I've heard many times, if you want a partner (or pretty much anything), then become that thing you want to attract. Or at least hold it in that space of appreciation.

Oprah is a huge believer in the power of the energy that she puts out into the world. So much so, that she learnt early on that she had to stay true to who she was. And it held her in good stead for her success and the fact that she could enjoy it with a clear conscience.

In her early days, she brought the KKK on to her show. She thought she was helping draw light to that issue she wanted clearing (racism) but it was only during the break, she saw their expressions and realised they were using her show as a platform to spew their beliefs. She then decided to focus only on what she wanted to bring energy to after that point. (This can be found on Oprah's Masterclass interview where she speaks about her incredible life and career- a lot of contrast followed by a lot of good!)

What with all the social media and ways to connect, I see media personalities post stuff and their fans (or haters) respond in kind. It's interesting to see these clusters of similar comments people make (both positive and negative).

So the message of the day is to send out the energy you wish to attract. Obviously! And become that which you wish to see in the world!

Happy being all you can be!

I've got my London day workshop tomorrow! So exciting!!! To spend a day with leading edge co creators! Life doesn't get much better than this!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Wowwww! Thank you Birmingham for another freaking amazing evening! So nice to be back at my first Birmingham group of the year!

We had a most perfect night with the most brilliant, beautiful, fabulous, kind and smart souls!!!

So much covered I couldn't even begin to detail it all. So here are just some points which come to mind:

- You are creating life. Life isn't something happening to you! A wonderful reminder that you are the creator of your reality. Life isn't a string of things happening to you. Instead, you are the masterful creator of your experience.

- Every thought you think is an affirmation. Every word you speak and every thought you think is an affirmation. Be conscious of what you're thinking and feeling and where your patterns lie. When you are aware then you can make any changes you see fit.

- Find your happiness NOW. Even when you achieve your goals, there will always be room for more, so do your best to be mindful of your now and the beauty which surrounds you. There will always be constant growth. You are an eternal being.

So much wisdom shared, this isn't even the tip of the iceberg! Love you guys and thank you for braving the snow to make it! As always a pleasure!

See you in Feb! All my love, Nick Xxx

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- Make a list of goals you want this year and your first step towards it. It can be oftentimes that the goals we set are just way to big for us to conceive a way about it. And so that intimidates us. Just make the first step. E.g if you are writing a book, start with a sentence, that becomes a paragraph, which becomes a chapter, which eventually becomes a book.

By taking the first, inspired, next logical step towards what we want, things turn out much easier. Just do your best to feel good first.

- Appreciation for 2014/What you want for 2015 in the following areas: Money/Career/Relationships/Health

You can list what you appreciated last year. Thus activating that good feeling and drawing more of it towards you.

And/or you make a list of things you're looking forward to this year. Either things you are definitely going to do and are excited about. Or things you would like to happen.

I also got you to write 2-3 things on a post it note. Goals you want or intentions. And to ideally post it somewhere which would act as a regular reminder (e.g your bathroom mirror, fridge etc). So they can gently remind yourself of where you wish to focus. (And not to beat yourself up if you haven't done it!). Chill out, everything is unfolding perfectly!

Happy intending!!!

Love you all Xxx

One misconception when people step into this work is that you can magically sit there at home and visualise, and all your stuff will come to you. Now whilst this can be the case if your belief is strong enough, you came to this life to experience physicality! To be out there, mixing it up!

It's like that story where a chap prays to the godly statue/the clouds (depending on which of the many variations you've heard). He sits there, pleading 'Please let me win the lottery!!! Please, please, please!!!' He does this every day for ages...

Then suddenly the statue comes to life/God's voice booms from the cloud saying... 'WELL BUY A FOOKING TICKET FIRST!!!' Lol!

It's not that you don't take action, it's that you want to take the right action! And the 'right' action will make itself known to you. You just have to shift your emotions and thoughts towards good feeling things.

Be in the race for it!

Case in point, if you've been in contact with me (blog/group/general conversation), I have been raving about Cloud Atlas (amazing movie by the Wachowskis- who also did the Matrix). They have a new movie out called Jupiter Ascending, I have been watching the trailer for this many times! Anyhoo, I saw a competition in Topman for some preview tickets. So I entered! And boom I just got confirmation that I won! So on Monday I will be at a private preview of the movie, and there's a Q&A with Douglas Booth (whoever he is?!) who is a star of the movie! Excitingness!

Now, doing this Law Of Attraction as long as I have, I still think, 'Hmmm, did I really attract it with my appreciation?' Well, I guess I did!

So, the point of this tale is not to go round entering competitions or playing the lottery, but to get in as good feeling state as possible then allow the things to inspire you to the easiest, fun, allowing action!

Happy inspiring yourself!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

PS I'm back on the road today, Birmingham here I come!!! Woo!!! Xxx

I think, one of the most important things I've learnt from studying this material is that the way you feel is the be all and end all!

Not only is this because your emotions are your Sat Nav through life but also because to feel is to live, to be human, to be physically focused in this time-space reality.

One of the key principles I teach is for you to be aware of how you are feeling as much as possible To combine this with thinking more positively, is the best thing you could do for yourself.

Even if all of this was a pile of twaddle and your thoughts and feelings had no impact on how things manifested for you. Feeling less than good would just not do for me anymore.

If I'm faced with a situation, perhaps a goal that I want to achieve which feels too big or a dispute with someone etc I really try to get feeling better. Simply because it feels horrible to carry that dread, fear, worry and stress around in my mind and gut!

I really believe that working things into a better feeling place is the best first step towards anything. If just because you want an easier, struggle free life. From there you'll be blessed with the inspired action which will yield to you results unlike ever before!

Happy feeling better! Lots of love, Nick Xxx

One of the things I love most about this school of thought and what attracted me to it in the first place is that of unconditional love. Accepting you regardless of who you are or what you've done. It matters not. Because Source sees you as perfect and beautiful and amazing at all times!

No one who is truly aligned with themselves, who is feeling good, would ever be in alignment with hurting anyone else. Anytime there is a lashing out, it can usually be attributed to a loss of freedom somewhere. Either someone told them to do or be something that they are not and through that negative emotion, they act is less than constructive ways.

And that's the thing, everyone thinks they are right! And from their perspective they usually are. But your job isn't to go round changing anyone so that they agree with you. Instead, your job is to get into alignment with your dream and allow the Universe to bring to you people, circumstances and things which are a perfect match to that.

You are always loved, supported, powerful, brilliant. In your 'darkest' times you are asking more strongly and more powerfully than ever before. And like the beautiful 'Footprints' allegory, when you had your deepest trials and tribulations, you were not alone with one set of footprints in the sand, you were being carried by the mighty all that is.

We don't care if you're male, female, black, white, Asian, gay, straight, trans, criminal or victim. There is complete, unconditional love here for you. Because we know the magnificence that is you.

All is so very well.

Happy unconditional lovingness!!! Nick Xxx

So, today on the way to see my parents I caught sight of this wonderful writing on the tube (London's Metro service) noticeboard. I love how we can find reminders of goodness anywhere- we just have to take a second to notice it!

I particularly love the quotes at Clapham's station and try to read these whenever I walk past. It is a wonderful reminder how we don't need to be in a little bubble of beingness. You can spot inspirational material wherever you go!

And what a wonderful quote it is. It speaks to our daily focus. One thing can make or break your day if you let it. As Abe say- there could be 9 things going wrong but 1 thing going right. Give your full attention to that one thing and your life will be brought into alignment. Likewise there could be 9 exceptional things going on and 1 fault. Focus on that single fault and it will drag down your vibration.

Kick start the day with some inspirational stuff- a piece of music, a quote, a YouTube video, a blog, anything! And continue the day as you mean to go on. Keep reaching for those good feeling things and see how life changes for the better!

Happy positive thinking dear ones! All my love, Nick Xxx

Naughty mind you have! Lol!

So today as part of my New Year's Res, I played badminton- I haven't played this for years, if not decades!

First of all, I woke up in the middle of the night, thinking 'Eugh, do I really want to get up early morning?! I could do with a lie in!' It gave me new sympathy and it really showed me how it's easy to procrastinate one's resolutions and fall off the wagon!!!

So I played some matches and I was ok, far from being anywhere near an advanced player though. And in between games, I stopped to watch the good players. It occurred to me that you almost have to be psychic to be at the top levels. The shuttlecocks are going sooo fast that trying to react and hit it back whilst the shuttle is en route is probably too late.

Whilst I don't know for sure, I conjecture that the really advanced player can predict where it's going to be flying based on the movements of the opposing player before they actually hit the shuttle.

I likened this to manifestation. As someone who's objective (to everyone's life but my own), I can tune into a person and the types of things going on in their life (if not exactly, then roughly) and how things are going for them. By the words and general beingness, I can easily see what would help them clear up their vibration and attract more of what they want.

I guess that's what a coach does (sports or otherwise) they see where a player is and directs them to what would help. And those more advanced can start to tune in where they are, see where others are headed and BOOM knock them 'cocks where they want!

I've really seen how with these sports, it takes dedication, regular practise and months if not years of regular practise to start to play with the subtle nuances of fine tuning. So whether you're old or new to consciousness, just keep enjoying the ride, you'll look back, see how far you've come and help a newbie who really needs some support and encouragement, as I definitely do when trying out these sports!

Happy playing the game of life!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

I am having a most wonderful birthday!!! A wonderful Louise Hay workshop with my Heal Your Life Experience team! I love this leading edge beingness!

We covered the power of thoughts. We learnt that we have approximately 90,000 thoughts a day. I've heard this theory before but it hit home the huge number of thoughts that run through our minds.

And most of them can be fussing and worrying (or at least for me it is!). So when you think about it- if say, half of your thoughts on a day are negative. So this is about 45,000 negative thoughts a day, multiplied by 365. That is almost 16.5 MILLION negative thoughts a year! Wow!!! That is quite staggering!

For me, it puts in perspective how being conscious, aware and actively seeking to feel good can help you not only think and feel better but will shift your manifestations.

Sometimes it can be the case that someone is trying to do the affirmations and shift stuff but nothing seems to happen. This could be as simple as just time delay and waiting things to unfold. The other component can be that the 'air time' (what you're thinking and feeling most of the time) is in contradiction to what you want.

Just some food for your 90,000 thoughts!

Do your best to make your dominant vibration in a better feeling direction of what you want and trust good things will occur!

All is so very well!!!

Happy thinking! Lots of love, Nick Xxx

I have always loved to share things with other people. When I get on a wagon I really do love to experience, learn and make the best of my passions. Lord knows I’ve dragged my sister and friends to enough ridiculousness in my time lol I know for certain that when I found out this life changing material I couldn’t help but share with any Tom, Dick or Harriett who’d listen!

Nowadays, I proselytize a lot less. In fact, unless I’m asked directly about it then I usually just keep it vague and say ‘I do positive thinking etc’. I do my sharing in the groups I teach and I am more than happy to help anyone who asks for it- which is why I created this website. So those who are seeking and willing to work can do so from the comfort and privacy of their rooms. I think for me now, I just sit in a place of quiet but definite confidence (NB: I am certainly not telling you to not share this with your loved ones or carry on about how you usually would, especially if that’s what you really enjoy). But I think for me there is a difference between sharing and converting (or trying to convert).

I remember this wonderful clip when Abraham is speaking to a mother who is trying to get her son to live a ‘better’ life, so she buys and shares the Abe material with him. Abraham advised her to feel difference between ‘You need this to change your life!’ and ‘OMG, I just love this and had to share this with you!’ The vibrational difference is immense. Nothing will rile someone up more than you blaring at them ‘Your life is not working. You need this or else!’ (Or at least it would irritate the hell outta me!)

Anyhoo, my point is when you know it for yourself, you can share it in a myriad of ways with whoever. For example, a fun game I like to play with my friends who don’t know anything about this (and who wouldn’t really be interested) is ‘What would you really do if…? You won the lottery/had your ideal partner etc’ These are fun games that get the vibration of what they want activated and are pretty innocuous to the unsuspecting eye! You begin to be able to tune into where each person is at and how they would best respond to your upliftment.

In other words, just be the happy, confident you and when things go your way (or not!) and others ask what is the magic to your beingness, you can begin to let them in on the ‘secret.’ (The secret being that feeling better is the key, not the book ‘The Secret’ although that is a great place to start too!

Happy being you!!! All my love, Nick Xxx

Oh yeah, it’s my 32nd birthday tomorrow so I hope to see you then! I have a wonderful Louise Hay workshop with my amazing Heal Your Life friends and then we partay in the evening!

I had a fun day yesterday, as I mentioned previously   I had a great time with the hockey people and we went for drinks after. Although I didn’t sit down with everyone and ask them individually their spiritual beliefs and practises, I got the impression that there weren’t many/any spiritual people there (although I could be totally wrong but anyway). Anyhoo, afterwards I met a lovely Aber friend for dinner and it was so nice to have leading edge conversation! As we were chatting, we re-affirmed it’s good to know what we know. It really hit me that I could just not live any other way. To know I am the creator of my own reality, that I have control over how my life unfolds (if not in the exact playout of all experiences, then at least by the way I think and feel about any situation- which really is the pinnacle of beingness), is the ultimate for me.

To feel that you are at the whim of anything and everything out would now terrify me no end! As Abraham says- we should offer you some sort of disclaimer, when you find out about this, there is no going back!

Now do not misunderstand, I am definitely not saying that if you don’t subscribe to this way of being that there’s something deficient, because there any infinite people living fooking amazing lives without any knowledge of consciousness. But for me, I cannot find anything more satisfying, powerful, empowering or brilliant than to know with the power of my focus, I can align with who I really am; change how I think and feel and ultimately shift what’s happening in my life- it just does not get better than this.

Or at least for now that is. In five, ten or twenty years, I might be doing something completely different (although I doubt it, but ya never know!). But whilst I am enjoying this way of being, I am going to do my best to make where I am and all the good I am experiencing, my primary goal.

NB: Just because we know about this material, does not make us infallible. In fact, most spiritual individuals and teachers have gone through contrast which has pushed them to seek out more. So our lives are definitely not more perfect but it’s just that we are aware of the choices we can offer in our reactions to circumstances. Even if we forget especially if things go poo. But hey we’re all human and all the better for it!

Happy experiencing the contrast! All my love, Nick Xxx

For pretty much all of my life, the jobs I’ve worked have been retail/customer facing/services work, so I’ve had my fair share of angry, irate customers who’ve experienced something go wrong. I also have been an angry, irate customer many times too lol

Whilst it can be disconcerting when dealing anyone who’s upset or furious, you have to stay as centred as you can and realise that it isn’t you that is faulty in some way. This can be especially difficult when dealing with a loved one, family member, partner or even a stranger. However, you must remember that anyone who is connected to who-they-really-are, who is in the flow and their good space would never be mean to someone else.

So, even if they’re pointing at you and talking to/about you. It isn’t really about you, they are just finding a way to vent and deal with emotions. And in an ideal world you would remain zen and unhurtable. I vividly remember working for an online gifts company (IWOOT) and I was taking calls in our last minutes of opening on Christmas eve eve and that year we had tremendous storms which meant that a large number of parcels just weren’t able to be delivered in time for Christmas. And having to break this to a parent whose only gifts were the ones from our shop to their family, was not a pleasant task! Some were effing and blinding at me down the phone. But as it was my last day at work and the fact remained that there was simply nothing we could do- I remain completely calm and unaffected. There was literally nothing I could do for them! And try as they might, getting angry over it wasn’t going to solve anything. But I could see why they were so upset.

So, if you’re the recipient of someone’s meanness, try to ‘love thy enemy’ and ‘turn the other cheek.’ (Check me out, with all my biblicalness!). And realise they are just coming from a place of hurt. However, as we know, Law Of Attraction states that everything that happens in our experience is a reflection of something going on within us. So if you do find that you’re in the same type of situation repeatedly (either as the ‘victim’ or the ‘attacker’) then do your best to try to feel better about whatever is going on, shifting your mental focus. And eventually, circumstances, people and things will realign themselves to only give you the best of who and what they are.

Happy feeling better! Lots of love, Nick Xxx

So, today I was accompanying a friend to meet her parents. And on the way there we were chatting away about the visit. She declared something along the lines of 'I see me receiving a wad of red notes and fanned out, in an envelope. £1000!' Whilst it wasn't unheard of for her parents to offer her that much money, it has certainly been sometime since such an amount was on offer. I said, slightly incredulously 'I wouldn't keep my hopes up!'

Undettered, she continued to describe a bit more about this supposed thick wad of red notes.

So we meet her parents and there was definitely no sign of this chunk of cash.

Some ten minutes later, her dad pulled her aside and said 'Here you go.' And lo and behold- a thick wad of £50 notes to the tune of £1,000! There was no sign of an envelope but I don't think that upset her much (if at all!) lol.

Lesson of the day- don't let doubting Thomas' like me stand in the way of your dream haha!

Instead, speak, feel and dream of what you want and who knows what could happen... It could be you!!! Lol Xxx

Happy abundancing dear ones. All my love, Nick Xxx

One of the things my dad helped me develop was the ability to just try anything. And just see what happens. It really doesn't matter if you fail horribly (and trust me I have been God awful at so many things- skiing, djing, volleyball (though that might have been due to me not being able to see the ball properly as I'm shortsighted haha) the list goes on! But you'll learn something from everything, particular when it goes tits up- you'll learn more than if it went perfectly first time! ;)

You can only connect the dots in hindsight. I loved it in Steve Jobs' commencement speech (this can be found in my Resources YouTube Speeches page). He spoke about how it was costing his parents too much for him to attend Reed College. For those of you who don't know USA university can cost a fortune. We are pretty fortunate in the UK for our education and health service!

Anyhoo, he stumbled upon a course looking at fonts and typography.. Fascinated by it but obviously doing it purely out of interest. Many years later, he incorporated this into his Mac computers. And according to him, as Windows copied the Mac, it is conceivable that we would not have fonts on any of our electronic devices had it not been from Steve Jobs attending that one course.

So try something new- attend a new group, read a different book, do a sport, connect with someone you wouldn't normally associate with. At worst, it goes poo and you can just write it off as a learning experience. At best, it could change the world!

Happy adventuring! Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Wow! A huge thanks to all the wonderful souls who braved the weather and came along! It is a lovely reminder of why I love doing the work I do.

Seeing inspired new faces and more advanced going to new levels is so incredibly powerful. I love it!

Some key things covered today:

- Nothing is more important than I feel good! Feeling good is the work!

- It takes time but it is well worth it, to spend the time working on the way you see the world. Someway, somehow things will shift.

- Pick some of your fave processes/techniques and do them for 30 consecutive days.

- Start small and somewhere. Then go from there.

Advice for the worksheets I gave out:

- Listing what you appreciated about 2014

This is so important to acknowledge how well you're doing and what you accomplished last year. Looking at the main areas of life: Career/Work/Relationships/Money. Take stock of how well you did and as you spend more time appreciating yourself, watch your life change. Be your own best friend!

- Make a list of things you are looking forward to/would like to achieve in 2015

Start this year afresh, full of excitement, goals, anticipation. What better way than to turn your attention to what you are wanting. Speak how you want life to be. Dream, visualise, vision board- all that matters is that you feel good!

- What you want and small steps to it

Starting small can be incredibly powerful to your life. One step towards your goals will set you up powerfully. Especially if you're a procrastinator (like I can be!) And as you do some, you'll want to do more. Just make a smal commitment to what you want to achieve and be easy about it. You don't have to do it, you want to do it!

See you next month!!! All my love and keep being inspired, Nick Xxx

Tomorrow is my first group of 2015! Yay! I have had a relatively relaxing break and am refreshed and ready to go.

It is always a pleasure to connect with a group of leading edge beings. And I always feel like flying after a group.

There is little more exhilarating than being in a space of people who ‘get it’ or who are at least willing to ‘get it.’ To know that you are the creator of your own reality and are working to change things for the better- life doesn’t get much better than this!

There is so much leading edge thought and discussions in the group, but more importantly it’s just being in the company of self empowered people that can take you to new heights. It’s usually after a group that I have my most inspired and aligned occurrences. So I get just as much of these as anyone else.

So, I am very excited to reconnect with everyone and see faces both familiar and new! If you’re coming along to one of my groups then it will be lovely to connect and reconnect. If not, then I hope you are exploring whatever form of self empowerment that floats your boat!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

I am LOVING the movie Cloud Atlas at the moment. It was directed by The Wachowskis (people who did The Matrix) and Tom Tykwer (pronounced Tick-Ver just in case you were wondering).

The official synopsis is "an exploration of how the actions of individual lives impact one another in the past, present and future, as one soul is shaped from a killer into a hero, and an act of kindness ripples across centuries to inspire a revolution."

It features 6 different stories over various time periods and each actor plays a different character in the time period representing that persons soul- sometimes male, sometimes female, sometimes good, sometimes bad.. E.g. Tom Hanks starts off as a criminal and eventually ends up as hero- showing the evolution of his soul over the ages.

I love the profound message of the film- that your soul incarnates with some of the same people (soul family) in many lifetimes. That love conquers all, how we are always expanding and that we are all connected.

Despite a stellar cast (Tom Hanks, Halle Berry, Hugo Weaving, Hugh Grant, Susan Sarandon and many more) the film kinda bombed at the box office. I highly recommend it and it needs a few watches (and subtitles) to even kinda fully comprehend the complexity of the film! I like the metaphysicalness meets Hollywood!

The soundtrack is also incredibly stunning! Tom Tykwer not only directed it but composed the music to it. He composes the music before shooting the film and the Wachowskis loved this way of doing things!

So enjoy the movie and allow your mind and soul get wrapped into it and get into Step 3 mode- that of allowing!

Enjoy! All my love, Nick Xxx

So what is resistance? Basically it's that knot in your stomach. This is an emotional indicator letting you know that you're focusing upon a subject differently to that Source within you. For example, when you think of your boss or family member you don't like, or your empty bank account. It's that sinking feeling you experience or that tension in your belly.

So your work is to try and release this resistance so you can start to allow in all the goodness you have given birth to. Because, you have asked for your stuff (Step 1), the Universe immediately answers (Step 2) and you just have to get in your allowing good space (Step 3).

One deliberate way of releasing the resistance is to do a process. A process is some sort of technique that you do to deliberately work a subject into a better feeling place. So, if someone is bothering you, then do your best to give them the benefit of the doubt, make a list of things you really appreciate about them or pick one quality about them you really like and make that your dominant vibration (how you feel most of the time). Or remember the times you were abundant and enjoying good money.

When you check in with your belly and you can feel that knot of tension release (it can be quite a visceral feeling) then more often than not, a physical manifestation usually occurs. It certainly was the case for me when I started doing this work on myself. And it is like magic when things unfold perfectly because you've done the work on yourself and shifted vibration.

Happy working on self ;)

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

I was sharing a wonderful clip where Abraham is speaking to a lady about accepting her success within the entertainment field. Abraham proceeded to share the story of Rhonda Byrne's 'The Secret' (for those of you who don't know, Rhonda originally went on an Abraham cruise, interviewed Esther-ham and based The Secret upon their Law Of Attraction work, but due to legal/contractual obligations said to the Hicks' that either they had to be edited out of the film, or hand over all rights to their material. They consequently decided to be edited out of The Secret).

Anyhoo, Abraham recounted how The Secret was probably one of the most powerful demonstrations of the Law Of Attraction Esther has ever seen. Rhonda said to Esther 'I have the best videographers in the world' (although the footage they recorded was unusable) and how she also has the 'Best lighting in the world' (although the light fell down in the interview). However none of this detracted from Rhonda's vision of how she wanted The Secret to change the world and it did!

So the moral of story is to keep to the vision, your dream of your success and how you want your life to be. And eventually if you truly feel that, the Universe will line up: people, circumstances and events to be a match to your vibration. Or... Just take a nap and allow the ease to flow!

Enjoy and hold the dream!!! Lots of love, Nick Xxx