​You have to know (or remind yourself) that you really have no control over anything or anyone. It’s all outside of your experience. The only thing you can control is your reaction to the situation. And that should mean everything to you. Stand in your power and strength of who you are and know that you’ll be able to deal with anything.

If others want to react angrily or horribly to anything, then let them. But that does not need to be your experience of it. Instead, be strong within self, know that you’re always doing what’s best for you, that you are wonderful and loving and that all is well. What they say or do has nothing to do with you.

All is well!!!

Happy stand-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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It’s not the easiest thing to love thine enemy or your ex (are they much different some would ask ha!), but that would be great if you could. If you find the wonderful qualities about each of your past peoples that would be so great! Because you’d be tuning your vibration into the best things that you love and therefore the Universe can only bring you the best things you love about life!

Don’t do it for their sake, don’t do it try to get them back (or push them away!). Set your vibrational tone by finding what you love about them all and then you’ll attract a partner, friends and people who are good and a match to that!

All is well!!!

Happy amaze-ing!!!

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Now that you are selective sifter and powerful conscious creator, you can step out of emotionally charged situations a bit better. Realise that how another person is, what they say and do is far more about them than it is about you. If they are quick to criticise and berate you, then know that how they talk to themselves is likely to be infinitely harsher on themselves.

You only see a fraction of what someone is truly like. So, try not to take it all too personal! Be strong and secure with yourself- and that is the goal. Be so knowing of who you really are, that no one’s meanness can penetrate your shield of well being!

All is well!!!

Happy personal-ing!!!

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I was off to the movies with a friend and I just said we can rock up whenever as the ads and trailers take so long before the movie. To which my friend replied that they wanted to go early and milk all of it!

Going to the movies is such a rare treat for them due to being mommy, that even the adverts and trailers were entertainment!

I find them quite long and tedious as I had been to the movies quite a lot!

But it goes to show how a different perspective can be had about the same thing. Learn to savour all the things that are happening instead of rushing onto the next thing. There is deliciousness to be had in each and every moment that we are here. That’s why we chose to be physical! To enjoy and explore all that’s going on now!

All is well!!!

Happy ad-ing!!!

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It’s tricky when we look to other people to approve of us and we use that as a gauge for self worth. We are trained from a young age by our parents to ‘do this and we’ll love you.’ Don’t do this and ‘we won’t love you.’ And so, we look to those we respect and want to like us to approve of us.

But the thing is, we won’t be liked by everyone, in fact, the more you go out and live life, the more you’ll come across and then you’ll definitely find people you don’t agree with.

‘It’s ok to be not liked by everyone’ is one of my affirmations. It reminds me that not everyone has to think or look upon me in a certain way for me to feel good enough.

Constantly reassure yourself that you’re good enough exactly as you are. That was a huge push behind Louise Hay’s work. To see and love the perfection that is you!

All is well!!!

Happy alright-ing!!!

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One of the affirmations I have claimed for myself is that ‘it’s ok to make mistakes!.’ We are cursed with the unease of perfectionism, that somehow, someway we have to be perfect for our friends, job, partners, families. But that is impossible!

It’s ok to get things wrong, to misunderstand, to mishear, to get angry, to get upset. It’s all part of being human. You’re not inferior, or unloveable or not good enough if you get it wrong. So lower those defences and definitely don’t be so hard on yourself!

Chillout, affirm that it’s ok and you’re ok and breathe.

All is well!!!

Happy mistake-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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I like to keep the peace, not rock the boat and keep a generally low profile if I can. However, I am learning to speak up for myself a little, to speak my truth and it’s ok to ask for what I want! That doesn’t mean the other person, place or thing has to react in the way that makes me happy, but for me, it’s important to speak up and out.

In some cases, nothing may change, but in the cases where it does, then I’ve benefitted immensely. It’s alright for you work out what would make your life easier and to see what can be done to achieve it.

For a highly sensitive person, introvert, speaking up for self does definitely not come naturally but that doesn’t mean you have to override your gut and what would make things work better for you, in order to please someone else.

Be you and be proud!

All is well!!!

Happy ask-ing!!!

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Everyone has their own experience and views on the world. And of you! Like to me, some might see you as confident, the life and soul of the party. Others may experience the more insecure or introvert or quieter aspect of your nature. And consequently, they may respond to you accordingly.

But they are not you, they don’t know for you and so don’t take their comments personally. You have to pay attention to how you feel and think about yourself. Your gap between you and your Source is the only one that matters.

You cannot change yourself in enough different ways to please someone else. It’s impossible. Just focus on seeing yourself as powerful, confident and appreciative of what you bring to the table.

All is well!!!

Happy self-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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​It can be really disheartening when contrast comes up, especially when it’s things that have happened before. But you have to be gentle with yourself. Life and/or you have obviously believed it to be in your experience for some reason. So instead of getting frustrated with yourself, just see what there is in the situation.

Is there some unresolved issue, do you have to practise reacting differently? It’s all just an indicator of vibration and something that’s within you. A lesson to be learned, something to grow and gain from ultimately.

If it’s the same situation over and over again, then I would say there’s something that needs to be addressed. It’ll probably keep getting bigger and more prominent until there’s some shift. It’s just being open and conscious to it all!

All is well!!!

Happy gentle-ing!!!

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There was a mini crisis (I’m talking proper first world issue!) but it was a bit of contrast for me. In the grand scheme of things it really wasn’t that big a deal, but it pushed me beyond a comfort zone. But I had to step up and get on with it.

Thankfully, everything went better than it would have originally but it wouldn’t have been my first choice of unfoldment!

But it goes to show that when push comes to shove, you can do it! It’s that contrast and expansion that leads us to more and bigger and greater well being! That’s all you need to do and just align with the solution.

Get out of the mode of asking and step into the vibration of answers, goodness and your goodies. Trust in your ability to handle anything and everything that comes your way.

All is well!!!

Happy flow-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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I saw an Abe quote which said something along the lines of not to ask anyone to be there for you, instead you be there for you! Quite a powerful thought. What they are pushing for you is self reliance. Instead of asking anything or anyone to be in a particular way, they’re telling you that the best thing is for you to be sure and self within you!

Not everyone is going to be in the best space at all times for you. But what you can do, is train yourself to be in the best place for you at any point in time. Surrender to the Universe knowing that you’re good and you can allow anything in and that you are supported and protected at all times. That things are always working out for you no matter how it may seem!

All is well!!!

Happy reliant-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

One of my Law Of Attraction buddies was speaking about one of their current life experiences and they asked the question ‘How did I attract it?!’ It is obviously good, interesting and fascinating to dig around one’s experience, thoughts and feelings to see how something was brought about.

But, even more important is to ask yourself why you continue to perpetuate the situation! That is infinitely worth more, because you might be too in the thick of it to dig around. But ask yourself how you can switch your viewpoint and action points to change what’s going on with that which you don’t like.

You can react differently, change perspective, change action, change the situation. If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got!

All is well!!!

Happy perpetuate-ing!!!

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​Sometimes through sheer kindness of the Universe and customer services of a company, things can tilt in your favour. You’re nice or something which elicits such things and therefore the Universe or a customer agent will tip things for you where there usually isn’t meant to be goodies for you.
 
But sometimes, as can happen, a customer will keep arguing and complaining or pushing for something else. Which means that they lose the benefit on offer. Accept your good and complain not at all. Take a hint when someone’s trying to do their best for you.
 
Be open and receptive to all the good that is in your way. And question not at all!
 
All is well!!!
 
Happy good-ing!!!
 
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​One of my friends has a relatively complicated situation with her passport and such which. The solution is pretty straightforward but definitely not without its issues. I believe it’s just all about keeping a positive mental attitude. There is a way forward with all of this.
 
And one has to trust that if it doesn’t work out, the Universe has got bigger and better plans. You have to believe that everything is working out for your highest good. If things aren’t going quite as you would like then let it go and know that it’s all going to be alright.
 
However, on the other hand, if you keep getting the same types of outcome- bullies, rejection etc then you might want to examine your underlying beliefs. Maybe you don’t feel worthy enough, good enough, that life is hard. If so, then definitely seek to work with some material or professional to shift any patterns.
 
All is well!!!
 
Happy cover-ing!!!
 
Lots of love, Nick Xxx

​As I’ve grown older, wiser and hopefully a bit more aligned, I’m really trying to turn inwards for self worth. Especially in this day and age of social media relentlessness where whoever has the most likes, reposts and such which is deemed to be good enough, it can be hard to not look externally for validation.
 
But, you just have to love and respect yourself for you. Simply because you exist. Try not to base how good you feel about yourself on the comments others make, the number of relationships, dates, how high your salary is. None of it matters as it’s all fleeting. You could be in vogue one day and then a boring old fad the next. Time passes, people forget, everyone is selfishly focused (and that’s a good thing, because it cannot be any other way!).
 
Just learn to love you for you. Validate yourself because you chose to be here and now. That’s all that matters.
 
All is well!!!
 
Happy validate-ing!!!
 
Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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It can be really frustrating when illness strikes, whether it’s short term or long term. But you have to be ok with it. It’s just a physical manifestation of your vibration, showing you that something somewhere is wrong.

Instead of making your body the enemy, make it your friend. Ask it what it’s showing you. You can do affirmations, visualisations, whatever it takes. Louise Hay’s work on cancer and aids has been truly revolutionary.

There’s so many ways for you to treat it. Whether it’s through traditional medication and surgery to more alternative therapies to treatments of the mind. Align your vibrational energy and see what stands out. But know that it is fixable, the solution is waiting there but also that’s it’s ok to be exactly where you are- how can it be otherwise?

All is well!!!

Happy ok-ing!!!

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I was watching a dancing reality show and they obviously cut to the family trauma. The main character was reflecting on how strong he is and how much he overcame. But only because he had dance to inspire him- the teachers, focusing on the art and using that to allow good life flow through him and to take it to the next level.

Find your passion- whatever it is that gets you up in the morning and you just love to do. Whether it’s dance, or art, cooking, reading, writing, hiking or anything. Reflect on what you would do if you have unlimited time and money. What would uplift you and get you through your darkest days.

And simply try to do more of it! Make a date with yourself. Focus more on self care and see how it changes you!

All is well!!!

Happy passion-ing!!!

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I was watching one of the guilty pleasure reality shows and they were having a sort of mini family reunion and they were reflecting on the abuse, disfunction and arguing they had and were still having! The older brother, more mature and wiser and objective was able to tell them that the chain of pain had to be broken with them.

Instead of their children turning out as abusive, alcoholics and following in their footsteps, they had to instigate positive change.

Just because of what you or your family has gone through, no matter how many generations have been the same, it doesn’t matter. If you want to change and live a good life, you can. You just have to be open and willing. Keep working it!

All is well!!!

Happy chain-ing!!!

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​A guy was in the hot seat talking to Abraham and he commented that it’s not just sitting round and meditating and letting stuff in. He noticed that Esther works every week delivering the lectures, editing the material and travelling here, there and everywhere!

Abraham said of course there’s action needed, they never said it wasn’t but the distinction they wish to highlight is that it’s action taken from an aligned place that makes it more powerful. Get into alignment and then apply for the job, seek the relationship and whatever else it is that you want.

Action in alignment in the most powerful, fun thing. It won’t feel like work because you’re loving it so much you’d do it all day, every day and for free!

Make sure you enjoy it all. Get your mind, vibration and emotion in the happy space and then look for action to take.

All is well!!!

Happy action-ing!!!

Lots of love, Nick Xxx

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