As a sensitive person who likes to ensure the well being of those around me, it can sometimes override what I would like and need. Growing up the only way to express anger was to bottle it or let it explode. But as I grow and mature, I realise that those aren’t the most healthiest reactions. Instead, maturely discussing things like an adult and not being afraid of backlash or loss, is what I’m trying to do.
And this does involve pushing back a little bit when people may overstep the mark. It’s just a gentle but firm way of saying, that doesn’t feel good to me, I would like it this way. How they react ultimately isn’t any of your business but how you feel is everything.
It might feel uncomfortable especially if you’re a gentle people pleaser but if you think it’s important for your soul then try it. Be gentle with yourself and the others. They may not be used to you speaking up for yourself, but you’ll be fine!
All is well!!!
Happy express-ing!!!
Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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And this does involve pushing back a little bit when people may overstep the mark. It’s just a gentle but firm way of saying, that doesn’t feel good to me, I would like it this way. How they react ultimately isn’t any of your business but how you feel is everything.
It might feel uncomfortable especially if you’re a gentle people pleaser but if you think it’s important for your soul then try it. Be gentle with yourself and the others. They may not be used to you speaking up for yourself, but you’ll be fine!
All is well!!!
Happy express-ing!!!
Lots of love, Nick Xxx
EStore: http://www.nickfon.com/store/c1/Featured_Products.html
London Group: http://www.meetup.com/Abraham-Nicks/
EYLE-NL Group: http://www.meetup.com/EYLE-NL/
Manchester Group: http://www.meetup.com/LOA-Manchester/
Liverpool Group: http://www.meetup.com/LOA-LIVERPOOL/
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Brighton Group: http://www.meetup.com/abe-brighton/
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