Yes my dear- your boss is terrible but can you offer anything else??? Xxx

I was on the train to a wonderful gong bath a little while ago and there was a lady sat a few rows away. She was on the phone to a sympathetic friend or a work colleague and for what felt like an eternity was going on and on about how mean and horrible her boss was!

The strength of conviction was tremendous. It got me thinking... Yes, her boss might really be a big ole beatch and she may be completely correct in her assessment but the thing is, when you offer such a strong vibration about something, then it is nigh impossible for the Universe to give you anything but that. And even if it did, you probably would miss it.

Obviously she wasn't aware of this wonderful woo-woo-ness so she'll probably continue as is. But for you dear one, it is a message to just be conscious of what you're offering.

It's easy to look at a horrible situation you're living and it may consume you and be all you can talk and focus on. But just be aware that if you can change your story, either by re writing it, by focusing upon the positive aspects of it or even just distracting yourself from it. Then you have the power to positively influence it.

When you've set your tone purely and your vibration is of a certain pitch, then the Universe will match it with people, places and circumstances which match it.

I believe Susan Jeffers recommended going a week without complaining at all- you may find yourself having a very quiet week lol. Also, record yourself in a phone conversation and play it back- what words do you use, which circumstances do you talk about? In this day and age you could even review your whatsapp, Facebook, emails etc. What continues to crop up?

All this does is increase your self awareness to what you're saying, doing and most importantly, feeling.

If you like what you're generating, keep on doing it! If not, then change it. You're wise enough to do so now.

All is well!

Happy phone-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx