I’ve never really been particularly excited about writing a book- it just feels like way too much work. But I did put it on my new year list for the fun of it. Then the more I thought about it, the more do able it became. I figured that if I wrote 500-1000 words a day, which takes me anywhere between 30-120 minutes depending on how inspired I am, then after a month, it’s book length!

Very achievable! It’s just you have to break it down into small steps. A huge goal is just that- something which seems to far away but as you focus on the next logical step, then before you know it. You’ve done it!

All is well!!!

Happy book-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx
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If you’re working through an issue that you’re deliberately trying to shift (especially if it keeps coming up in your life!), there are two ways of seeing how it’s going. First and foremost- what’s your initial gut reaction when you think about it. Not how you think you should feel or what affirmations you’ve been doing but how you really feel. If it’s markedly different- hopefully more positive, then you’re well on your way to seeing manifestational change. If not, then the other way is by what is going on around you.

If you keep continuing to attract people or situations which are unpleasing then this is just an indicator of something in your vibration. When you’ve truly changed your vibration- be it from letting it go or shifting to having a more positive perspective then things must change. Life will reflect this back to you. You just have to trust that doing the inner work will eventually yield external results.

All is well!!!

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Whilst the focus of online social media is to live your best life with the fanciest holidays, relationships and such which, there is something touching in being open and honest. We all have our up and down days and being vulnerable and opening your heart to others and saying your struggling is a really powerful thing.

Be sure not to continue to beat the drum of the problem however, you will need to somehow separate your vibration from what’s going wrong to be able to allow the solution in.

All is well!!!

Happy vulnerable-ing!!!

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Heartbreak, breakdown, depression aren’t very pleasant to experience but the exponential growth that comes about as a result can be the most powerful thing ever. Adele, Ariana, Rihanna and all the other artists out there have expressed their pain through their music and have done incredibly well. In fact, it’s produced some of their best work.

The value of contrast is that it causes us to expand but we then use that to hold us back from going with that expansion, instead we lament, rerun the past in our heads or worry that the future will hold the same.

It’s all ok, just take a break from it all and know that when it clears, things will be bigger and brighter than ever.

All is well!!!

Happy art-ing!!!

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I'm constantly amazed by how many wonderful people I come across- they may not be like that all the time but the part I see of them is the helpful, kind, fun loving, joyous beings. If you approach people with kindness and an openness hopefully they'll reciprocate. If not, then that's their loss and you cannot take it personally. You just have to be easy about it all.

Everyone wants to be loved, feel validated and good about themselves. Some have completely lost touch with themselves but they are doing their best. Others are more in tune. Your goal is to set your vibrational tone and let life bring you all the wonderful things it has to offer.

All is well!!!

Happy connect-ing!!!

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We are all connected and what you do and receive has a ripple effect. You just have to keep working towards what you want in life because you never know the one thing which could forever impact your life. A 5 min conversation, a magical rendezvous, an encouraging word from a good teacher could divert the course of your whole life to something new and magical.

There's so much to live, learn and experience out there in the world that you have to keep mixing it up. You'll learn, love, lose, get hurt, be ecstatic, that's the joy of being human and in this physical life experience. It's all for the living of life!

All is well!!!

Happy life-ing!!!

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It's really clear when someone is loving what they are doing. It shines through in the way they carry themselves, the manner in which they speak about it and the general vibes they give off. Conversely, when someone hates what they do, that couldn't be clearer either.

You want to enjoy as much of your life as possible. Whether it's your job, partner, family, friendships- whatever it is, you want to love it all, because your time here is limited. It's not always easy and you're not striving for love perfection but you want the majority of your time to be doing something you enjoy. If not at work, then find hobbies which light you up. Music, dance, movies, cooking- there's so much out there to enjoy.

All is well!!!

Happy enjoy-ing!!!

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It can feel very isolating if you're going through something different from the norm- be that your gender identity, sexual orientation, health issues or spiritual identity. But odds are someone else has gone through something similar. They may not have gone through exactly the same thing but there are people out there who can understand.

