I was watching a TV interview and although I could be wrong, I swear one of the interviewees fancied one of the other chatees! They were making jokes and telling stories and such which, in order (well I thought) to get the attention of the lovely lady.
But, it looked as though it was totally lost on her (she was kinda a few leagues above him to be honest lol).
It struck me that all that work when it was completely being ignored. But then part of the whole rush of that is not the other persons reaction but the adrenaline kick of it for the woo-er.
You see, you don't love the other person, but you love the way they make you feel. In other words, the way you get focused upon them in that way which provides that surge of feeling.
So at the end of the day, it's really very little to do with them and all to do with you!
It's about your alignment between you and you and your focus that generates that flow. So, write everyone out of the equation and only use them as focal points, all the while knowing it's only you and you that matters.
All is well!!!
Happy perform-ing!!!
Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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But, it looked as though it was totally lost on her (she was kinda a few leagues above him to be honest lol).
It struck me that all that work when it was completely being ignored. But then part of the whole rush of that is not the other persons reaction but the adrenaline kick of it for the woo-er.
You see, you don't love the other person, but you love the way they make you feel. In other words, the way you get focused upon them in that way which provides that surge of feeling.
So at the end of the day, it's really very little to do with them and all to do with you!
It's about your alignment between you and you and your focus that generates that flow. So, write everyone out of the equation and only use them as focal points, all the while knowing it's only you and you that matters.
All is well!!!
Happy perform-ing!!!
Lots of love, Nick Xxx
EStore: http://www.nickfon.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html
London Group: http://www.meetup.com/Abraham-Nicks/
EYLE-NL Group: http://www.meetup.com/EYLE-NL/
Manchester Group: http://www.meetup.com/LOA-Manchester/
Liverpool Group: http://www.meetup.com/LOA-LIVERPOOL/
Birmingham Group: http://www.meetup.com/LOA-Birmingham/
Brighton Group: http://www.meetup.com/abe-brighton/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/EYLE_NL
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