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Life is always reflecting back to you, your vibrational stance!!! Take it easy on your overdraft!!! Xxx

31/5/2016

As I've learned (and really 'should' pay attention to!), is to not to do much or push things when I'm tired. It was at the end of a really long week, when I needed (or rather wanted!) to pay some cash I had and a £4.50 cheque (thank you very much Virgin trains-loving you as always!).

I was fussing a bit about the cheque as I don't like to wait so many days for it to clear and have it hanging over my head etc... So I asked my sister if I could pay it into hers and just transfer the equivalent over. Doh! I then remembered the cheque was in my name.

Anyhoo, I got to the bank sorted it all out and everything.

The next week I got a letter from Natwest saying I had gone into overdraft and it'd be a £6 charge a day etc. Mini freak out! I called them and they said it was an auto generated letter and there was nothing wrong. It was simply I paid it in on Friday at 5.31pm, just a minute after the systems close up, and as I transferred the money out before it had time to process, it tripped off an overdraft letter.

So, in the end, all was well!

What struck me was that the Universe was just reflecting back to me my concern and worry about getting it all done in time and not having to wait etc...

Conversely, when you're in a good space, things will fit in perfectly to work in good ways for you!

All those things slipping into place to show me my vibration (literally just 1 minute over!).

So the lessons here are: to take it easy and be patient, know that things are always working out in any case at the end of the day and to chill!

All is well!!!

Happy bank-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

How's the New Years resolutions going??? Oops!!! Don't ask!!! Xxx

30/5/2016

I was reflecting on one my friend's resolutions for the year and I didn't need to ask but could tell that it had pretty much gone out the window already!

I can't say I've been that sharp on mine, although one of mine was to enjoy more nephew time and the Universe has definitely aligned me with that!

I think it's important to have regular reminders of things you'd like to achieve. Whether that be huge life goals or simple emotional ones.

Life, children, work, stress, it all can get in the way and detract from your wellbeing. And it's usually when something knocks you off, that you rejig and try to align.

Instead, try to keep things easier. It's nice to have a daily routine or little practises that you can turn to, to raise your spirits and align with self.

Maybe stick a few post-its on the wall with go goals and dreams, make a vision board. Do what you can to keep your mind on track.

All is well!!!

Happy resolution-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Be a Dumbo- that wonderful flying elephant!!! Xxx

29/5/2016

For some reason, the Disney cartoon Dumbo popped into my head. I vaguely remember it from childhood, so I had to look up the full storyline. And wow, what a most beautiful tale it is!

A baby elephant born with huge ears, which others use as a reason to separate away from him. He becomes a pariah and befriends a little mouse. The mouse using a 'magical' feather and teaches Dumbo to fly!

It is only when he loses the feather, that he realises it wasn't the feather that helped him soar, it was his state of mind!

So many wonderful points from this children's tale. First- whatever you may perceive to be a disadvantage, reframe it and make it your strength! His big ears made him look ridiculous to others but they were his greatest asset in going beyond.

Second- you have the power within you all the time! Use whatever tools and techniques to line you beliefs up with your expectations, but know thy ultimately the power lies within self!

Thirdly, have a cheering squad! People who you trust and can share with. People who will offer a kind reassuring word when you need it. Alternatively, if this isn't possible, get some good teddies! Missy Elliott and countless other musicians and actors performed to a group of cuddly toys when growing up, now the whole world wants to listen!

All is well!!!

Happy Dumbo-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

We live in the age of a sharing economy... It shows what true inspiration is!!! Xxx

28/5/2016

What an incredible age we live! Tap a few buttons and you can have a quick Uber taxi (see below for mutual free credit code!). Want to live like a local- try AirBnB and stay in someone's residence.

It really is incredible and defo makes for a more affordable, convenient and fun travel experience! Uber was a life saver in Auckland and Sydney. Really handy when I'm in the USA too!

Particularly with AirBnB, the level of customer care goes above and beyond a usual hotel. Because it's that individual's home, it's their reputation online, which means they want to work harder to get a great rating!

I think that this is a fantastic example of working from a place of inspiration (wanting to do well for self), not motivation (being prodded by the hotel manager to give a good service!).

We want you to live life through inspiration, being called forward from that inner calling. Then things flow much easier and life is much more enjoyable!

All is well!!!

Happy share-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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There is always expansion, there is always asking and there is always newness!!! Xxx

27/5/2016

It's amazing, that even in today's world, with all the billions of people which are living and have been before that there is still scope for new inventions, teachers and ideas.

Such is the evolution of beingness! Everyone is asking from a new perspective. As one need is being fulfilled, it creates a new demand and inspires others to replicate and improve upon.

That is what Abe means when they say 'You'll never get it done and you cannot get it wrong!' There will always be the development and growing of things. There will always be asking and answering. It really is quite incredible.

Same with your individual lives. Don't ever expect to be in a place where you will have all you need forever more. You'll always want new experiences, treats, adventures, lovers (ooh er!) and all that good stuff that life has to offer.

So make peace with the eternal being that is you. It's all for the experience! Just trust and make the most of where you are!

All is well!!!

Happy expansion-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

Look at the news!!! It's the worst time to be alive!!! Xxx

27/5/2016

I was passing the office TV with my workmate and the news was playing and it was some sort of terror news or whatever, when he commented with words to the effect of 'It's a bad time to be around!' I replied 'But it's always been that way with the news!'

And it has! Since ever, the news has always harped on about this, that and t'other- terror alert, market crash and whatever disasters are happening! It's what the news do.

It can feel a little scarier especially as the energy ramps up so much, but such is life. You cannot live in fear of whatever is round the corner- because there's so much that is beyond your control. You'll drive yourself nuts trying to protect yourself from anything and everything.

'Failure' and such which is part and parcel of it all. As JK Rowling said- that it was inevitable, unless one had lived such a sheltered life, that it really wasn't living at all!

You can tune your vibration into that of wellbeing, so whatever comes your way is a perfect match to that. And the more contrast you have, the bigger your Vortex of good stuff. So it's all alright really.

Things are always working out for you. Only good lies ahead. Trust and flow and let go!

All is well!!!

Happy news-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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OMG!!! Thank ya Manchester!!! What a leading edge, abundant, powerful, loving evening!!! As always!!! Love y'all tons and tons!!! Xxx

25/5/2016

Another freaking amazing evening in beautifully sunny Manchester! Just loved the group so much! Overflowing with wisdom, grace, leading edge brilliance, fabulousness and so much more! I just love the support and power everyone has for each other! Y'all rock!!!

Some nuggets from tonight...

- Let it go. This is always a goodie- somehow, someway, just let it go! Be in the vibration of the question and problem but at some point, shift to the vibration of the solution and allow the Universe to bring it to you! Distraction- music, dancing, meditation and all that good stuff will serve you so well. Have as many tools as possible to work it!

- Love the problem! This is something we probably don't do, like ever! But if you can do this, it should help you make peace with it. And as you feel relief, this helps raise your vibration and eventually move you in the direction of what you want!

- Focus on the one good thing about someone who is peeing you off! When someone is driving you up the wall, when you have calmed down, just relax and do your best to activate just one pure thing you appreciate about them. Practise it, relive it, activate it and make this you dominant vibration. Eventually once you've shifted, the Universe will match this and give you only that!

All is well!!!

Happy Manc-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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The satisfying expansion and contraction of all that is!!! It's relative!!! Xxx

25/5/2016

The other week was really proper manic! Tons and tons to be done on not nearly as much sleep as I generally would like. It was something I was not looking forward to, and was kinda tiring!

However, once I had completed it, it was incredibly satisfying! And a single 12 hour shift at work, looked like a piece of pee! Lol.

And that is the way of expansion and contracting of life. You want to go beyond a little bit beyond, and then relax back, expand a fair amount and then settle back in.

It is usually much more comfortable journey than trying to push, push, push yourself way out of your comfort zone, trying to make quantum leaps and then burning out or being unprepared!

Expansion is part of your reason for being here. Trying new things, going beyond what you thought was possible. But you want a smooth and gradual way there. Pushing too much, too quickly can be really uncomfortable (albeit satisfying!). Take it easy, be kind to yourself.

All is well!!!

Happy expansion-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Ooh!!! Try not to focus on the negative one, amongst the hundreds of good ones!!! Xxx

23/5/2016

Depending on your natural propensity, (or maybe it's just an 'inherent' thing), it can be really easy to focus on the one little negative thing and overlook all the positive!

When I've heard the actors on The Hollywood Reporter comment on reviews, a number have said how they do tend to focus on that one review or one person that didn't like their performance.

I find that can be definitely the case with me! I was at work one day and literally came into contact with hundreds of wonderful, happy customers. But it's the one slightly difficult customer which sticks out!

How silly!!! It can be the same with life, we have so much goodness and wellness flowing into our beingnesses on a daily basis, that we overlook so much. Try it now! Look and feel around you at all the wonderful things that are close by. The sun (or rain!), your heart beating, lungs breathing, Earth floating around in space perfectly! The water, clothes, food you have and so on...

There is always something good to focus on, just switch your view.

All is well!!!

Happy customer-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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You're pre paving your physical and vibrational goodness for a few days (or more!) down the line... Xxx

22/5/2016

Time, time, time and patience! That's the key to all of this. You're constantly working in the now for the goodness that is to come down the line.

I've noticed, especially lately, if my back is playing up and I do some stretching, it takes a good chunk of time before I can really feel the benefits. Same with if I'm eating healthily (or junky!). It takes a good few days to kick in and see the benefits (or detriments!).

And it's pretty much the same with vibration. Yes, instant, or close to instant manifestation happens, especially depending on resistance release etc. But broadly speaking, these things take a while to kick in. Such is the process of life!

Same with a seed, you sow them and follow the process of sun, feeding, watering and as the months go by you'll be blessed with a beautiful plant!

Trust that in the feeling good and working to be more positive, that it all adds up and will tip the scales in your favour.

All is well!!!

Happy seed-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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The unlimited possibility of Masterchef dishes!!! How delicious!!! Xxx

21/5/2016

I was enjoying the latest series of Masterchef and am still quite surprised to see John and Gregg say 'I've never tasted that combination before!'

Considering the number of meals, competitions and series of Masterchefs that they've experienced, it's kinda surprising!

But as with life, there is constant newness, development and expansion! The food cupboard of your life is filled with infinite ingredients to create whatever recipe you wish to make!

There will always be new and more things to design. Your capacity for creation is unlimited and only you can bring your uniqueness to the table. Because no one has lived the exact life with the same experiences with the same viewpoint as you.

So let go of trying to copy or be whatever you think anyone else needs from you. Instead, focus on your cooking of life, from your individual standpoint!

All is well!!!

Happy chef-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Don't be so quick to judge!!! It really could be all for your ultimate good!!! Xxx

20/5/2016

One of the things which I've been reminded from my wonderful group members is to not judge a situation. Let it be what it is and trust in the well being!

This was highlighted to me the other day. I was teamed up at work with some people who I didn't know and I thought 'Uh oh, it's going to be a dry day!' And not fun at all (and it was going to be a uber long day!).

However, I was proved completely wrong, thankfully! It was a really great team and not only was it fun, it was really easy! They did most of the talking, so I just had to do bits and pieces without having to repeat myself over and over again. It really was perfect! Thank the Universe!

Now that was a quick response to my doubts. In life, it can be the fact that we don't know the goodness of a situation until much further down the line.

Ultimately, you want to repeat to yourself 'Things are always out for me!' To believe that whatever is going on really is for your highest good. To trust that 'only good lies ahead', really would serve you so well!

All is well!!!

Happy trust-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Forgiveness and empathy... Not easy, we know but there is a reason for them!!! Xxx

19/5/2016

When someone has 'done you wrong', it can be nigh impossible to forgive them or let them go, but you must, for your own sake!

Taking a more objective view of life and people (when you've had some distance) and know that even the dastardly ones among you are unconditionally loved by Source (oh yes they are!).

And when you look back on their childhood or how they were treated, you'll probably realise that is why they turned out as funky as they did!

I was speaking to a fellow psychologist and she said that serial killers and such which, never developed empathy because of their childhood, hence their inability to relate and kill mercilessly.

Hopefully you won't encounter anyone that extreme but the principle is the same.

At the end of the day you want to be selfish. Selfish to feel good and screw the rest! Letting go of anything or anyone who has hurt you will serve you all the better. The best revenge is a life well lived!

Pay attention to how you feel, making feeling good your top priority. And at the end of the day, this life experience is a flash in the pan to who you really are.

All is well!!

Happy forgive-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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It's all about the YouTube relationships apparently!!! How surprising... Xxx

18/5/2016

So after my YouTube channel (www.youtube.com/abenicks) hit a really cool milestone and I was compiling my Meetup emails to my groups. I decided to do the top 15 Abraham YouTube clips viewed on my channel. Really surprising for me was that the vast majority were all about relationships. I really thought it'd be something like money!

My small sample is not particularly representative of the whole world (of YouTube) and beyond, but it seemed to be a consistent pattern.

I guess it's because our entire existence is based on our relationship- with things, to each other, with our parents, children, lovers, partners and all that. So I'm presuming it would be the cause of most contrast!

I also take it for granted that for the most part, the majority of the time, my relationships are harmonious, I'm quite selective about who I spend a lot of time with and avoid conflict or places where I don't feel comfortable. I have a low pain threshold for being somewhere I don't feel good and I've learned to trust that and have tools in place to help me realign if I've been thrown out of well being.

For me, the key to relationships is to see the best in all, know they are doing all they can to live a better feeling life and not asking one person to be all things. But instead, gleaning the best from this person and here and there.

Letting go of someone needing to be in a certain way for you to feel better, will save you so much in stress. Withdraw your attention from them, or do your best to see the positive aspects in them. That is the work!

All is well!!!

Happy relationship-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

YEOOWSSSAAAA!!! Love love love ya Liverpool!!! Thank you for another full house freaking amazing evening! Xxx

18/5/2016

Wow!!! SWEET LORD! Loving the full house of leading edge co creators! Thank you Liverpool as always! You are freaking rocking it out! I just love being in a full house full of magical co creators all seeking to feel better about life and all that good stuff! Thank you all times a million!

A smattering of points from tonight:

- At some point you have to allow. Einstein himself said that 'Problems cannot be solved by the same mindset that created them!' You somehow, someway have to get into a space of chill mode whereby the Universe can bring you the goodies that you have been asking for. Shift your vibration and expectation to that of goodness and wellness and receptivity. And trust, and wellbeing and flow!

- 'Does this feel good/make me feel better?' All of this work can be summed up in that one question! We can keep it really simple and easy. If you were to guide yourself by asking this one question as much as you can, then you would be led to more goodies!

- Self care- time for you is so vitally important! I know (even more so than ever) that if you're a parent, have a busy job or whatever you can be bereft of time, but even a few mins at some point each day, can refresh you no end. You'll have a clear head, you'll be feeling more inspired and then you can be of infinite benefit to those around you!

- Have a good support network when shizzle hits the fan! We all have our ups and downs and can be in our own heads a lot, so can be really nice when you have a friend to turn to, just to say 'You'll be fine! I know you can do it!'

All is well!!!

Happy Liverpool-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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The power of a good (Abe) trip!!! Winning at gambling... Curiouser... Xxx

16/5/2016

I kinda get the whole inspiration and internal push thing, in fact, I try to live to a decent degree about what I'm pulled to do, especially when it all adds up combined with my realist, logical mind. Then the sky's the limit! But, I would find it hard to manufacture or even try to force it.

Looking back, I was just considering two times when I aligned with money in an 'inspired' way. Now defo don't 'try it at home' as it could be costly and I haven't been able to replicate it to that degree (probably getting in my own way!).

Both were after I had been on Abe cruises- the best thing ever! I remember it quite vividly!

One time, it was a couple of days after I got back, I was on the bus to work and somehow I got wind that it was the Grand National (horse race) that day. Now if I was going to bet on something like that, I'd at least look at the names of the horses and maybe the odds. But I just walked in, picked the first horse that grabbed me, place a bet (£5 I think) on it coming in first place and walked straight out.

The race finished and someone told me the winner and lo and behold it was mine! I can't remember but I think the win was in the region of maybe £100. Anyhoo, it was crazy satisfying to see.

The other time was a post cruise in Vegas (love it there!). I just had the pull to go to a slot machine and then boom. Won $60 (or something) on the first spin!

Now to return to my disclaimer, I wouldn't go trying that or at least with any significant amount of money. I haven't replicated it and wouldn't try too hard to do so (especially as I know how the maths behind the slots work and why the casino business wins billions!). But it is wildly fascinating how in that state of high alignment, it just fell into place. I just followed the inspiration when I was in a good space.

And that's what we generally recommend for your life. Get good feeling, then see who and what you're drawn to. And see what happens. Also, Allow in a period for letting go.

All is well!!!

Happy win-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Post group alignment!!! All the wonderful goodies!!! I just love it!!! Xxx

15/5/2016

Other than the emotional highs I experience after the groups, the manifestational results are so fantastic too!

It's strange how the whole timing thing works too, but there's something energetic to it all!

A simple example was some airmiles which needed to be added to my account. It had been 'stuck' for weeks (they usually get added on writhing a few days, this was approaching months)!). A day and a half after a group, bam! They start to flow in!

And this is only one example, I've saved hundreds of pounds on things bought the day after a group and also been given hundreds of pounds. And it's so much more than material goods. It still strikes me how 'magical' it all is.

Get yourself in a good space and you'll be amazed at what can unfold! The thing with the groups is you're feeling good and you're focused on your goals in a positive way, so it's a double whammy for your vibrational state.

I've heard of so many stories of good things happening to people after the meetups. I've been doing this for a load of years but it still surprises me.

The feeling good is your first and foremost thing to seek and the manifestational evidence is just a wonderful offshoot of it.

You just gotta love it all though! Try it, spend an evening in positivity, well being and flow and then let it go! Expect good things to happen.

All is well!!!

Happy group-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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The placebo dating effect... If they tell you it and expect it... It will be so!!! Xxx

14/5/2016

I was watching a dating experiment where they tested the power of their predictions and the power of suggestion. They had four groups- one who were supposed to get on based on their personality questionnaires and were told they were compatible, the second who were supposed to get on but were told they were mismatched, third- those who weren't supposed to get on and told so and the final group who weren't supposed to get on but were told they should get on.

Interestingly enough, those who were told they should get on (even if their tests showed not at all!), they generally rates their dates as the most enjoyable!

Such is the power of expectation, suggestion and such which! That's quite incredible. But that is as with what we believe about life. What you believe you shall achieve! So it's quite possible that they were looking for points of harmony, even though their personal interests were diametrically opposed!

So the moral of this tale is, to expect and see the best. If you go in looking for things to enjoy and love and be excited about, then that's what you should find. Life is really working in your favour, just believe!!!

All is well!!!

Happy date-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Dear Lordie lord!!! What a freaking amazing group!!! Thank you soooo much London!!! Rocking it out!!! Xxx

14/5/2016

WOW!!!! As always a freaking amazing group last night! Thank you London for your unconditional love, wisdom, well being, support, questioning and all that good stuff! I just love, love, love it! Co creation does not get much better than this on the leading edge! Stay blessed dear ones til next time!

Some great highlights from tonight- there were infinite good points, I just couldn't begin to scratch the surface of all the wisdom everyone shared!

- Patience!!! It can be frustrating and annoying when things you've been working on don't come to fruition, but you must relax and somehow, someway allow and chill! When you plant a seed you don't dig it up daily wondering where the hell the tree is! You know that in time, with the right love and care you'll have a most beautiful tree!

- Pre paving, a really great thing! Spend some time writing an email, a letter or drawing how you want a situation to happen. Spend hours or even days editing, adding and removing bits as you become clearer on what you want!

- Thank you contrast! Without knowing what you don't want, you can't know what you do want! So thank the contrast, thank the clarity, it's all really going to be OK.

- Catch your momentum in the early stages! The best time to work on something is when you're in a good space and to try and catch it early. When you're 'drowning' in the middle of it, is not really the best time to try turn it around! Try catch it early and then move it in a better direction.

- If you're got difficult people in your life, send them love! Ha! Even if it's just one thing you can find which you purely love about them (pure being the key word!), then keep that your dominant vibration! You don't do it to change them, you do it because it feels better! The rest will follow...

Thank you again as always, I love y'all tons and tons!

All is well!!!

Happy London-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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I can't see it... But it's there for sure!!! Oh, yes, now I can!!! Xxx

12/5/2016

It was quite funny, I was searching for a file on the computer and I just couldn't see it- I wasn't even sure if it existed, so I gave up.

But someone said something that indicated that it was definitely there and minutes later after I found it! What I thought was interesting about it was that when I wasn't sure if it was there, I couldn't see it. But as soon as I knew it definitely was there, it only took me moments to find.

I guess it's a shift of vibration and mental expectation. When I knew it was there, it was just a matter of honing in on it, whereas when I wasn't sure, my expectation wasn't a match to finding it.

You can take this for anything in life. If you expect to do well, succeed and expect good things from people, then you'll find it. If you expect the worst, think everyone is out to get you, then you'll look for this.

Change your expectations, beliefs and knowingness to support you and your life. We want you to feel good and do your best to enjoy your experiences. That's what life is about!

All is well!!!

Happy search-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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It's going to be one of those days... Oh no it isn't!!! Xxx

11/5/2016

I was on my way to work the other day, I had just missed the train and when I got my bus it was slightly delayed in traffic.

Once I hit work, I said to my workmate 'It's one of them days!' And as soon as the words left my lips, I caught myself. Because what does someone mean when they say that? 'It's going to be one of those days when whatever can go wrong, will go wrong!'

And that is definitely not the belief/thought/feeling I wanted to carry on! So I quickly changed my thinking to thoughts of well being, cool calm and control. The day turned out to be a teeny bit stressful but not anything major nor how I had started to pre pave it.

We have all these little phrases and things we say mindlessly but it's these things which add up and contribute to our vibration.

Raise your awareness of what you say, think and feel. And wherever possible, redirect them to things you want to experience and don't let them get ahead of you.

That is life by creation!

All is well!!!

Happy day-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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A marathon cheering squad helps you go further!!! Be your own cheerleader!!! Xxx

10/5/2016

As it was the London marathon recently- something that blows my mind, as it's something I could not do! My friend was saying how she did a 5km marathon (and on very little prep- alignment to be sure!).

She was saying how especially in the last kilometre when she was flagging, it made a tremendous difference to have the crowds cheer her on and it helped her be able to complete it. Rather surprising but I guess when you take into account how tired and drained you'd be at that point every little helps!

So the lesson here is to develop your own internal cheering squad when you're facing any challenges. When things go bad (or good!), having a good internal chatterbox really makes a huge difference in how you see and face the world.

It also helps to link with and surround yourself with positive people! Groups, Facebook, YouTube etc there are so many ways to connect with those who would love to know you. Just take the first step to reach out and connect!

Life is just a perception of it all! Make it a good one as things will be far more enjoyable and fun for you if you do. Be your best friend and cheerleader as ultimately yours is the best relationship you'll ever have.

All is well!!!

Happy cheer-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Dry eyes and all that leaks through, showing your underlying vibration!!! Xxx

9/5/2016

I get eczema and other inflammatory bits now and then, especially if I go nuts on the cake ha! Anyhoo, my optician examined my eyes and asked me if I got eczema- which was a surprising yes! How did he know?! Turns out that he could tell my eyes had been quite dry and it all ties in together.

I thought this was fascinating but it made total sense. Your vibration and physical issues will make themselves known by cropping in all sorts of places.

That's why in theory, so many modalities work- tea leaf reading, cards, aura, palmistry etc as they are all reflections of you. It just takes a skilled person to read the energy and representation of it.

When dealing with your stuff it is helpful to address the underlying vibration that is causing it. It's relatively easy to cut that annoying person or thing out of your life, but odds are you'll recreate it in some other area, because this is your dominant vibration of what you are attracting.

One way of working through this is to ask yourself 'How does this make me feel?' And you can identify where you've felt it before and then makes steps to clear it up. For example, if someone at work keeps telling you off, it might make you feel vulnerable (or defensive, or aggressive, or depressed), you can usually trace it back to a partnership that was the same, or an old boss, or your parents, or schoolmates.

Once you have this knowledge, you can set about using any of the positive tools that are out there to address the main issue. So in the case of vulnerability, you can start to work towards feeling more secure, more confident in self. And eventually when you've made that shift, it should stop repeating itself.

A long work in progress, but so worth it!!! Just keep up the focus!

All is well!!!

Happy eye-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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Make a Susan Jeffers No-Lose decision!!! Life can be so good!!! Xxx

8/5/2016

I was going through the life changing book by Susan Jeffers 'Feel the fear and do it anyway' and I just loved the model she gives for decision making.

If you're anything like me, making decisions can be a bit of a fiddle faddle, fussing about 'getting it wrong' or 'missing out' or whatever it is. Like the proverbial donkey stuck between two bales of hay, he can't decide which one to eat and ends of starving himself!

She basically suggests you make a list of positive aspects about both paths and then going whichever way calls you more.

Abe suggests the same thing, make a decision and make that the right one. List all the positive aspects about it and then give it your 100% undivided attention of well being focus.

You cannot get it wrong and you cannot get it done. Nothing is ever so out of whack that it cannot be brought back into alignment. You will always learn and expand.

If everything went your way all the time, every ime you would get bored and wouldn't really learn anything. All the entrepreneurs extol the virtue of lessons learned along the way to greatness. It's all ok!

All is well!!!

Happy decision-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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There isn't one trading secret out there... Look for a method that's right for you, it's not going to be the same for everyone!!! Xxx

8/5/2016

I was reading an article with some top tips for trading and one of them which grabbed my attention was the above. The fact that there's not one magical formula for all but each to their own.

When newbies enter the trading game (or vibrational game, or pretty much any game for that matter!), there's a common misconception that there's one secret formula which fits all. However one needs to take into account one's own personal circumstances- your budget, risk tolerance, goals and all sorts of factors which are individual to you.

To blindly follow a tip just because someone else says it, can not only lose you some money but it's not particularly satisfying. Personally I tend to be of the ilk that I'd rather do my own thing because of my own convictions than follow someone else without knowing the reasoning behind it.

Exact same advice for this vibrational work. Not all things work for all people. For me, I prefer a mellow, mindful way of looking at life (cos I'm quite go go go, control freak lol). Others prefer action based things. Whatever floats your boat and gets you going. Just get out there and try it all! What works for a friend may not impact you in exactly the same way. Have fun with the variety of life!

All is well!!!

Happy trade-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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