Forget the moaney beaches!!! Surround yourself with wonderful people!!! Xxx

How funny, I was with some peeps a while ago (not purely by choice- although yes, I do know that everything is a choice but still...). And man, were they loud and complainy, I felt so drained after that interaction!

Now, I realise that from a pure point of view it is really the relationship between self and self which needs to be worked on but anyhoo... It emphasised to me how nice it is to be with good people!

You don't get to choose, as such, your family or your workmates and I do know that many of you do have that issue. But, in the meantime just make the best of where you are. As a wise psychic told me- 'Your friends are the family you choose for yourself.' So choose em wisely peeps!

I do hear that for some people that they have no one to chat spirituality shop to. Instead of lamenting it, I say 'get up off of that thang.' With the wonders of technology you needn't leave your bed to connect with other people out there- forums, Facebook groups, YouTube. There are ton of Meetup groups, social groups and all sorts of happening things. And if all else fails, do what Louise Hay (and Susan Jeffers) recommends- start your own. Louise says 'All you need is some love and teddy bears' and you're good to go! Lol. She started off with 6 men with HIV in her living room and BOOM, decades later she's queen of the world!

Like anything else in life, just try to be a bit more conscious with who and what you surround yourself with. You're important too and should treat yourself accordingly!

Happy friend-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx