A lot of celebrities will not Google themselves, read reviews or anything like because of the sheer horror of what others say about them. This is actually quite wise in some respects but as with all things, it depends on your mental constitution. I'm sure there are those out there who use criticism to their advantage and develop and learn from it. Personally, that doesn't work for me!
As one of the celebs said- when she's doing comedy, everyone could be laughing except one person but all she can focus on is that individual who's not responding!
And that can be true for a lot of us, we could get 100 glowing reviews but one horrible comment can send us into a head spin. Especially nowadays with Facebook, YouTube etc, it's never been easier to be negative (or positive) to someone you've never met.
But, it stands to reason, that if someone can get stuck focusing on the sole negative thing being said, then surely it's possible to focus on the positive. That may take a lot of effort and practise but it is surely worth it, if just for the peace of mind that comes with it!
You have the power to live deliberately, not by default. So instead of reacting to that negative criticism and being sucked into it, turn your attention to something more positive or see the best in it. It really is that simple- in theory at least...
All is well!!!
Happy review-ing!!!
Lots of love, Nick Xxx
As one of the celebs said- when she's doing comedy, everyone could be laughing except one person but all she can focus on is that individual who's not responding!
And that can be true for a lot of us, we could get 100 glowing reviews but one horrible comment can send us into a head spin. Especially nowadays with Facebook, YouTube etc, it's never been easier to be negative (or positive) to someone you've never met.
But, it stands to reason, that if someone can get stuck focusing on the sole negative thing being said, then surely it's possible to focus on the positive. That may take a lot of effort and practise but it is surely worth it, if just for the peace of mind that comes with it!
You have the power to live deliberately, not by default. So instead of reacting to that negative criticism and being sucked into it, turn your attention to something more positive or see the best in it. It really is that simple- in theory at least...
All is well!!!
Happy review-ing!!!
Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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