You love the feeling that thing gives you, not that thing you think it is... Xxx

I was talking to my friend and she was telling me how much she loved her child and all that good stuff. And what is purer than a mother's love for her child? Especially when the child hasn't started speaking yet ha!

It is that love and life force flowing through us which drives us all forward. It does serve mentioning that in the whole scheme of things, it isn't so much the person or thing as it is the way upon which you are focusing. In other words, whether it's your child, you partner, a car or your Louboutins(!), you appreciate and love them for what they represent and how they make you feel and not who or what they are.

Not to sound too dispassionate! But that is what it is all about. 'But surely?!' I hear you say, 'It is that specific partner/baby/family member that I truly adore,' and yes whilst it is the case that you may not be able to love anything in quite the same way, again, I have to say it is the way Source is flowing through you and the manner in which you are focused.

If you can really get your head round that, then you're in for a much easier, open ride through life. Because partners change, children move on, people transition and so on. An incredible amount of pain is held onto because you think you need that thing to be in your life in that exact way. But we are all transient beings, ever expanding, ever changing, ever moving forward- whether we like it or not.

And once you accept the fact that it is just life flowing through you, you can be satisfied in a myriad of ways. For me, I draw upon a plethora of things to lift my vibration. Whether it's a movie, music, good time with friends, my most amazing groups, cruises, books, whatever it is, I consciously use these wonderful tools to allow that exhilaration to flood my entire being and to allow my consciousness and vibration to rise. You can be satisfied right here, right now where you stand. Even (or especially!) when the stuff you want isn't with you. And that is the goal, to be able to focus your mind so powerfully that you are feeling as good as you can, wherever you are.

So have fun with it, steer your mind towards things which please you and relax. All is so very well and things are unfolding perfectly!

Happy loving!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx