfying than seeing newbies and oldbies to the group, talking about living a more inspired, powerful, uplifting life! To see all the new connections being made and people 'getting it.' WOW! How powerful is that. So many of my good friends are from the groups, so to see it all unfold is powerful!

We covered the main areas of life: Abundance/Health/Career/Relationships and did various processes. There's something powerful about putting pen to paper to focus in alignment. Doing something for 30 consecutive days (e.g. meditation, positive aspects, visualisation etc) and seeing the change- it could completely revamp your life.

Keep up the great work!!!

On a side note- I've been accepted for an audition to The Apprentice!!! What a freaking riot!!! Lol. This is the week of allowing in things I appreciate (first I win 2x preview tickets to the Wachowski's Jupiter Ascending!) now this. I've always thoroughly enjoyed The Apprentice but have no real desire to be in it! The bickering and showmanship really doesn't speak to me, plus do they get much sleep?! I'd be eating or napping in the car drives lol

I was watching the last series and they said 'To be on the next series, go to blah blah site and fill in an application.' So I did it for a laugh!

Interesting 'signs' though... I received the invitation about 10 mins into the start of my good feeling group AND the audition date is the 1 day in Feb I have free (and I don't have many free days!) AND a wonderful member of the group today had been in audition for The Apprentice previously.

Anyhoo, I don't even have any kind of business plan so I wouldn't get very far. I'm still deciding whether to even go for the audition- but part of my New Year's Res is to do new things, so who knows. I will keep you updated if I do!

As I always say- do anything for the experience and fun of it and you never know what could happen!!!

Happy experiencing-ing!!!

All my love and hope to see you at a workshop!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nick Xxx
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Be what you want to attract (it do work!) Xxx

30/1/2015

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I've heard many times, if you want a partner (or pretty much anything), then become that thing you want to attract. Or at least hold it in that space of appreciation.

Oprah is a huge believer in the power of the energy that she puts out into the world. So much so, that she learnt early on that she had to stay true to who she was. And it held her in good stead for her success and the fact that she could enjoy it with a clear conscience.

In her early days, she brought the KKK on to her show. She thought she was helping draw light to that issue she wanted clearing (racism) but it was only during the break, she saw their expressions and realised they were using her show as a platform to spew their beliefs. She then decided to focus only on what she wanted to bring energy to after that point. (This can be found on Oprah's Masterclass interview where she speaks about her incredible life and career- a lot of contrast followed by a lot of good!)

What with all the social media and ways to connect, I see media personalities post stuff and their fans (or haters) respond in kind. It's interesting to see these clusters of similar comments people make (both positive and negative).


So the message of the day is to send out the energy you wish to attract. Obviously! And become that which you wish to see in the world!


Happy being all you can be!


I've got my London day workshop tomorrow! So exciting!!! To spend a day with leading edge co creators! Life doesn't get much better than this!!!


Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Wow!!! Soooo good to be back!!! Thanks you Birmingham for an amazing night!!! Xxx

30/1/2015

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Wowwww! Thank you Birmingham for another freaking amazing evening! So nice to be back at my first Birmingham group of the year!

We had a most perfect night with the most brilliant, beautiful, fabulous, kind and smart souls!!!

So much covered I couldn't even begin to detail it all. So here are just some points which come to mind:

- You are creating life. Life isn't something happening to you! A wonderful reminder that you are the creator of your reality. Life isn't a string of things happening to you. Instead, you are the masterful creator of your experience.

- Every thought you think is an affirmation. Every word you speak and every thought you think is an affirmation. Be conscious of what you're thinking and feeling and where your patterns lie. When you are aware then you can make any changes you see fit.

- Find your happiness NOW. Even when you achieve your goals, there will always be room for more, so do your best to be mindful of your now and the beauty which surrounds you. There will always be constant growth. You are an eternal being.

So much wisdom shared, this isn't even the tip of the iceberg! Love you guys and thank you for braving the snow to make it! As always a pleasure!

See you in Feb! All my love, Nick Xxx

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- Make a list of goals you want this year and your first step towards it. It can be oftentimes that the goals we set are just way to big for us to conceive a way about it. And so that intimidates us. Just make the first step. E.g if you are writing a book, start with a sentence, that becomes a paragraph, which becomes a chapter, which eventually becomes a book.

By taking the first, inspired, next logical step towards what we want, things turn out much easier. Just do your best to feel good first.

- Appreciation for 2014/What you want for 2015 in the following areas: Money/Career/Relationships/Health

You can list what you appreciated last year. Thus activating that good feeling and drawing more of it towards you.

And/or you make a list of things you're looking forward to this year. Either things you are definitely going to do and are excited about. Or things you would like to happen.

I also got you to write 2-3 things on a post it note. Goals you want or intentions. And to ideally post it somewhere which would act as a regular reminder (e.g your bathroom mirror, fridge etc). So they can gently remind yourself of where you wish to focus. (And not to beat yourself up if you haven't done it!). Chill out, everything is unfolding perfectly!

Happy intending!!!

Love you all Xxx
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You have to be in it to win it! So buy a fooking ticket!!! (Or not!!!) Lol Xxx

29/1/2015

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One misconception when people step into this work is that you can magically sit there at home and visualise, and all your stuff will come to you. Now whilst this can be the case if your belief is strong enough, you came to this life to experience physicality! To be out there, mixing it up!

It's like that story where a chap prays to the godly statue/the clouds (depending on which of the many variations you've heard). He sits there, pleading 'Please let me win the lottery!!! Please, please, please!!!' He does this every day for ages...

Then suddenly the statue comes to life/God's voice booms from the cloud saying... 'WELL BUY A FOOKING TICKET FIRST!!!' Lol!

It's not that you don't take action, it's that you want to take the right action! And the 'right' action will make itself known to you. You just have to shift your emotions and thoughts towards good feeling things.

Be in the race for it!

Case in point, if you've been in contact with me (blog/group/general conversation), I have been raving about Cloud Atlas (amazing movie by the Wachowskis- who also did the Matrix). They have a new movie out called Jupiter Ascending, I have been watching the trailer for this many times! Anyhoo, I saw a competition in Topman for some preview tickets. So I entered! And boom I just got confirmation that I won! So on Monday I will be at a private preview of the movie, and there's a Q&A with Douglas Booth (whoever he is?!) who is a star of the movie! Excitingness!

Now, doing this Law Of Attraction as long as I have, I still think, 'Hmmm, did I really attract it with my appreciation?' Well, I guess I did!

So, the point of this tale is not to go round entering competitions or playing the lottery, but to get in as good feeling state as possible then allow the things to inspire you to the easiest, fun, allowing action!

Happy inspiring yourself!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

PS I'm back on the road today, Birmingham here I come!!! Woo!!! Xxx

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This must come first!!! Or else!!! Xxx

28/1/2015

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I think, one of the most important things I've learnt from studying this material is that the way you feel is the be all and end all!

Not only is this because your emotions are your Sat Nav through life but also because to feel is to live, to be human, to be physically focused in this time-space reality.

One of the key principles I teach is for you to be aware of how you are feeling as much as possible To combine this with thinking more positively, is the best thing you could do for yourself.

Even if all of this was a pile of twaddle and your thoughts and feelings had no impact on how things manifested for you. Feeling less than good would just not do for me anymore.

If I'm faced with a situation, perhaps a goal that I want to achieve which feels too big or a dispute with someone etc I really try to get feeling better. Simply because it feels horrible to carry that dread, fear, worry and stress around in my mind and gut!

I really believe that working things into a better feeling place is the best first step towards anything. If just because you want an easier, struggle free life. From there you'll be blessed with the inspired action which will yield to you results unlike ever before!

Happy feeling better! Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Come one, come all!!! You are all unconditionally loved!!! No matter what!!! Xxx

27/1/2015

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One of the things I love most about this school of thought and what attracted me to it in the first place is that of unconditional love. Accepting you regardless of who you are or what you've done. It matters not. Because Source sees you as perfect and beautiful and amazing at all times!

No one who is truly aligned with themselves, who is feeling good, would ever be in alignment with hurting anyone else. Anytime there is a lashing out, it can usually be attributed to a loss of freedom somewhere. Either someone told them to do or be something that they are not and through that negative emotion, they act is less than constructive ways.

And that's the thing, everyone thinks they are right! And from their perspective they usually are. But your job isn't to go round changing anyone so that they agree with you. Instead, your job is to get into alignment with your dream and allow the Universe to bring to you people, circumstances and things which are a perfect match to that.

You are always loved, supported, powerful, brilliant. In your 'darkest' times you are asking more strongly and more powerfully than ever before. And like the beautiful 'Footprints' allegory, when you had your deepest trials and tribulations, you were not alone with one set of footprints in the sand, you were being carried by the mighty all that is.

We don't care if you're male, female, black, white, Asian, gay, straight, trans, criminal or victim. There is complete, unconditional love here for you. Because we know the magnificence that is you.

All is so very well.

Happy unconditional lovingness!!! Nick Xxx

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Infinite wisdom can be found anywhere- even the tube!!! Xxx

26/1/2015

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So, today on the way to see my parents I caught sight of this wonderful writing on the tube (London's Metro service) noticeboard. I love how we can find reminders of goodness anywhere- we just have to take a second to notice it!

I particularly love the quotes at Clapham's station and try to read these whenever I walk past. It is a wonderful reminder how we don't need to be in a little bubble of beingness. You can spot inspirational material wherever you go!

And what a wonderful quote it is. It speaks to our daily focus. One thing can make or break your day if you let it. As Abe say- there could be 9 things going wrong but 1 thing going right. Give your full attention to that one thing and your life will be brought into alignment. Likewise there could be 9 exceptional things going on and 1 fault. Focus on that single fault and it will drag down your vibration.

Kick start the day with some inspirational stuff- a piece of music, a quote, a YouTube video, a blog, anything! And continue the day as you mean to go on. Keep reaching for those good feeling things and see how life changes for the better!

Happy positive thinking dear ones! All my love, Nick Xxx
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Damn! Dem 'cocks is fast!!! Shuttlecocks that is!!! Xxx

25/1/2015

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Naughty mind you have! Lol!

So today as part of my New Year's Res, I played badminton- I haven't played this for years, if not decades!

First of all, I woke up in the middle of the night, thinking 'Eugh, do I really want to get up early morning?! I could do with a lie in!' It gave me new sympathy and it really showed me how it's easy to procrastinate one's resolutions and fall off the wagon!!!

So I played some matches and I was ok, far from being anywhere near an advanced player though. And in between games, I stopped to watch the good players. It occurred to me that you almost have to be psychic to be at the top levels. The shuttlecocks are going sooo fast that trying to react and hit it back whilst the shuttle is en route is probably too late.

Whilst I don't know for sure, I conjecture that the really advanced player can predict where it's going to be flying based on the movements of the opposing player before they actually hit the shuttle.

I likened this to manifestation. As someone who's objective (to everyone's life but my own), I can tune into a person and the types of things going on in their life (if not exactly, then roughly) and how things are going for them. By the words and general beingness, I can easily see what would help them clear up their vibration and attract more of what they want.


I guess that's what a coach does (sports or otherwise) they see where a player is and directs them to what would help. And those more advanced can start to tune in where they are, see where others are headed and BOOM knock them 'cocks where they want!

I've really seen how with these sports, it takes dedication, regular practise and months if not years of regular practise to start to play with the subtle nuances of fine tuning. So whether you're old or new to consciousness, just keep enjoying the ride, you'll look back, see how far you've come and help a newbie who really needs some support and encouragement, as I definitely do when trying out these sports!

Happy playing the game of life!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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You do it 90,000 times a day!!! (No not that!!!) Xxx

24/1/2015

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I am having a most wonderful birthday!!! A wonderful Louise Hay workshop with my Heal Your Life Experience team! I love this leading edge beingness!

We covered the power of thoughts. We learnt that we have approximately 90,000 thoughts a day. I've heard this theory before but it hit home the huge number of thoughts that run through our minds.

And most of them can be fussing and worrying (or at least for me it is!). So when you think about it- if say, half of your thoughts on a day are negative. So this is about 45,000 negative thoughts a day, multiplied by 365. That is almost 16.5 MILLION negative thoughts a year! Wow!!! That is quite staggering!

For me, it puts in perspective how being conscious, aware and actively seeking to feel good can help you not only think and feel better but will shift your manifestations.

Sometimes it can be the case that someone is trying to do the affirmations and shift stuff but nothing seems to happen. This could be as simple as just time delay and waiting things to unfold. The other component can be that the 'air time' (what you're thinking and feeling most of the time) is in contradiction to what you want.

Just some food for your 90,000 thoughts!

Do your best to make your dominant vibration in a better feeling direction of what you want and trust good things will occur!

All is so very well!!!

Happy thinking! Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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No one needs to know this… ‘Cept for you!!! Xxx

23/1/2015

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I have always loved to share things with other people. When I get on a wagon I really do love to experience, learn and make the best of my passions. Lord knows I’ve dragged my sister and friends to enough ridiculousness in my time lol I know for certain that when I found out this life changing material I couldn’t help but share with any Tom, Dick or Harriett who’d listen!

Nowadays, I proselytize a lot less. In fact, unless I’m asked directly about it then I usually just keep it vague and say ‘I do positive thinking etc’. I do my sharing in the groups I teach and I am more than happy to help anyone who asks for it- which is why I created this website. So those who are seeking and willing to work can do so from the comfort and privacy of their rooms. I think for me now, I just sit in a place of quiet but definite confidence (NB: I am certainly not telling you to not share this with your loved ones or carry on about how you usually would, especially if that’s what you really enjoy). But I think for me there is a difference between sharing and converting (or trying to convert).

I remember this wonderful clip when Abraham is speaking to a mother who is trying to get her son to live a ‘better’ life, so she buys and shares the Abe material with him. Abraham advised her to feel difference between ‘You need this to change your life!’ and ‘OMG, I just love this and had to share this with you!’ The vibrational difference is immense. Nothing will rile someone up more than you blaring at them ‘Your life is not working. You need this or else!’ (Or at least it would irritate the hell outta me!)

Anyhoo, my point is when you know it for yourself, you can share it in a myriad of ways with whoever. For example, a fun game I like to play with my friends who don’t know anything about this (and who wouldn’t really be interested) is ‘What would you really do if…? You won the lottery/had your ideal partner etc’ These are fun games that get the vibration of what they want activated and are pretty innocuous to the unsuspecting eye! You begin to be able to tune into where each person is at and how they would best respond to your upliftment.

In other words, just be the happy, confident you and when things go your way (or not!) and others ask what is the magic to your beingness, you can begin to let them in on the ‘secret.’ (The secret being that feeling better is the key, not the book ‘The Secret’ although that is a great place to start too!

Happy being you!!! All my love, Nick Xxx

Oh yeah, it’s my 32nd birthday tomorrow so I hope to see you then! I have a wonderful Louise Hay workshop with my amazing Heal Your Life friends and then we partay in the evening!

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Hold your desire like a child does. And some amazing magical shizzzle could happen!!! Xxx

22/1/2015

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Spending time, with my now, 7 month old nephew (my, how fast they grow!), I am reminded of how simple life can be. He has no social mores, nor does he need them! He will just stare at you with his gorgeous eyes and smile, a crinkly eyed smile. That unconditional love is truly present.

It made think back to being a child and having those pure desires and how incredibly I got what I wished for (both ‘good‘ and ‘bad’). As a kid I loved computers and remember really wanting a Nintendo SNES to play Mario and what not. I remember even wishing upon a star for one! And lo and behold, however many weeks later, my cousin lent me his. In all honesty, I probably got bored of it after a few weeks or months but hey, I was a kid, I didn’t know about temporary happiness!

I also wished for braces and glasses (I remember having really excellent vision as a young child- being able to read license plates across the road and all sorts!), as my sister had them and I though they were cool. Yeah, well I got them and it turns out- not so cool! Whether they came about as a result of my mild desire to have them, I couldn’t say but what can ya do?! You live and learn.

Fast forward some years later and I remember being a dance teacher. I was alright but by no means a professional standard dancer. However, I really, really, really wanted a class at Danceworks (one of the two major dance studios in London). I had no idea how to get this, I probably sent in a CV and obviously didn’t hear anything back. Then one day, I bumped into a friend who I hadn’t been in touch with for years-he says his friend is teaching at Danceworks. To cut a long story short, we end up teaching together there and then he had to go back home to the USA, so I had my very own class at one of the best dance studios in Europe.

I remember watching Les Mis on stage and thought ‘I really would love to be on stage in a show.’ Fast forward a little bit and I ended up being in an am-dram production of Jesus Christ Superstar. Finally, I really wanted to be in a music video (I had done a fair bit of extra TV and film work). I had already semi booked myself for a day with my aunt but as life would have it I had an audition that day. Even though I was purposefully awkward during the audition (as I wanted to spend the day with aunt and not get the job), and literally just got out of bed and slapped any clothes on- I got the part! And it was in Sam Obernik’s ‘Stand Back’ music video.

Anyhoo, all of the above were before I knew about the Law Of Attraction. But for each of them, the strong desire was definitely present and it was strong enough to surpass any doubt and/or it was pure in nature and so my resistance to receiving it was low.

Nowadays, I try not to let any desires get way out ahead of me. Instead, I take the route of ease, going general and trusting that what is unfolding is ultimately going to be good without being too specific in listing what I want. Ahhhhh, it’s a much easier way to live. Looking for things which make me happy and feel good, for no other reason than just to have that pleasing experience- this is my new passion!

And that is the equation for creating anything you want.

Desire (Step 1- you do this by the living of life) + Universe vibrationally creates your stuff (Step 2) + Allowing (This is your work- getting in that good space) = Stuff (Ta da!)

Play with the clay of life and see what inspires you, allow the desire to percolate within your entire being and then get out of the way. And see what happens!

Happy desiring!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Let it go! Let it gooooo!!!

21/1/2015

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Yes, that is an allusion to the famous Frozen song (as sung by Adele Dazeem! Lol). These three words presented powerfully in succession carry with them such life improving advice, you’d be mistaken to overlook them.

Amy Adams (multiple actress Oscar nominee) was asked in her most recent Hollywood Reporter Roundtable (I love these interviews- catch them on YouTube if you can!) what advice would she give herself growing up. To which she responded ‘Let it go!’

This phrase ties in nicely with one of my New Year’s Resolutions- to reach for ease as much and as often as possible. To be honest, it’s been a bit hit and miss as I can quite easily get wrapped up in what I’m doing and forget, but hey, I’m doing my best!

But that really is the advice du jour- just let it all go! No one and nothing is worth hanging onto any negative emotion for. Now, I’m not saying this is always easy nor would it be the first thing you could reach for. However, just to know and be aware that what you’re holding onto does not ultimately serve you, will place you in good stead when you are ready to clear it all up.

‘But he/she/they/it done me something wrong!’ I hear you cry. Yes, they may have been a bit of a tw*t towards you and done all sorts of atrocities but you don’t want to ‘let it go’ for their benefit. You want to ‘let it go’ for your benefit! This is the ultimate selfish act we encourage- making sure nothing and no one stops you from feeling good. Because you feeling good is what matters most. And this doesn’t mean putting a fake smile on and saying ‘It’s fine!’ It means, truly feeling good within about the situation, however that might play out for you.

Do your best to make peace with whatever happened and move on with your life and when you step into that good feeling space, nothing can stop you from claiming what is rightfully yours. Far too often, people use other people to blame and feel bad. The good thing is this contributes tremendous amounts to the Step 1 process, adding more and more good stuff to your Vortex. However, the kicker is that people use the ‘bad situations’ to focus upon and to keep them out of the Vortex and prevent them from claiming what is vibrationally theirs!

In other words, feel the negative emotion, let it give birth to new desires but at the same time, keep an eye to move towards your allowing space, so you can align with Step 3- your goodies! And then you’ll be thanking for doing that.

Bottom line, chillout, let it go and see what happens.

Happy letting go (and seeing along with Idina Menzel!) Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Shortcut to success? Practise, practise, practise!!! (Sad but true! Lol Xxx)

20/1/2015

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Tonight I saw Cats- The Musical, featuring Nicole Scherzinger (of Pussycat Dolls fame etc). And she was excellent- I really wished she had more songs in it and/or does another musical where she features heavily. Excellent voice!


On the way back from the show I was speaking to my sister and her friend starred in Bollywood Dreams- another popular Andrew Lloyd Webber musical of days gone by. Anyhoo, her friend told her that the cast had to rehearse practically every day!


Now, for these professional shows, some of the actors have been doing the same songs and roles day in day out for quite literally decades. Yet, there is always a need to rehearse, to fine tune and improve upon what is already great!


In Justin Timberlake's Masterclass with Oprah, I believe someone came up to him saying something along the lines of 'I don't like you! You make it all look so easy!' Justin responded that his performance was quite literally the hardest thing for him but it was with all the hours of practise that when he hits the stage he can perform so smoothly.


Same premise with consciousness and spirituality. Esther did/does tons of focus wheels everyday, Louise Hay starts her morning with appreciation, good food and downtime allowing her to pre pave the day as she wants it to be, Susan Jeffers when she was alive, had a programme of audio tapes, affirmations and a plethora of tools to keep her positive.


There is no secret to success other than to keep working on it. And trust somehow, somewhere it will tip in your favour. Do your best to keep the faith, try new things and when you look back and connect the dots. You'll be like 'Ah, bloody hell I've come far!!!'


Keep up the great work dear ones! And keep believing in yourself!!!


Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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How do they do it?! I simply could not live any other way!!! Xxx

19/1/2015

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I had a fun day yesterday, as I mentioned previously   I had a great time with the hockey people and we went for drinks after. Although I didn’t sit down with everyone and ask them individually their spiritual beliefs and practises, I got the impression that there weren’t many/any spiritual people there (although I could be totally wrong but anyway). Anyhoo, afterwards I met a lovely Aber friend for dinner and it was so nice to have leading edge conversation! As we were chatting, we re-affirmed it’s good to know what we know. It really hit me that I could just not live any other way. To know I am the creator of my own reality, that I have control over how my life unfolds (if not in the exact playout of all experiences, then at least by the way I think and feel about any situation- which really is the pinnacle of beingness), is the ultimate for me.

To feel that you are at the whim of anything and everything out would now terrify me no end! As Abraham says- we should offer you some sort of disclaimer, when you find out about this, there is no going back!

Now do not misunderstand, I am definitely not saying that if you don’t subscribe to this way of being that there’s something deficient, because there any infinite people living fooking amazing lives without any knowledge of consciousness. But for me, I cannot find anything more satisfying, powerful, empowering or brilliant than to know with the power of my focus, I can align with who I really am; change how I think and feel and ultimately shift what’s happening in my life- it just does not get better than this.

Or at least for now that is. In five, ten or twenty years, I might be doing something completely different (although I doubt it, but ya never know!). But whilst I am enjoying this way of being, I am going to do my best to make where I am and all the good I am experiencing, my primary goal.

NB: Just because we know about this material, does not make us infallible. In fact, most spiritual individuals and teachers have gone through contrast which has pushed them to seek out more. So our lives are definitely not more perfect but it’s just that we are aware of the choices we can offer in our reactions to circumstances. Even if we forget especially if things go poo. But hey we’re all human and all the better for it!

Happy experiencing the contrast! All my love, Nick Xxx

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So I say thank you to my newbies... the songs I'm singing...Lol... And some advice for all of you... Xxx

18/1/2015

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And a huge thanks my oldbies ;o)

So, today as part of my New Year's Resolution to try new things I went along to a hockey session (having never really played it before!) I re-empathised with anyone going to something for the first time. Silly thoughts ran through my head 'OMG, I am going to like it? Will I be any good? Will they like me? Am I going to get my teeth knocked out?!!!'


Thankfully, it all turned out fine. And I was alright at the sport. However, it really did reiterate to me how tentative one can be when trying something new. So I give a heartfelt thanks to of you who come along to my groups for the first time. I think it's really important to keep an encouraging, relaxed, open atmosphere and I give thanks to my 'oldbies' for helping maintain that space and being committed enough to come along regularly!

During hockey practise, I found that some of those who were more advanced really didn't have the time of day for me but I do understand that everyone has their own agendas. However, it made the world of difference when some of the more encouraging players said 'Well done, you're doing really great!' I really had to reach for supportive, easy, good feeling thoughts especially when I felt I didn't know what on Earth was going on!

So, what I learned today and the advice I offer:

For Teachers

Try doing something new, ideally something that you won't be good at, as it will help you empathise with those who are joining your classes and who might not be comfortable nor confident. Hopefully, it will give you another perspective. It can be really easy to stay in that comfort zone of confidence in what you do, but you might lose touch with the scared newbies who might really need that extra bit of support and encouragement.

For Students

Don't let fear get in the way of trying something out! Be your own best friend and try to give yourself supportive thoughts. It may take a while before you feel comfortable with your new endeavour but be easy about it! Keep learning and trying new things and you will constantly be expanding. When you find a supportive teacher/group/fellow member then make the most of them! Most people are willing to help you along your way (I certainly love to help and see people's lives change- hence this whole website!) and if you come across anyone who doesn't, then release and let them get on with their mean lives haha (joking!)

Anyhoo, I hope you are all enjoying your New Year's resolutions and whatever you have in place for the coming months and years.

Happy expanding!!! All my love, Nick Xxx
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Don't take it personal! It's not you... It's them! For the most part... Xxx

17/1/2015

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For pretty much all of my life, the jobs I’ve worked have been retail/customer facing/services work, so I’ve had my fair share of angry, irate customers who’ve experienced something go wrong. I also have been an angry, irate customer many times too lol

Whilst it can be disconcerting when dealing anyone who’s upset or furious, you have to stay as centred as you can and realise that it isn’t you that is faulty in some way. This can be especially difficult when dealing with a loved one, family member, partner or even a stranger. However, you must remember that anyone who is connected to who-they-really-are, who is in the flow and their good space would never be mean to someone else.

So, even if they’re pointing at you and talking to/about you. It isn’t really about you, they are just finding a way to vent and deal with emotions. And in an ideal world you would remain zen and unhurtable. I vividly remember working for an online gifts company (IWOOT) and I was taking calls in our last minutes of opening on Christmas eve eve and that year we had tremendous storms which meant that a large number of parcels just weren’t able to be delivered in time for Christmas. And having to break this to a parent whose only gifts were the ones from our shop to their family, was not a pleasant task! Some were effing and blinding at me down the phone. But as it was my last day at work and the fact remained that there was simply nothing we could do- I remain completely calm and unaffected. There was literally nothing I could do for them! And try as they might, getting angry over it wasn’t going to solve anything. But I could see why they were so upset.

So, if you’re the recipient of someone’s meanness, try to ‘love thy enemy’ and ‘turn the other cheek.’ (Check me out, with all my biblicalness!). And realise they are just coming from a place of hurt. However, as we know, Law Of Attraction states that everything that happens in our experience is a reflection of something going on within us. So if you do find that you’re in the same type of situation repeatedly (either as the ‘victim’ or the ‘attacker’) then do your best to try to feel better about whatever is going on, shifting your mental focus. And eventually, circumstances, people and things will realign themselves to only give you the best of who and what they are.

Happy feeling better! Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Stop scaring yo'self!!! Xxx

16/1/2015

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I had a wonderful time (despite only having 2 hours sleep!) at my Heal Your Life Meetup last night (www.meetup.com/is-fantastic)- co organised and led by the wonderful Maria James. Not only did we have a brilliant time connecting with other members and taking life to the next level, Maria gave a powerful delivery of Louise Hay's 'How to love yourself.' Although I am a qualified Heal Your Life teacher, it is always good to be reminded of these life-affirming principles.
 
And that is one potent aspect of the groups. It is all too easy to get caught up with the small (and big) things going on in our lives that we forget the simple things- that taking care of ourselves, mentally, physically and spiritually are so core to living a life well lived! All it takes is a good reminder to reconnect with who we really are.
 
Two of Louise's points which stood out for me are:
 
Stop scaring yourself
 
As fear and worry would be the two negative emotional set points that are most practised by myself, this simple statement is relief providing! Be your own wind keeper Rachel!!! (quote from Friends just FYI! lol). Be your own best friend and reach for supportive statements which keep you in that wonderful loving and safe space. Don't freak out everytime things look like they are going anywhere near pear shaped! Instead, relax and breathe and trust that all is well.
 
Be kind to yourself
 
Much like the previous statement, be kind and easy on yourself. We advised one lovely participant on how to approach the new exercise class she was doing. My advice was to expect to be crap at it for the first few lessons. I don't mean this in a negative sense, but go in with the mindset of 'I've never done this before, so I am not going to hold myself to unrealistic expectations. If I'm totally shite at this then that's going to be ok because what do you expect? I'm just here to learn, experience it and see how it goes and hopefully have some fun.' And it's this easy frame of mind which has helped me be 'brave' enough to learn and try anything (within reason) that looks like it might float my boat. And as I mentioned before, there are many things which I've been God awful at, but I know my life, learning, and experience is much richer and brilliant for it.
 
So tying that in with any New Year's resolution that you might have- step out into the world and give it a new activity try. If it looks like it would be fun or it's calling you on some level then have a go. Who knows how your life might change as a result and if not, then you'll have learnt a little something along the way.
 
Speaking of which, all being well, as part of my resolution to try new things, I'm hoping to do either Badminton (haven't played for probably a decade) or Hockey (never really played!) on Sunday. And I expect to be thoroughly crap at it but I will have so much fun! And if nothing else, then it will give me something to blog about Sunday evening, so tune back in!
 
Lots of love and happy 'trying-new-things-out-this-January' January!!! Nick Xxx
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This shizzle works!!! And shame on me... Kinda!

15/1/2015

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So, today I was accompanying a friend to meet her parents. And on the way there we were chatting away about the visit. She declared something along the lines of 'I see me receiving a wad of red notes and fanned out, in an envelope. £1000!' Whilst it wasn't unheard of for her parents to offer her that much money, it has certainly been sometime since such an amount was on offer. I said, slightly incredulously 'I wouldn't keep my hopes up!'

Undettered, she continued to describe a bit more about this supposed thick wad of red notes.

So we meet her parents and there was definitely no sign of this chunk of cash.

Some ten minutes later, her dad pulled her aside and said 'Here you go.' And lo and behold- a thick wad of £50 notes to the tune of £1,000! There was no sign of an envelope but I don't think that upset her much (if at all!) lol.

Lesson of the day- don't let doubting Thomas' like me stand in the way of your dream haha!

Instead, speak, feel and dream of what you want and who knows what could happen... It could be you!!! Lol Xxx

Happy abundancing dear ones. All my love, Nick Xxx

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Two phrases to live (and die) by!!!

14/1/2015

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Whilst there are tons and tons of wonderful affirmations and thoughts to live by. The two which currently stand out for me are those I have heard in my groups (see, I told ya, even after all these years I'm still learning and being reminded!).

"Nothing is more important than that I feel good"

Feeling good is the basis of living a life well lived! It is what you ideally would be reaching for as much as you can. When you're feeling good, you're in alignment, you're in the flow, you're powerful and knowing. This doesn't mean to say that if you're feeling bad or things are not going your way that something is wrong. It's just your guidance system saying 'Hey! Something is up!' So when things are going poopy, just gently remind yourself that feeling better/good is where you would be at and that this is your top priority!

"Nothing you want is upstream!"

This basically means that nothing you want is in resistance, that knot in your stomach, that bad feeling place. You want to be constantly reaching for thoughts which feel good and are soothing. Feel the difference between 'that d*ckhead of a boss is really p*ssing me off!' And 'We're all trying to do our best, what anyone else says or does really needn't affect me. I can choose to reach for good feeling thoughts and things and I choose to remove my attention from this situation' Feel the relief and power in that. Just a gentle reaching for a better thought will serve you on so many levels.

Happy focusing dear ones!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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Sook it and see! Try something new, you never know where it will lead you

13/1/2015

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One of the things my dad helped me develop was the ability to just try anything. And just see what happens. It really doesn't matter if you fail horribly (and trust me I have been God awful at so many things- skiing, djing, volleyball (though that might have been due to me not being able to see the ball properly as I'm shortsighted haha) the list goes on! But you'll learn something from everything, particular when it goes tits up- you'll learn more than if it went perfectly first time! ;)

You can only connect the dots in hindsight. I loved it in Steve Jobs' commencement speech (this can be found in my Resources YouTube Speeches page). He spoke about how it was costing his parents too much for him to attend Reed College. For those of you who don't know USA university can cost a fortune. We are pretty fortunate in the UK for our education and health service!

Anyhoo, he stumbled upon a course looking at fonts and typography.. Fascinated by it but obviously doing it purely out of interest. Many years later, he incorporated this into his Mac computers. And according to him, as Windows copied the Mac, it is conceivable that we would not have fonts on any of our electronic devices had it not been from Steve Jobs attending that one course.

So try something new- attend a new group, read a different book, do a sport, connect with someone you wouldn't normally associate with. At worst, it goes poo and you can just write it off as a learning experience. At best, it could change the world!

Happy adventuring! Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Thank you for an amazing group London!

13/1/2015

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Wow! A huge thanks to all the wonderful souls who braved the weather and came along! It is a lovely reminder of why I love doing the work I do.

Seeing inspired new faces and more advanced going to new levels is so incredibly powerful. I love it!

Some key things covered today:

- Nothing is more important than I feel good! Feeling good is the work!

- It takes time but it is well worth it, to spend the time working on the way you see the world. Someway, somehow things will shift.

- Pick some of your fave processes/techniques and do them for 30 consecutive days.

- Start small and somewhere. Then go from there.

Advice for the worksheets I gave out:

- Listing what you appreciated about 2014

This is so important to acknowledge how well you're doing and what you accomplished last year. Looking at the main areas of life: Career/Work/Relationships/Money. Take stock of how well you did and as you spend more time appreciating yourself, watch your life change. Be your own best friend!

- Make a list of things you are looking forward to/would like to achieve in 2015

Start this year afresh, full of excitement, goals, anticipation. What better way than to turn your attention to what you are wanting. Speak how you want life to be. Dream, visualise, vision board- all that matters is that you feel good!

- What you want and small steps to it

Starting small can be incredibly powerful to your life. One step towards your goals will set you up powerfully. Especially if you're a procrastinator (like I can be!) And as you do some, you'll want to do more. Just make a smal commitment to what you want to achieve and be easy about it. You don't have to do it, you want to do it!

See you next month!!! All my love and keep being inspired, Nick Xxx

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Let the games begin!!! Xxx

11/1/2015

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Tomorrow is my first group of 2015! Yay! I have had a relatively relaxing break and am refreshed and ready to go.

It is always a pleasure to connect with a group of leading edge beings. And I always feel like flying after a group.

There is little more exhilarating than being in a space of people who ‘get it’ or who are at least willing to ‘get it.’ To know that you are the creator of your own reality and are working to change things for the better- life doesn’t get much better than this!

There is so much leading edge thought and discussions in the group, but more importantly it’s just being in the company of self empowered people that can take you to new heights. It’s usually after a group that I have my most inspired and aligned occurrences. So I get just as much of these as anyone else.

So, I am very excited to reconnect with everyone and see faces both familiar and new! If you’re coming along to one of my groups then it will be lovely to connect and reconnect. If not, then I hope you are exploring whatever form of self empowerment that floats your boat!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Everything is connected...

10/1/2015

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I am LOVING the movie Cloud Atlas at the moment. It was directed by The Wachowskis (people who did The Matrix) and Tom Tykwer (pronounced Tick-Ver just in case you were wondering).

The official synopsis is "an exploration of how the actions of individual lives impact one another in the past, present and future, as one soul is shaped from a killer into a hero, and an act of kindness ripples across centuries to inspire a revolution."

It features 6 different stories over various time periods and each actor plays a different character in the time period representing that persons soul- sometimes male, sometimes female, sometimes good, sometimes bad.. E.g. Tom Hanks starts off as a criminal and eventually ends up as hero- showing the evolution of his soul over the ages.

I love the profound message of the film- that your soul incarnates with some of the same people (soul family) in many lifetimes. That love conquers all, how we are always expanding and that we are all connected.

Despite a stellar cast (Tom Hanks, Halle Berry, Hugo Weaving, Hugh Grant, Susan Sarandon and many more) the film kinda bombed at the box office. I highly recommend it and it needs a few watches (and subtitles) to even kinda fully comprehend the complexity of the film! I like the metaphysicalness meets Hollywood!

The soundtrack is also incredibly stunning! Tom Tykwer not only directed it but composed the music to it. He composes the music before shooting the film and the Wachowskis loved this way of doing things!

So enjoy the movie and allow your mind and soul get wrapped into it and get into Step 3 mode- that of allowing!

Enjoy! All my love, Nick Xxx

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Resistance- it ain't yo enemy!

9/1/2015

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So what is resistance? Basically it's that knot in your stomach. This is an emotional indicator letting you know that you're focusing upon a subject differently to that Source within you. For example, when you think of your boss or family member you don't like, or your empty bank account. It's that sinking feeling you experience or that tension in your belly.

So your work is to try and release this resistance so you can start to allow in all the goodness you have given birth to. Because, you have asked for your stuff (Step 1), the Universe immediately answers (Step 2) and you just have to get in your allowing good space (Step 3).

One deliberate way of releasing the resistance is to do a process. A process is some sort of technique that you do to deliberately work a subject into a better feeling place. So, if someone is bothering you, then do your best to give them the benefit of the doubt, make a list of things you really appreciate about them or pick one quality about them you really like and make that your dominant vibration (how you feel most of the time). Or remember the times you were abundant and enjoying good money.

When you check in with your belly and you can feel that knot of tension release (it can be quite a visceral feeling) then more often than not, a physical manifestation usually occurs. It certainly was the case for me when I started doing this work on myself. And it is like magic when things unfold perfectly because you've done the work on yourself and shifted vibration.

Happy working on self ;)

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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What's reality got to do... S'got to do with it?!

8/1/2015

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I was sharing a wonderful clip where Abraham is speaking to a lady about accepting her success within the entertainment field. Abraham proceeded to share the story of Rhonda Byrne's 'The Secret' (for those of you who don't know, Rhonda originally went on an Abraham cruise, interviewed Esther-ham and based The Secret upon their Law Of Attraction work, but due to legal/contractual obligations said to the Hicks' that either they had to be edited out of the film, or hand over all rights to their material. They consequently decided to be edited out of The Secret).

Anyhoo, Abraham recounted how The Secret was probably one of the most powerful demonstrations of the Law Of Attraction Esther has ever seen. Rhonda said to Esther 'I have the best videographers in the world' (although the footage they recorded was unusable) and how she also has the 'Best lighting in the world' (although the light fell down in the interview). However none of this detracted from Rhonda's vision of how she wanted The Secret to change the world and it did!

So the moral of story is to keep to the vision, your dream of your success and how you want your life to be. And eventually if you truly feel that, the Universe will line up: people, circumstances and events to be a match to your vibration. Or... Just take a nap and allow the ease to flow!

Enjoy and hold the dream!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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