You are never alone, you can reach out and ask for help. There's so many resources at your fingertips to help you get through life. It's just being open and receptive to the good that you've asked for.

There's always someone or something in this world to get you through it all. Know that you've asked and all is well and working out for you.

All is well!!!

Happy weird-ing!!!

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Apparently I saw an article that found out that you're more likely to face your fears when you're on your travels. This makes sense, you're on unfamiliar territory, you're already feeling expansion and hopefully excited about where you are and what's to come.

​It's always nice being in a fresh and new environment- the thrilling sense of what's possible, leaving your cares away. However, you can feel that about life where you are now. All it takes is a shift of perspective. The journey you take home, the office you walk into, your delicious meals- it could all be viewed from a wonderful place of beingness.

Change starts with you, right here, right now. Travels are fun but not necessary to face your fears.

All is well!!!

Happy travel-ing!!!

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Not wanting to get into conflict, I find it quite hard to ask for what I want. I don't usually have to as I generally have a smooth life experience, however it does rear it's head from time to time. Previously​, I would've just shrugged it off, sucked it up and just got what was given (or taken away), but now, i realise that part of my emotional growth means asking for what I want.

To develop my own sense of worth and knowingness within self is definitely one of my working points and also to realise that there is going to be disagreements in life and these are unavoidable, but it comes with being here and being present. To not shirk away and stand up for self.

This isn't my advice to all but if you have found yourself being overrun in life, it's important to state maturely and calmly what you would like, you may not get it but at least you've declared out loud what's important to you.

All is well!!!

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Sometimes people ask me if they are doing the processes correctly and I reflect back to them- I can't tell them if they are, but are they thinking and feeling better. If they can answer that they are, then they're well along the way.

That's the key with all of this- are you enjoying and having fun in whatever endeavour you doing- be it a relationship, job, task or whatever you're involved in, make sure you're enjoying it as much as you can. Don't do it just for the outcome and results, because you lose the experience along the way and then if you get what you want, it's not usually that great.

Try to think and feel in a positive way as you go through your life experiences.

All is well!!!

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I do appreciate the customer service aspect of Djing! It gives you an opportunity to connect with a great variety of people (albeit with them usually being little drunk!). I'm definitely not one of those prissy DJs who won't play requests (that's annoying that is!), because they are your customer.

However, this isn't always possible. Sometimes, the song won't fit in the current vibe (so I'll try play it later) or it's something that management won't allow. You can't please all the people all the time. And they may get angry and annoyed but there's nowt I can do for them (and they've usually forgotten later!).

That's like life- there's only so much you can do for others and it doesn't matter whether they like it or not. It's just the way it is.

All is well!!!

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Watching those reality shows, you see people complain about why they get eliminated and sure, some of them are 'robbed' and things don't go their way. However, when they are granted a reprieve shortly afterwards, it usually goes the same way. And they go on to blame something or someone else.

This demonstrates the idea that you are with you always and that it's not necessarily someone out there's fault. So bottom line- stop complaining and focus on doing the best you can. A moaning Minnie is never usually fun to be around. So just do your best wherever you are, find things to appreciate and love you.

You can't control anything out there, so don't! Go inwards.

All is well!!!

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I have made a couple of boo boos when Djing- typically when people are harassing me for requests. You can imagine my stress levels when the music stops and there's 500 people looking at you wondering what the hell happened!

Albeit seconds to fix, it feels like a mini eternity! But that has taught me to remain in the moment and conscious as possible. To really slow down and move deliberately. I then have to get the music going as soon as I can and then get back on track.

If I try I to rush or carrying on in a flustered state, it'll only get worse. So it really is good for crisis training ha!

All is well!!!

Happy slow-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

There's always something to focus on, such in the nature of being human. But it's up to you where you leave your attention. There will always be something to worry about but conversely there'll always be things to appreciate. It's being conscious which is most important. You can drive yourself insane with thoughts of doom and gloom or you can fly high with looking at all the good things in your life.

The key is to staying centred and nurturing to yourself and your well being. It's all about how you think and feel and what you believe. You can be miserable or you can be happy, the choice is yours!

All is well!!!

Happy about-ing!!!

​Lots of love, Nick Xxx

One of the new things I’ve been implementing as part of my new years resolutions is to let my mind go through the day and think of all the wonderful things that have happened. And it’s a really nice way to drift off to sleep, as opposed to worrying about all things that need to be done tomorrow or what went wrong in the past.

It just feels good to appreciate and think of all the wonderfulness that’s gone on as we overlook and forget so much of what is wonderful in our lives. It’s a simple but powerful technique.

All is well!!!

Happy drift-ing!!!

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I’ve really been trying to be in the present moment. To catch myself and breathe and relax especially if I’m feeling wobbly- physically or vibrationally. It’s just a good practise to feel as good as you can in the present. Unless your now is horrible and you’re being threatened, then it would probably serve you to turn away from it. But for most of us, the now is a pretty good place to be. There’s much to appreciate and that’s the practise.

Everything from the lighting, to the warmth, the wonderful transport, music, tech and so on. We have so many things that even as near as a decade ago we wouldn’t even have been able to dream about.

So love your present!

All is well!!!

Happy present-ing!!!

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I was watching the Fyre Festival doc on Netflix. In a nutshell it was an all style no substance music festival, full of beautiful people and wonderful music- in theory! It came terribly undone when the organisers completely misfired, planning went awry and it collapsed underneath them.

What they did do well was the advertising- getting a load of gorgeous models and online influencers to make the event look stunning. One of the staff commented that on his online profile he kept posting pics of his office being a beautiful Caribbean island- which was true, but everything else went to pot!

Don’t be deceived or sucked in by outside appearances. Use your heart and discernment to work out what works for you. Don’t be jealous of what anyone else seems to have, just appreciate your life and create for yourself.

All is well!!!

Happy island-ing!!!

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One of my younger mates was lamenting about how something he’d seen on a very distant contact’s Instagram (or Snap) or something or rather made him feel really bad. I snapped (get it!) and said of all the things to feel bad about, please don’t put your attention on stupid pictures that someone else puts up about their life.

Don’t compare yourself to anyone else, especially electronically. Everyone wants to put their best face on when posting their stuff online. If you’re going to get jealous at least make sure it’s about something real that you can verify and even then, you have no idea what their life experience is really like.

All is well!!!

Happy Insta-ing!!!

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​I was thinking back to the olden days of DJing and thinking what a nightmare it must’ve been to have had to carry a ton of vinyl around, or CDs or even cassettes- if Djs used them? Now, I can carry ten of thousands of tunes on my laptop. If I get a request I don’t have, I can just go online and download it in a few minutes and ta da- hopefully happy customer!

We live in an amazing age where life is so much easier and things are so much more achievable. Really do it your best to make things work for you and complain not at all.

All is well!!!

Happy deck-ing!!!

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I was watching some big directors being interviewed and one of them was talking about how filmmaking is democratized because most anyone can create content these days with the minimal amount of equipment. It’s not limited to the elite rich who can only afford film stock and so forth.

We live in a phenomenal time so make the most of, there really are no excuses for not pursuing your dreams! Even if it’s only a small scale, it doesn’t matter. Just get out there and get started on anything that puts you towards your life goals.

Do it for the fun of it and not to gain recognition- it might happen, it might not but at least you’ve enjoyed the ride.

All is well!!

Happy goal-ing!!!

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Whilst the Universe doesn’t quite work the same way as a DJ request, it does help sometimes to be specific. I’ll have people come up to me and give me a general genre and ask me to play it for them. Whilst that’s wonderful, it’s a bit too broad for me- my old school, would likely be different from someone else’s definition of old school. Although I’m an 80s child, I’m not really into 80s music, so not sure of the hits.

So, I ask for specific tracks they want- it helps me locate and access them so much easier. Thankfully, the Universe doesn’t work in quite the same way. By the general living of life you are asking and so over the years and years of asking, the Universe knows what you want and so can deliver it when you’re in alignment with it.

Happy request-ing!!!

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